Hey ya'll whats up?
We'll if your reading this you probably know me already, but yeah. umm I'm just here to help yall. you dont have to tell me who you are, you can just ask me anything. i've been told i was good at giving advice and helping, so you can jsut ask me anything.
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hey, since you already know who this is..lol it didnt work the first time so hey, my so called "friends" are being really gay and making up stupid bs that isnt true, got any ideas on how to stop it? (link)
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hey damn i know EXASCTLY how that is. friends can be a pain in the ass sometimes. but what you shoudl do is talk to them and tell them straight up that you think it's stupid that they are making up stuff. but dont be mean!!!!they are your friends after all. well they should be. be like "i love yall guys so much, but please. i mean why?and please dont say you didnt do it, because i know you are. but please guys..can you stop?i dont wanna make a huge drama scene." or somethinglike that. be nice. but then let people know that what they are hearing IS NOT true, and provide it with proove!
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hey lauren i wrote to you before about the friend who smoked and i forgot to say that i kinda have a crush on him and i want to go out with him but he smokes, i dont like to date people who smoke. shoud i stop or what? (link)
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oh wow, well what i would do is talk to him about the smoking thing. and tell him you like him. and that you wanna to be with him, but you dont like that he smokes. and that you really want him to stop, because you dont like that hes smoking, and you dont want anythign bad to happen to him!be like caring and sweet, and tell him that you realy wished he would stop smoking. he should understand babe!
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ok, so i have this friend. she like, thinks shes 21 or something when shes NOT! shes in middle school!! so yeah she thinks its cool if you go smoke and drink but actually it makes her look dirty. and theenn she will go try and hook up with older guys that are way to old for her and she doesnt understand that what shes doing is making her look like a dumbass!! ive tried to talk to her but shes just weird and thinks shes too cool for me. but yeah i just dont know what to say to her so please help :) goodbye (link)
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well what i would do is talk to her and tell her that she needs to stop doing all that stuff. and she needs to chill with allt he drugs and drinking and stuff. but make sure you tell her that you want what is best for her, and your just looking out for her future. and the guys shes hooking up with maybe the kind of guys that shes looking for. i know i like talking and hooking up with older guys because they are more mature, sounds gay as hell, but it is. some guys are mature at and older age, and some guys arent. she might just be finding the guys that are mature, and cute. and for the drinking and rugs thing, it might be a family problem?or she might be insecure with herself?you just nee dto ask her why she thinks she needs to do it. and what compells her to do it. thats all. ask me again if you need more help!
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ok my friend treats her boyfriend like crap sometimes. i love her and he likes her alot but sometimes she treats him bad because she thinks that my boyfriend treats me better, which is totally not true, i mean her boyfriend hasnt done anything wrong at all and has never done anything to hurt her. Anyways i want to tell her that if she wants to keep going out with himshe is gunna have to treat him better but i dont want her to get mad at me. what should i do? (link)
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this is a toughy..i hate it when i'm personally stuck in that situation, between friends and boys that is. well a big, BIG thing is to talk to her and see if she really really likes him. and if she doesnt, then you should tell her in a nice way that you dont think that she should be leading him on, and from a personal expirience it hurts SO much being led on. and if she does like him, tell her that you think she shouldnt treat him wrong, and that they would probably be a cuter couple. but be sure to tell her that you only want the best for her. if that does not corss her mind, then you're screwed. so MAKE SURE you tell her that you love her, and you want her, and her boyfriend to be happy as hell.
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My friend isn't very pretty, but she thinks shes really hott and acts slutty and makes out with like a bunch of guys and cheats on her boyfriends and I tried to stop her and i told her what she was doing was wrong, but she got mad at me. what should i do? (link)
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oh wow,
big situation. theres a bunch of things your need to try to do. if shes a great friend, be there for her, and try not to hang out with so many guys. i'm sure if shes a good friend, she will listen to you, i woudl try again. unless shes stopped, and if she did stop. then dont bother with it. DONT START RUMORS, what ever you do DONT START RUMORS...there could be something behind her thats makign her act like this..you never know. if she cheats on her boyfriends, and makes out witha bunch of guys, and you tried to stop her, then the best thing you can do. is keep explaining to her. you need to sit down and talk to her. face to face. and tell her you love her to death, and you jsut dont want her to have a reputation. reputations for that are horrible, maybe she doesnt know that you were tryign to be nice when you stopped her?and she probably got mad because you werent saying it in the nicest way. girls go crazy when her good friends tell her shes a slut, or shes ugly. its never good lol. but before you start to talk to her again, you NEEEEEEEED to make sure shes still doing it. and dont go by what people say. ask her yourself, but pretend like your not gunna have a talk with her after you ask her. but you have to make sure shes still doing it, it's gunna suck even worse if shes stopped, and your bringing back the past she probably knows that was doing wrong.
my advice is just to explain to her everything that you feel NICELY..she shoudl be understanding.
good luck!
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my friend is gorgeous, and i know her stupid, and mock her of a mistake she made a while back. it's so annoying how they make fun of her, and when i first met her a guy said that after a while she would get annoying, i disagreed. but now, i realze....shes getting annoying as hell. like i love love love LOVE her to death, but she doesnt think...and its so annoying..how can i tell her? (link)
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ohhh wow, i know how you feel..
stuff like this is hard. i mean, you can tell her that she needs to stop acting to stupid, but you dont want to hurt her feelings. but then again, you dont want her to keep doing it because shes annoying. i think your best bet is to tell her honestly...it's so much harder if you dont tell her. i mean if shes as great as a person as you say, she will understand, otherwise shes just not as good as a person as you though..GOOD LUCK!
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