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I'm in my first serious relationship with an amazing guy. My family & friends all like him, and of course I like him very much. The problem is, since him and I have been together, I've spent less time with friends. They have been trying to hangout with me, but for some reason I have more fun with my boyfriend. I feel like a horrible friend because these girls are great friends. Is it so wrong that I'd rather be with my boyfriend at this point in my life? (17/F)

my aunt was talking to me about this the other day, 'cause my friend's boyfriend takes up all of her time.
do you honestly think that this relationship is going to go on for a loonng time? and even if you do, i know everyone says this, but boyfriends come and go and like... friends are really important.
so just try not to cut them out a ton, but hang out with your boyfriend a lot as well.
maybe have them hang out together with you?
lol, i don't know but good luck. :)

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somebody spread a rumors that im bi please help what should i do? i was just playing around my friends all the time and i dont know why some people spread the rumors about im biosexual 100% straight!! help

haha woah. same thing happened to one of my best friends. people will get over it, and yeah just say that they have no clue what they're talking about. everyone plays around with their friends... and like boob grabbing and stuff. but people take it the wrong way. so just try to make sure they know you're not.

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Okay, so there's this guy, he is SO cute, we've been friends all this year. And I fell in love with our friendship.

Silly as it sounds. But I like him, ALOT! He sometimes calls me at night, and one time, he wanted to meet me at the mall and watch a movie. (May I add, he doesn't know I like him.)

Okay, during school, my very close friend, talks about my crush ALL THE TIME. It kind of bothers me cause she says all this stuff like, "Oh, he keeps poking me in the arm, and told me it was a 'Love Tap'" I got pretty sad when she told me this. (Also, may I add, I told her I liked him before she even told me this.)

Last night, she told me that she 'kind of' likes my crush! To be honest, I wasn't surprised since she made is OBVIOUS!

But the problem is, she's ALOT prettier then me. She went out with more guys then I have. And most guys ask her out and everything. I'm just scared that maybe my crush might fall for her, and forget about me. I'm just scared if he DOES ask her out, that she's going to say yes.

I don't know what to do. My crush doesn't know I like him, and my friend likes him. I don't know what to tell my friend how I feel about this. I don't want to ruin our friendship. But it's really killing me. It gets me really mad, knowing that ALL the guys I thought is cute, or had a crush on, she happen to like them as well.

I don't know what to do anymore. Please help.
Sorry for this to be so long. But I need advice.

Thanks, I rate high! =]

oh my gosh! this happened to me. like... exactly. haha tell your friend that for once you want to like a guy without having her barging in on it, and you just want him to like you back. make it a deep sentimental conversation, lol. just talk to her and tell her how much it'd mean to you if she'd 'backoff' just a little bit. don't try to make it in a mean way though cause then she'll just get pissed and think you're trying to control her... that's what happened with mine. but yeah just talk to her, and eventually it'll get through her head. hope i helped :)

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i have a question me and this guy are going out and like his family like his parents like arent the fondest of me like she is holding something against me. see me and this other guy went to prom together and the guy im going out with now is obviously pretty bummed about this so his mom is constantly holding this against me and just wont gimmie a 2nd chance! So i plan on writing her a letter. I need some help on what to say to her. Like explaining why i did go. I went because he proved 2 me it was so important and that he wanted to go with me. Well this guys mom (my bf) is obviously protecting her "little baby boy"... well trying. but i cant tell her why i wanted cuz she'd hate me more. So please help! ((i dont wanna do it person))

just write the mom a letter telling her why exactly you went to the prom with this guy. you can't change the past, and neither can the mom. the mom shouldn't have anything to be angry about; you went to the prom with another guy before dating her "little baby boy." it was before you two were going out, so why does that make a difference!? just tell her the real reason why you went to the prom with this dude. :)

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ok! i absolutely LOVE this guy, and my 7th grade friends told him that i liked him, and he still hasn't done anything. he like stares at me a lot (says my friends) I really want him to ask me out!!! what should i do???

HEY! I know who this is! Try to talk to him more and hang out with him. If he stares at you, then I'm sure he has atleast some feelings for you! Or, chances are that he doesn't like you, but still looks at you, because either it's akward (hard to explain) or just because. Sometimes I don't think and I'm just staring at this guy I doN'T like for no reason! Then he looks over at me like "How you doin'" jk but is just like "Oh I saw you lookin' at me!" haha But, yeah get to know him.

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What are some really good movies to watch with friends..im 14/F?? Thanks

The Ring, Scream 1-3, Halloween, The Excorcist, Scarface, Ace Ventura, Meet the Fockers (in theatres, duh), Liar Liar, Love Actually, i Robot, Jackas-, 13 Going on 30, American Outlaws (mmm Colin Farrell XD), Alexander (omg another mmm C.F. one!) um... Ferris Bueller's Day Off (awesome man), Dumb and Dumber(er), Not Another Teen Movie, Saving Silverman, Wayne's World 1 + 2, Signs, The New Guy.. I can't think of any else, but that should be enough!

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Well,there's a boy I like and my feelings are so deep for him,and he is my friend.But I don't know how to tell him or should I tell him,because he has a girlfriend.So how can I tell him and what should I say?
I am a female,
and I'm 14

awww! you should go get him! tell him privately how you feel about him. maybe like at a party or new years eve party like right when it turns new years and the big ball in new york drops! awh! that'd so soo romantic! you should really just tell him that you like him more that a friend and find a way to say how much you like him. from the additional info it sounds like you love him! you have to take a chance even if he has a girlfriend. good luck~

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she's younger than me and really immature..she always thinks she's all that because she flirts with guys non stop. its just grosse! no one likes her but i cant just not be her friend what should i do? it's really annoying. i told her she flirted all the time, even with my boyfriend and she's like so? its my nature. so ya, what would you have me do?

i think that you should keep telling her and if she keeps keeps doing then you are going to have to tell her to face it, and that no one likes it! it's not her nature. i have a younger friend and she does the same thing, and it turns out she was trying to impress me. so, she probably just trying to impress you, becuase you're older, and she looks up to you. maybe, even have someone, such as a friend, boyfriend, or someone else tell her. she needs to know, or she'll look like an idiot, if she doesn't already!

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one of my best friends keeps on ignoring me and hanging out with somoene else not that its a problem or anything, but whenever she hangs out with the girl she acts all b****y to me, am i just jelous of her or has she changed, and if she has changed would there be anyway she wont be as b****y to me if i talk to her

omg! that same thing like JUST happened to me. i don't think you're jealous, you're probably just mad that she just ditched you like *that*! and no one likes a spoiled brat who acts like that, and yes, she probably has changed. and if you try to talk to her and she starts acting like that, then just tell her to stop! that's what i did, and now she's.. 50% better. i hope this helped!

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she's really mean to me. We've been friends since fourth grade so I don't want to just drop her like a hot rock, but she's getting on my nerves; she's rude to my parents, she is always mean to me and makes fun of me and my other friends all the time. It's annoying and I can't stand her. I pretend to not let it bother me, should I be doing that, or should I tell her how I feel?

Well, this happened to me once and i just told her to her face, or maybe an email. i don't think the email would be more.. personal? but just tell her how rude she is and if she keeps going then she'll have no friends. and it looks like she's going that way!! so, like i said, if you really want her to be your friend, sure why not, tell her face to face. but, if you don't want her to friend, try to ignore it and get away! it's your decision!


um, hope this helped!

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