Hey everyone I'm Maddy and I'm 18 years old. As you can tell I like soccer and hockey. I give great advice to my friends so thats why i decided to start an advice column. Please feel free to ask questions and I will try to answer them the best I can. Thnx!!!
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My ex-best friend Hana and I used to be really close, but ever since she went down to visit her cousin (who is pretty slutty herself) she's been acting like the only thing that matters in the world is how good she looks. It was really starting to piss me off, so I told her. She blew it off like it was nothing, which made me angrier. So, now she's started hanging out with two other girls that are known as sluts at our school, and they've really been annoying me. She pretty much dropped me for them, which made me sad. Now since she's found out that her only friends are the other two sluts, she's been trying to be friends with me again. I don't know if I should accept her friendship or not because it really made me angry how she dropped me like that. She hasn't even said sorry... Now since she's been hanging out with those two girls, I haven't talked to her at all. It really makes me sad that we're not friends anymore because we used to be able to tell eachother anything. I've made new friends, but in a way I miss my old one. If you have any advice for me then that would be awesome! Thanks (link)
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if she confront you abut becopming frends again, be bold and say something like, " look you were the one deciding to not be friends anymore and it will be long before you can gain my trust back, and You'll have to work for your friendship." Make sure that she knows you are serious and telling ehr that you dont want it to happen again. If she still wants to be your friend, but is still acting like a slut, then simply tell her, thats its not your style. hope i helped and good luck!
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People in my class are spreading rumors that I am a lesbo but I'm not I love celebrity guys. (Riley Smith, Chad Michael Murray, ect..) They are saying I like a girl in my class but we are JUST friends.... help? (link)
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like i told you before these people are being idiots. go up to the grl who is spreading rumors and say " you kno wut your saying isnt true and you no it. i dotn kno why you are saying that but it has to stop." set them straight. she just wants attention. dont let her get to your head. hope i helped and good luck!!
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Maddy, I want to hang out more with bicycle boy. I know, you think its stupid or whatever. But today, he came up with his guitar and said I could come down with mine and we could play. I was like "umm, maybe a little later" and walked inside my house. How can I show that I like music and I would like to play guitar with him without coming over at a bad time>???
And what if he has a girlfriend? (link)
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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! oh my god! ERIN! you DiDNT TELL ME THAT!!!!!!!! WAHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OK I KNO YOU DONT THINK SO BUT IT SOUNDS TO ME LIKE HE LIKES YOU!!!!! go to his house y r YOU waiting! dont play hard to get!!!! go to his house and Play guitar im soooooo happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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sorry it kind of goes under 2 categories
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Ok so i have this friend lets call him Craig. Well my good friend, lets call her Kaylee likes him. Alot of my other friedns likes him too. Anyway, she asked him out, but he said no.They are still good friends. Well "Craig" is in my gym class, and he constantly flirts with me...like all the time. and i think i am starting to like him. I think he might like me. I dont know though, because everytime i think that the guy doesnt really like me. ANYWAYS i dont know what to do. Should i tell "kaylee" that i like him? should i tell HIM i like him? HELP PLEASE! thanks i rate HIGH!(he is 14/M, and she is 14/f) (link)
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You should tell your friend that you are starting to like him. Maybe you should wait awhile and see if he really likes you back and then tell him that you like him. Hope I helped!!
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i have this friend thats not very cool and no one really knows her...but she cuts herself..she showed me today and i started wondering why she would do that...i told my friend about it cause were in office aid together and she was feeling bad for her..she also smokes pot...do u think i should still be friends with her or not? (link)
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it sounds like she might need ur help. TELL A GROWNUP she needs some professional help
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Next week im flying to Hawaii alone in an aircraft, but i have a phobia for planes and i don't want to panic during the flight or cry. I can go on airplanes thats not a problem but im just scared. Does anyone know how to get rid of the phobia (link)
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omg yes! ok my mom and I also had the same problem until we went on this website for getting rid of your fear. after we took it the course on the site, we flew to canada and everything was fine. nd i mean my mom used to scream in planes and she hardly made a sound. Here is the website:www.fearofflyinghelp.com
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Ok this is a serious question and please don't delete it! Ok I've been bestfriends with my bestfriend Katie for over 6 or 7 years or something like that. Ok well the problem is recently like around newyears she got back together with her X boyfriend who used to hit me and say bad things to me and stuff. I really did think everything changed. UNtil the other day it got real serious and we got into an actual fist fight! and I know this isn't right. I just don't know what to do. The other day I started crien and walked away. I don't know what I should do. I don't want to loose my bestfreind because we already had a seperation because of this. This is getting really serious and Im afraid if I don't do something about this I will get hurt not only physically..emotionally to..
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Scared 15-f (link)
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wow this is a really serious problem. You DEFINITLY should talk to katie, and tell her whats going on. You also need to talk to one of your parents because they can help you to. If these fights are happening on school ground, I suggest talking to a teacher or a school counseler. You need to tell your friends that this guy is hurting you and if she doesnt listen,( i know this may really hurt to hear this and im sorry) you may need to find some new friends. I really hope this helps!! Good Luck!!!
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