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Hey, I am Nicole and I am 15. I love giving advice. You can inbox me if you need advice, or email me at softballchickx28@aim.com! I answer any questions so don't hesitate to ask :)
E-mail: softballchickx28@aim.com
Gender: Female
Location: CA
Age: 15
AIM: OmG itss erin xx ( you can reach me from my older sisters sn)
Member Since: March 6, 2007
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Last Update: June 5, 2007
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how do i look my boobs look bigger? without plastic surgery, or anything like that. How do you stuff your bra without making it look obvious. Thanks. (link)
Get a padded bra and stuff it with toilet paper, you will be able to tell when to stop, but stop when it looks too obvious. And they have water bras (its not really water its gel) they make ur boobs look bigger.

good luck :)


I NEED HELP RIGHT THIS SECOND. please. I think my friend blew me off to go out with my other two friends. Im trying to call her, and find out if she did. How do I find out, without actually asking her? This is really important. % I can text or call her, but i really need some advice right now.

%Thanks in advance% (link)
When you call her ask if she did anything today, and if she says no then be like oh nothing well thats pretty boring you must have done something. Like eat and sleep, take me through your whole day. (it might sound gay but it works) and when she tells u about her day and kind of hesitates then she probably did blow u off. If not then dont worry about it.

hope i helped :)
Nicole x0x


hey;
ok so, next saturday is my sister's wedding. it is going to be in the backyard of my house [huge] which is a couple of acres. so on all the invatations, they specifically put NO CHiLDREN PLEASE. however, since i`m her sister [i`m 13] i can obviously go. now, i`m thinking it may be a bit boring, so i want to bring my friend gabie. she`s my age. however, her parents can`t come bcuz they have nothing to do with my family & my parents just want close friends and relatives. they are allowing me to have gabie since i might get bored or something' WHAT SHOULD i DO?????
please help me! what should i do?


THANK YOU SO MUCH iN ADVANCE; HELP ME PLEASE.
i`m a raterr.

HELp!
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You could say something like" I would really like you to come to the wedding Gabie, it would be fun, I want your parents to come to but, my family doesn't really know your parents so would it be ok if you just came to the wedding, and not your parents.
-Hopefully she will get the hint.

Or you could say " Gabie can you come to my sister's wedding, but just you not your parents because we already planned how much food that we are making and there isn't enough, sorry"
-It may sound a little lame but it makes sense

Or you could be totally truthful and just say " Hey Gabie can you come to my sister's wedding, i can't have your parents though becuase they aren't really friends with my family, and we are basically just having a family and close friends wedding"

Hope that I helped :)

Nicole x0x


please don't ONLY send me to a site if you want to give me a site. like find the best ones.

i am looking for a quote for my profile about like, how could i have been so stupid to have thought that this girl / these girls were truly my friends? anything about like friendship.

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You don't seem to notice, You don't seem to care
You promise me something, Then you aren't even there
You tell people my secrets, Tell me your lies...
Who wants a friend... That makes you want to cry?



Life takes your dreams and turns them upside down
Friends talk about you when your not around
People make promises they just cant keep
I've come to realize... talk is cheap



I swear on my life that if I could take this knife out of my back, I would,
but between the loss of blood and the trust I had in you,
I don’t think it’d do any good.

I
got these off of this site...

http://www.geocities.com/kristensquotes/index.html


Hope I helped,
Nicole x0x


Hey, I am a 13 year old girl. I live right next door to one of my best friends Amanda, (or who used to be). Last summer a girl named leah are same age moved in 2 houses down. Do not get me wrong, leah is one of my close friends but she is starting to get annoying. Whenever I try and hangout with Amanda alone, leah always sees us and comes over and know I think Amanda is starting to like leah more than me. what should i do? (link)
You should talk to Amanda about it. Tell her how you feel, I am sure that she will understand. And let Leah know ( try not to be mean ) that you and Amanda want to be friends with her, but you guys also need time to hang out by yourselves. Hopefully this will all work out.

Hope I helped.
Love,
Nicole x0x


My best friend since 1st grade hates my b/f of one year. and vice versa. It's so bad that they literally can't be around each other for more then 5 seconds w/out getting in a big fight. My friend gets mad and wants me to dump him but my b/f is usually very sweet and I'm crazy about him. I hate that they fight and don't know what to do because sometimes he is at fault and other times it's her. I've basically stopped defending either of them and neither are happy about it but I'm so confused. My friend is strong and idependant so she never stops but my b/f is an idiot on this issue and doesn't listen when I tell him to back off. What do I do?! (link)
Well this is tough. So this is what I would do...
Tell your friend that she is not very supportive of you guys. And if she says well I don't like him, break up with him, then tell her you don't think that you should be friends anymore. Friends should be supportive of you especially your best friends. Plus if your crazy about your boy friend don't dump him. Its none of her business who you go out with anyways. Don't let your friend run your life.

Nicky x0x0


Theres this guy, and i tell him EVERYTHING. Literally. We're in nearly all of each others lessons and sit next to each other in two, and sit close in other lessons. But, the thing is he don't really tell me anything.
How do i find out if he considers me as a friend or just some weird girl who tells him her life stories, coz i trust him and im real honest with him but i don't want to ask him straight out.
Ok, I do like this guy and he knows.

Any ideas?? (link)
Maybe instead of you talking to him about you so much ask him questions about himself, his family, etc. And then you could ask him to go to a movie with you as friends. Then he would get the picture that you want to be friends with him, and he might be more open. If he decideds that he doesnt want to go with you, or is very quiet and acts unfriendly, let him go! You don't need a friend like that.

Nicole x0x0




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