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hey people! my names tayla and im 13. not quite in 8th grade yet but pretty close to it. im usually the one my friends go to when they need advice, or to just talk about things that have been going on. im a good listener and im always up for helping people.
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The people that know me think that I'm a nice person, but people who don't, think that I'm stuck up and a goody-goody. It's as if getting good grades is a crime! They assume that I can't have a good time, which is really not true. People won't really come up and speak to me (especially boys) because of this. The problem is, that none of my friends can tell me what it is that makes me appear stuck up at a first glance. How can I appear to be a more friendly and approachable person?
The more answers, the better!
(oh, I'm not really worried about the boys. I have a boyfriend. it's just a detail.)
well first off i wouldnt worry about what other people think. but if it bothers you that much then try to get peoples attention. try out for student council or somethign that requires you talking to people and showing them who you really are.
i have a problem similar to yours. when people look at me they think im some stuck up bitch. and im really the nicest person ever. but i learned to just laugh about it, im not changing for anyone. so my advice to you is to relax! dont worry that much about what their saying.
i hope things get better for you
;)
I'm friends with benefits with this guy. I used to have a crush on him.
We agreed to just be friends with benefits.
We don't hang out alot and fullfill the friends with benefits but lately he's been calling alot just to talk and stuff. He comes over every now and again and we just talk.
He has never called me for a booty call. But lately there has been alot of chemistry going on between us, alot of flirting and such.
We aren't really friends (as in normal friends you know) so it confuses me as to why he calls so much to just talk. I know what friends with benefits is, and that's not what we are. I'm not sure what to do? He sends mixed signles. What is going on with us
hmm. well first of all, friends with benefits can work, but it can also be a bad idea. for example what if your friend goes to a party and hooks up with some girl, then you would be the one gettign hurt. but it seems like you guys arent really friends with benefits, but mostly just crushing on eachother. talk to him about it and mabey you guys can work somethign out.
hope this works!