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Okay so i really like this friend of mine...I mean I have fallen hard...but the problem is...I am completely unsure as to if he likes me...I mean he acts like he does...but then again he is kinda flirting well..not exactly flirting...but messing with other girls while i'm right there...I just act like i dont care and laugh with him...but anyways...back to the issue...i really like him..and i want to know if he likes me..but i dont want to ask him straight up...is there anything he might do that would let me know he's into me? or is there any way i can get him to confess he likes me without being to obvious? I dont want to ask him straight up because i dont want to hurt our friendship...any ideas?? Thanks sooooo much in advance to any answers! (link)
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Well i had the same problem im 17/f now and when i was in secondary school i really liked my friend he was my best friend basically and i was always afraid to lose him as a friend if i told him i liked him but one day i could not hold it in. I used to spend so long on the phone to him and i asked him on the phone so who do you like tell me your top 3 people and he told me and i was like 3rd it made me so hurt i was like why not me... anyways so then he asked me mine and i never put him on there when really he was number one. Then later on i decided i would not tell him when we got to the last year of school i realised wait we are leaving soon im going to lose him forever anyway i sent him an email forward i got saying what do you think of me. He filled it out saying he liked me and he gave it to me in school then over msn i flirted and i told him i liked him. Then in class he touched my hand i never forget how happy i was. You could let him know in a suttle way like spend lots of time with him,talk to him on the phone for along time is a big give away.i know it sounds silly but try that email tell him fill it out. it says would you ever go on a date with me ect and thats how me and my bf started going out and would you believe it we are still together now in sixth form although we are at different colleges hes going uni this year and i know we will fall apart but all because of that email and i still have it.I never forget reading it and being so happy he gave it to me in school... so try it or you have to do it before you leave college or write on msn who do you like flirt alittle and get really close friends i hope i helped and inbox me if you need any further advice xxx gd luck x
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Lately ive been so stressed , its not even funny... my best(guy)friend who i kinda like, I dont even know whether or not anymore got a new gf and shes like my friend and she told me that if i wasnt ok with it that she wouldnt go out with him but what am i supposed to do be like no you cant when i know how much my friend likes her... i couldnt do that to him now i dunno i dunno whether i feel like i want to cry or what, im thinking if i try to like a guy and get a boyfriend i wont be stressed about it anymore and crap like that but i dunno i do like him but im so happy for him at the same time cuase he likes her so much and i cant find anyone to like or who i thinks cute, and i cant stop thinking about it, and today i saw him kiss her, whats my problem why i cant i just be like no i dont like you you have agf whos my friend and now who likes you... ugh something inside of me just wants to break... :( anyhelp... (link)
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i know this is hard but what you must do is stay friends with them both do not act like you are jealous. There is no way you can break them up so don't think about it. You are going to have to try and find someone else and if you can't you will have to stay single. Just stay friends with them both and let them get on with it. Besides he picked her not you so you have to accept the fact that he picked your friend and leave them if it hurts you to see them together then walk away and don't look at them when they are kissing. i know this is not great advice but its all i could think off you could try and get close friends with another guy. hope i helped lv sweetcornxxx
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There is this guy that was my best friend last year. We always used to do stuff together and have fun but over the summer he got distant. At the beginning of the school year, it was fine. But then we stopped seeing each other for awhile becuase we weren't in any of the same classes. I always waved to him in the hall and sometimes he waved, others he gave me a dirty look and walked away. He has changed a lot, now he is very selfish and goes for girls by there looks. He is mean to mostly everyone and he changed so much. At the beginning of the year i had a crush on him and he understood but he wouldn't go out with me because i wasn't pretty enough. Now he won't even be my friend anymore. I miss him sooooo much how do i get him back? I'm sick of crying over him. (link)
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First thing to do is try and talk to him and ask him whats wrong and is he ok? usally people go like that maybe when they have a family problem and they take it out on others.If he wants to go for girls with looks then let him because looks are not everything. Just text him and say ( hi (Name of boy) i was wondering how you are? if something is wrong i want you 2 know i am hear for you!) maybe he will answer and maybe something is wrong. Usally boys are mean 2 you when they like you! So don't worry i am sure he will be fine and you will be friends again soon.
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ok i have this friend and he is gay but i didnt kno till the other day he didnt tell me i cought him wit a boy and well u kno what happend then... but i really need 2 kno what i should do should i be his friend? or should i tell him that im not his friend no more b/c hes gay? (link)
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No stay friends with him just because he is gay does not mean he is any different he has probably always been gay and when you did not know you was friends right?? So stay friends with him Gay men are nice they can't help being different from stright men. hope i helped!Why lose a friend because he is gay.
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