hi im pia. . .im 13 and i L-O-V-E music. . .whenever my friends have problems they go to me and they ask me for advice. . .i think they go to me because i like to help and im a very loyal friend and im not a control freak even though i give advice it doesnt mean that thats what you have to do you i just give ideas of what i think you should do. . .im also hardworking and determined. . .uhm well til here if you're having problems dont hesitate to come to me cause i'll be here for you til the end bye!!! xOxO pia =P
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Okay i have this best friend who is pretty much like a sister, we've lived nxt door all of our lives well anyways recently b4 skool started her and her bf broke up..these 2 are like bound to get married no joke their 2 perfect together..well now that its december and she still talks to him they still talk about being together and she shows me all the conversations and everything...What im getting at is that its really starting to annoy me about how obsessed she is because all she talks about is him we will be watching a movie and shell start talking about him..everything is about him and its like its not ever her anymore. I want to tell her that its getting kind of annoying but i dont know how to tell her because i dont want her to get mad and stop talking to me. Any ideas? srry its so long i rate! (link)
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i know how you feel my bestfriend is like that too. . .just talk to her calmly and tell her "(name) uhm dont get mad ok??? no offense but can you not talk about him all the time. . .cant we talk about other things?" if shes really your bestfriend she'll understand. . .
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Here is the deal! I have this best friend and we are really close. We've known each other for 5 years now. Anyways, his parents have a new job and they have to move! he's not going but he wants to. Anyways, we've been talking and i'm starting to thimk that he is lying to me about certain stuff. I know that some of it might be private, but he has been telling some other people. What shoul I do?.
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tell him what you feel and ask him the questions you want to ask. . .for example(ask him nicely) did you lie to me about .....something like that friendship is being true 2 each other making each other know how the other feels so you'll understand each other better. . .
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ok so my friend likes this boy who doesnt really like her like that, but she doesnt know it yet, and the person who she likes is the person who i might like and ive might have liked him longer than she knows, so what do i do?
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tell her the truth. . .tell her you like him and tell her about the guy. . .if she doesnt believe you and she only thinks that you are lying so you would have him all to yourself. . .tell her that its for her own good if she doesnt want to get hurt. . .
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Ever since I started 7th grade, I`ve had no self confidence. I`m always thinking I`m to fat, annoying, ugly, unpopular, a dork, mean, loud, stupid etc. I used to be so self-confident ;I used to love everything about my self, and people respected me more for that. Now I lie to make people think I'm more popular and I always catch myself acting fake or saying something completley mean. I always worry if what I'm saying or dressing like will make me seem more unpopular. I get jelous of my friends if their in the popular girl's profiles as their bff`s, or if I`m not invited to hang out with them. I worry no guys like me, I worry I`m not good enough. I try to fix in to certain cliques such as the populars ; goths ; preps ; jocks ; nerds etc. just to feel accepted and I'm always changing my self to please people. I can't stand this anymore, I want to go back to being me. I dont even know who I am anymore. Please help. I know it longs, but I'd appreciate any help! (link)
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Did anyone tease so much that you thought you weren’t good enough anymore?
Don’t think about too much negative things about yourself. .I mean. . .be proud of who you are try to look for your weaknesses and improve on them. . .Did any incident happen that transformed you to a person who has no self confidence at all ? See look people respected you when you acted like yourself. . . when you were showing your true color. Don’t lie. . .because at the end they’ll find out that youre lying then they wont trust you anymore which makes another problem arise. If people think you dress weird then let them think that whats important is how YOU feel and most important what YOU want to look like. If you want your friends back just confront them in a calm way tell them how you feel. . . if theyd understand. . .you have a real friend ! ! ! Join any clique you want but never be or rather never try to be something youre not. You don’t have to lie to be accepted you don’t have to act. . . just accept yourself first gain some self confidence and when you develop you’ll be respected again and all. . .also you dont need a man to complete your life all you need are friends who'll be there for you til the end. . .the last thing I want 2 tell u is BE YOUR SELF ! ! !
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