hey, i'm emily and i TOTALLY luv the OU sooners!! i like harry potter, skateboarding, biking, reading, and hanging with my friends! i like green day and jesse mccartney. if u have any questions, feel free to ask and i will TRY to answer them!
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I am 13 and a girl,I like this guy and hes soooo nice. then my friend gets to sit next to him is history. then she tells me"I like the same guy as you" i want this guy to ask me out, but i wouldn't have the guts to say yes. How do i think this out? (link)
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Well it sounds like you like him more so I would say yes when he asks you out of course! Your friend probably won't care if she knows how much you like him.
Emily
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Theres a girl at my school (not my friend but i talk to her) and her boyfriend recently broke up with her. She's heart broken and feels that she isn't good enough. Now she wont eat..shes refusing to eat and its scaring everyone. She is dropping pounds by the second and is always depressed. I really want to help her, but I don't know her family personally enough to tell them. Should I let her suffer? i would feel wrong not telling anyone. (link)
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I think you need to sit down with her sometime and really talk to her about what is going on. You need to just say that you want to help her and she is not helping herself by not eating and she just needs to kinda get over it. She will find another guy. Hope I helped ya!
**~eMiLy~**
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oh well my friend has this really great boyfriend. and i think i might be jelous..but i dont know. she knows that i thinks hes cute/hot and i promised her i would never go out with him jsut for her. but im knida jelouse of her. what can i do? thanks! (link)
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What I would tell you to do is just forget him. I mean, its her boyfriend and I know you will find a guy for you and what do you know, maybe some day SHE will be jealous of YOU! But its not a good idea either to go out with him if they break up because she might get mad. So, just keep looking for a guy and I know you will find one! Hope I helped, bi!
**~eMiLy~**
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My best friend and I got in fight like a month ago and it awas the stupidest fight ever I cant even remember what it was... well we kinda lost communication cause she just started ignoring me(and what sucks is we hang out with the same ppl so I will be standing next to her but we wont talk) and then like last week i was aim and we started apoligizing and got everything worked out... but at school its like we still arent friends cause i will be standing right next to her and we wont say one word... it feels really awkard... but i miss her so much and I dont know what to do I mean Ive told her how much I miss talking to her... I feel like Ive been replaced... I just want my best friend back and I dont know how to do it? I have cried so much just because of the fact that i cant talk to her and tell her everything anymore... it hurts me so much at school to be standing next to her and not talk... i cant really tell anyone how im feeling cause I just want to cry... I am trying to make my self realize that were just not bestfriends anymore but its way too hard... i need advice do I need to make myself realize were just not the same or do i gotta do something and get My BF back and if so HOW???
PLEASE HELP!!!
SIGNED:I WANT MY BF BACK! (link)
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Ok, well, what I would do is just talk to her when you guys are right next to eachother. Just talk like nothing ever happened, just normal. Then, it will probably be all fine. Bi bi!
**~eMiLy~**
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ok i had a best friend rachel and we were the bestest of friends then one terrible day she moved and we kept in touch but then she moved to indianna and she never called when she was in indianna and me and her havent called eachother since (we werent mad at eachother) i miss her so much i had a dream i met her again, and i was crying when i found out it was a dream i need help please! i will rate 5's on advices that arent mean! (link)
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Wow, what I would do is try and call her if you have her number. But if you dont maybe you can IM her or email her or something. If you dont have those, I dont know what to do, sorry.
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Ok, this past week, I went to Disneyworld to march in the parade with the band. (yes, I'm a bandgeek...) Well, my really good friend, Nicole, was sitting with me on the busride to Floriday (24 hours, yuck!) and the way there and the 1st few days of Disney were fine, but then she started getting on my nerves. At the time, I didn't think she was a lesbian at all. She was just NOT giving me my space and was hanging around me A LOT. She basically wouldn't leave me alone. And from then on, she started acting really weird. I'm gonna tell you the things that she did, but they're not gonna be in order lol. Well, for one, we were at Epcot and playing in the fountain like 4-year-olds, but hey it was fun lol. She kept picking me up and trying to get on top of me. And then, long after we dried off, she had wet spots on her boobs. So disgusting. On the bus ride home, I'm like, trying to sleep, and every time I look, she's watching me. Then later, I woke up later that night and her butt was pressed against mine and if I'm not mistaken, it was moving up and down. Then on the monorail, she has all this room, but is like, on top of me. So I move over, and she moves closer, and that kept happening. Just a lot of that kind of stuff. So me and my new friends Kelly and Molly and my other friend Amber ditched her at Magic Kingdom, and yeah, we're not talking (not that I care). But now, I'm just really freaked out. I told my friends, and we thought about it for awhile, and a lot of stuff she told us before was all starting to make sense and we really think she's bi or a lesbian. So what should I do? I don't really want to be her friend anymore, and I'm just really freaked out. I could probably say more, but I don't want this to be too long, so if you want more details, IM me on x HappyBunni16 x. Sorry so long, but I'm really scared.
P.S. I have nothing against lesbians, just when they hit on me and my friends. (link)
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OK!! Wow ur so called "friend" sounds crazy. What I would do is just tell her how you feel. She might understand and figure out what she was doing and stop. But if she takes it the wrong way, I would just, well, not ditch her, but you know, maybe just be a friend to her, not a BEST friend, u know?
Emily
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