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Hi my friends old friends live far away from my new house and i dont go to the same school anymore. I'm 13 and i wanna know how we can stay friends for 3 more years (so we can drive to each others houses). I know it will be hard but what can i do??? Please help me!!!

Write to eachother, call eachother, e-mail, aim, there are tons of ways. Go to like school events. Like if you are in the same county and your schools play eachother. Or plan time to hang at the mall or something.

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hi i'm 14 year old girl and my friend has this boyfriend who she's been dating for 11 months and he totally cheats on her! i;ve told her about it many times! finally she asked him about it when i told her he frenched one of my friends! after she talked to him about it she said it was ok cause he said it was only a friendship kiss cause she was down in the dumps! i told her that it was on the lips tounge and all and she was like i know! she believes EVERYTHING he says! wut should i do? she won't listen to me! can't just sit there and watch him cheat on her!help plz!

I'd confront him about it. Tell him that its not cool what he has done. Then go to you friend and sit her down and tell her everything. Tell her she would be better off without him and make sure you tell her if her was if there is more times that she doesn't know about. Remind her you are just being a friend and looking out for her.

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So this is my first year at this new school and I came here looking forward to a whole new future and being able to restart witha clean slate and nobody knowing who you were or what you were like. And I have been doing pretty good so far I wanted to be friends with everyone, because that wasnt how it was at my old school, and that worked except I had this one bestfriend at the begining of the year now we hardley ever hang out and she says that I am just trying to be popular. She is completely wrong I think???? I tried to explain and she says she understands now but I dont think she does. What do you think I am dong trying to be popular or just trying to have a lot of friends?!?!?!?!?!?!

There is nothing wrong with trying to have friends or trying to be popular just watch how you treat you old friends. Its all grand having loads of friends, but you need to remember who has been there for you.

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i use to be really good friends with this gurl. but we dont talk anymore. we both said some really bad things about eachother. she wrote a note to when we were friends saying that we would be friends forever no matter what. I feel like she wants to fix things with me but im not sure. Should i talk to her. If i do what should i say?

Just talk to her...whats there to lose? Tell her that you miss talking with her and hanging out. Then ask her how things have been.

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I used to be best friends with this one girl maddie for 3 years..she was really close friends with jaime too.. after a while i started hanging out with jaime and never talked to maddie.. me and jamie practicatlly hated her! but it was immature so i started being her friend again after a year.. but jamie gets so mad when i talk to maddie.. what should i do!

Explain to Jamie that you can be friends with more then one person and just because your friends wiht Maddie doesn't mean she has to be. If she is a true friend she'll understand.

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