I usually answer questions but this is important! I have a friend *sorta* (We have been friends for 13 years and we tore appart due to her being popular). Well anyway she has a cousin Sarah. She has been coming to my friends house and when she goes up there she invites her boyfriend and they sit up there and make out. But my friends boyfriend comes to (Thats Sarahs boyfriends brother *sorry if confusing*). And I am afraid she is having sex with him. Her mom acts more like a best friend than a mom. Her mom and dad are split (they have been since she was born and her dad loves her to death!). So her mom is turning her against her dad and trying to make him feel guilty! *My sister and her dad are married* So Whats a girl to do!?!?! I can;t just sit here and watch her get Pregnant! she is just 12!!!
Well, most people would agree that 12 is a young age and not a very likely age to be having sex, but it is possible that her cousin and her cousin's boyfriend and/or her boyfriend are influencing her to want to do it, or she might just want to all on her own. Even though her and her mom are like best friends, I don't think that her mom would be telling her to do that or giving her any ideas. The only way to really find out without sounding crazy is to just bring him up casually the next time you spend time together. Say, so how's your boyfriend and then she will respond. After she responds say is he a good kisser, and then laugh like your saying it almost to be funny. Then, she'll either say yes if they have kissed, or she'll tell you that they haven't. If she says yes, be like cool and then ask her what base she's gone with him without being too nosey. Chances are, she probably hasn't done that with him because making out and having sex are two TOTALLY different things, and if she has had sex with him she most likely would have used a condom. If you need any more help please leave a message in my inbox! Hope I could help!
-Mal
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could you guys give me some cute quotes about love, friendship, life...really anything it doesnt matter...thanks!
Sometimes the person you fall for,
Isn't ready to catch you
What is meant to be will find it's way!
Why does it always seem like you can't have the one you love, the one you love can't have the one they love, and the one who loves you can't have you?
Just because I'm brunette,
Doesn't mean I'm not blonde at heart!
Every night when I think of you before I go to sleep,
It makes me cry because I know that while I'm thinking of you,
you're thinking of her.
Hope I could help!
If you want any more just drop a message in my inbox!
-Mallory
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here it goes, my friend has always been nice to me, but after she she got this new group of friends... every time i come ova her house it's "Wanta invite my friend ova".when eva her friends are ova she's not herself anymore. i tryed to talk her about it but,now she thinks i hate her friends(which I do). anyway how can i keep my friendship and stil get time alone with my friend?!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Many people, in fact, do get new groups of friends in middle school. It's really hard to hold on to your friends when everything and everyone is changing. You should start to hang around with other friends too. You should never limit yourself to just one friend! I think that your friend may just be excited to have new friends, and that's why she wants to be with them so much. Or maybe she feels lonely when it's just the two of you, and thinks it would be more fun to include more people. You have to try to like her new friends. Maybe the reason you hate them is that you're jealous that they're always with your friend. Don't worry, this stuff is normal. I'm 13 also and have experienced times like this. Tell your friend that you're really sorry, you just felt like you two never got time alone together like you used to. If you want her to accept your appology, you are going to have to tell her that it's okay if she has other friends too. Think about it... how would you like it if you had a new group of friends, but your friend didn't like them? You wouldn't want to pick and choose which friend to be with, and which one not to. You're friend should be really glad when you tell her you accept her new friends. You should also try to get and know her new friends. If the reason you hate her new friends is because you feel like they're taking your friend away from you, forget about all of that and try to get to know them better. Who knows... maybe you'll end up becoming friends with them!
Hope I could help!
-Mallory
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My friend moved away and I really want to get in contact with him.
I didnt get the info because we were mad at each other at the time, and I didnt want it.
His step-mom and Dad are't being helpful. I dont think they really like me or something.
How can I get in contact with him? He only lived where I live for 4 months and I dont know anybody he might have given his other address to..
HELP!
call the college and tell them his first and last name and then ask where his dorm room is. Surprise his by coming by and tell him that you really miss him and are sorry for the fight. Then hopefully he'll give you his address and number and stuff like that.
hope i could help!
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I have a friend and his really special for me, his a guy. And I want to help him , cause I care for him. He smoke weed. I keep telling him to stop but he wont. what should I tell him to stop. Please help me.
get all of the information you can about how smoking is dangerous. you need to scare him about smoking with all of the horrible things that can happen to you when you smoke so he won't want to do it. tell him that if hes ur friend then he should listen to you and that you really care about him. also say that you'll stop hanging out with him if he doesn't stop. if he cares about you as much as you care about him then he'll stop when you tell him that you won't hang out with him if he keeps smoking. the reason that he won't stop could be that he's addicted. if that's the case then you need to do whatever you can to help him stop. if he is addicted then meet with a doctor with you and him and ask the doctor how he can try to stop. gum helps to stop addictation because its keeping your mouth busy so it takes away that craving for a cigarette. hope i could help!
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