hi everybody. Im 14 well im pretty much not ur "average everyday" teen. i get all a's and i love extra cirricular activities. Im into tennis and basketball. i take dance and play the violin.
i like going out and shopping like any other teen aged girl. But believe me, im way less than perfect. but thats still alright. i like listening to hip-hop,rap,r&b,dance hall,soka, and other diversed types of music.and trust me i love to dance!!!! well now that u know a lil' bit more about me please let me answer ur questions. i am a very trustworthy person and also a good advicer. if u have any personal or public problems, please ask me.thanks.see u round
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hey,
I have this friend and he used to like me for a long time and at the time i didnt like him...i really wasnt in to him! then he started go out with one of my best friends....i kinda started liking him and then they broke up and i liked him even MORE! i really wanna go out with him now and he like 2 of my other best friends! he is constantly talkking abotu those 2 girls and it seems like when he does i get more and more depressed about it! should i stop talking to him..or should i tell him...or should i just try to change the subject? plz help me
thanks
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First of all, thanks for asking me this queston!!
I'm so happy. But anyways my advice is to be open to him and your friends too. Maybe he still likes you but thinks you don't like him? Study shows when somebody likes you they flirt with other people to detract attention from there even being a possiblity they like you. I think you should talk to your friends first and see how
they feel about him. I hope they are understand- ing friends? Good Luck!!!!!!!!
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this is kinda long so bear with me! :)
a lot of the friends i made were from middle school and we've been friends throughout high school. the thing is, they were a-ok people in middle school. but when high school rolls around it appears that they've changed into hypocritical, outspoken, dramatic, and selfish people. don't get me wrong, i'm not exaggerating nor am i taking things out of context. if you met them, you'd know! take for example a girl who makes fun of the fat people in our school, when she weighs 200 lbs. a girl who complains and whines over an A- on a test. someone who cannot accept the fact that they are wrong. someone who doesn't make any effort for your birthday, or christmas, when every year you get them something.
because of their "new" personality traits, i dropped them because they did not fit my basic ideal aspects in a friend anymore. and whenever i find a new friend, in the end they end up betraying my trust, using me for money, or being just plain inconsiderate to a point that i cannot tolerate anymore.
note, this has happened with nearly 95% of the friends i've had my entire lifetime...
i'm not a bad person for them to be obligated to do such things, but i do admit that i can be a little too trusting and naive at times. is that what they're taking advantage of, or is there something else...? why would they do this to me?
also, because these experiences have given me a new perspective on friendships (not to trust people so easily!), how do i know if i can fully trust someone and that they will be a good friend??? (link)
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Hey. I know how you feel. I have never in my life had a best friend and I still don't til' this day! But I have 3 best friends and I didn't imediately trust them. They had to show me that they could be trusted. And now we all trust eachother, respect each other and we all just have a storng unbreakable bond.
But, before any friendship you have can be like that, you have to take your time and get to know the person. Don't rush into things. It's just like a relationship with the opposite sex. Before you fully trust that person you have to get to know them.
Before, I was like you. Jumping from friend to friend, trying to find one that would actually respect me for who I am(what I believe to be a good person). So don't ever stop looking until you find that person or those people who you can call "friend".
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well theres this friend i have and i always catch her in lies. a lot of my other friends do to, so we all know she lies. i never really wanted to confront her about it, but the other day she got mad at me, and we were fighting so i told her that i noticed that she lied ALL the time, and i even gave her examples, but she still says she didn't lie. well we all know she did, because she tells us all different things. well now we're in a big fight, so i don't even think i should have brought it up in the first place becasue i hate fighting,which is why i never brought it up before. so now what should i do? (link)
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well if she lies that much she must not be much a friend now is she. a real friend always tells the truth unless its something that will really hurt. its ur desicion but my suggestion is 4 u 2 drop this sista..lol. i hope i have helped.
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lately i been having troubles with friends. and it has upsetted me pretty bad. im the type of person that things bother more then most people. its just who i am. but ever since i started having problems with my friend (its been 1 or 2 weeks now) i have totally just cut down eating. like i didnt even notice it until i realized i lost 10 pounds in this short amount of time. i cant really help it i just been kinda upset and i cant really change my situation with my friends for a while. we just have things we have to figure out and everything! i dont know what i could really do to eat more and not lose weight. i have tried to eat a little more then i have been these past couple weeks but if i do i just throw up. its like my body rejects food. what should i do? (link)
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this really sounds serious. i think you should tell some one or see a doctor. This is more than going on the internet and asking people u dont even know. please take my advice. you can seriously hurt ur self. TELL SOMEONE!!!
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