ok so i'm 13 and everytime i start to make friends with a guy i end up likeing him and i like having guy friends cause i dont know it's different but how can i have guy friends without likeing them???? is this normal ??
It is very difficult at your age to have guy friends and not like them. You're just beginning to go through hormonal changes, it will be like this for a while. At the least through out your teenage years. So, yes it is very normal, and there is nothing you can do about it.
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awhile ago i went out with this girls ex-boyfriend. now everytime she see's me she calls me a fat whore // slut. i'm no where near fat and i never even say anything back to her. how can i make it stop or just ignore her.
thanks
Is this girl important to you?? It doesn't sound it. If you really don't care about her, brush it off. She's not something you should worry about. It's just another girl trying to make you feel bad because she didn't get what she wants. More and more drama, just try your hardest to steer clear of her and ignore it. She'll figure out she's losing the battle when you don't even look at her.
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my friend always tells me how everyone tells her shes sooo pretty. & like it gets annoying. & like im not jealous, because twice as many people tell me im pretty. so its not like im jealous. i just dont go around telling people, what other people say to me. like she does. so how can i make her stop?? besides saying like i dont care. bc i already tried that.. & well right now i just did & i can tell its turning into a fight. soo yahh
help?
When she starts to talk about it, say, "Listen I know you are a gorgeous girl, but when you tell me how people say it all the time, it gets a little..... annoying. Like I said before you are a gorgeous girl, but I like to have normal conversations without you telling me about somebody saying you're beautiful."
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my best friend just told me shes bi. i always kind of thought that because she always tries stuff with me and our friends. it makes us uncomfortable and we always tell her to stop. but now she told me that me and another one of our friends turned her bi...and its creeping me out. i dont want to be a bad friend and stop talking to her, especially because we have to spend the next week together at camp, but after that i'm probably going to hang out with her less. i'm not trying to be rude and judge her, but that just really freaks me out. please dont tell me i am being a bad friend, because thats not what im asking. i need to no how i can make it seem less weird when im around her for the next week at camp, and how i can not talk to her as much after camp without it being obvious that the reason is because she is bi. and also my whole family thinks shes annoying and i do too, and although she is one of my best friends i have always thought about maybe trying to make more friends in high school next year and not really talking to her that much anymore. so it wouldnt be a big deal if we werent as great of friends i think. sorry if that sounds mean. but please help me!!! thanks. btw im 14/f
Well, did you try explaining to her that you're uncomfortable around her? If not you might want to try. I'm sure she'll respect your space and won't try any "new things" with you and your other friends. If you really want to be around her less next year, try making new friends and gradually week by week hang out with her less. If she notices, tell her you're just trying to get to know your new friends better.
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