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my friend is trying to kill herself(thats what she calls it) with taking 18 ibprofin. I was just wondering if you can really kill yourself with ibprofin?

woudln't doubt it. stop her before she does! --rachael

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Okay, I there's this guy that likes me and i told him i would go to a dance with him but now i dont wanna go (and for a good reason dont worry) so would it be rude to tell him over the phone? Or should i do it in person? I would really rather do it over the phone so i wont be as nervous but im afraid it might be rude. Plz help me!! And i need to know like ASAP!! Thx

i would do it online..good luck--rachael

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im in 8th grade (13 / female) and well in my gym class this year i have like no one to talk to.. there's the popular girls that somehow have the same class together .. the unpopulars, the geeks, the preps, and some of the jocks, and then there's me .. i dont really fit in to any of those categories (i guess i`m just average) .. well heres the real problem i actually do have a friend in my class, lets call her Monica but she doesnt even look at me, I guess shes embarassed to be seen with me or something cuz the whole class long she hangs out with this girl lets call her Jessica. And well when they hang out together their like all BFF and they really kinda arent .. anyways should i tell Monica or not ( like she knows i want to switch classes but i never told her why) . .what should i do ?

p.s. sorry its so long and kind of confusing

that happened to me one year.. yeah it does suck and i was in the same grade/same age as you too! i just made friends with people ididnt expect to become friends with..turned out fine!! try staying in the class..itll all turn out great!--rachael

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ok,i have a friend named ian,and another named jason,,their only my guy friends until i found out ian liked me,,,!!!then he started to flert with me alot & jason knew that i didn't feel comfortable with ian,,,so {not to make ian jealous}jason gave me a necklace that said ''friends'' he had one that said''best''
ian got jealous...alot..what do i do?????

haha best friend necklaces.. HOW CUTE =)--rachael

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Well, im the one who asked whether or not i should date eric because my friend erika likes him, and i took everyones advice n im dating him, EXCEPT today she found out and she called and she sounded pissed and said she needed to talk to me or else tomorrow im gunna get it to my face. i cant really fight face to face cuz i start shaking so i def* have to call her, does any body know anything i can say? like she SHOULD be happy for me.. and i jus dunno shes gunna hate me n everything please help!!

its not your fault!! just say its not fair if both of u two like each other and say "well if he liked you back would u do the same and go out with him too" she most definetly would!! itll all settle out..but remember frienships last longer than relationships so dont ditch the friend for the guy if it comes to that.sorry about that!! --rachael

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all of my friends are destructive.

friend #1-cuts and gave head.
friend #2-drank shoplifts and sneaks out of her
house
friend #3-does pot and shoplifts
friend #4-shoplifts

this is so annoying. what do i do?!i still want to be friends witht them but they're all mad @ me anyways. that's a diff. story though. help!
signed,*cAuGhT iN tHe MiDDlE*

dont completely STOP being friends with them.. but i would say to become better friends with ur just 'ok' friends if you know what i mean..still say hi to ur old friends and everything but dont be caught dead doing any of that!!--rachael

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i am having a big b'day party this year. this one gurl on my bus, i invited her. i just told her about it b/c the other gurls were talking bout it. and my mom hates her. i dont know how to tell her she can't come? can yall help me?
i will rate you.

just tell her ur mom wont let you invite that many people and that ur really sorry.... that a terrible situation..i know it sucks.. sorry!--rachael

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Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help.

thats so sad!! lol.. but theres a medicine that you can get that completely stops the sweating. hum. trying to think of how you can like give that to her! hah. just be like aw MANN! you sTANKK and be like hahahaha what kind of deoderant do you use!! and if shes like "dont kid around i have b/o tell her about this thing you read 'in a magazine' and maybe shell get it! --rachael

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okay.. my two bestfriends do not like eachother and i dont know why but they cannot be around eachother. When I hang out with one of them the other one gets mad cuz she says I always ditch her. And if I go places with them together the one person will start talking about the other person and the other person will get upset. I've tried talking to them both but they won't be friends!!!! Its starting to really bother me! sry if this is confusing lol..someone help!!!

until they start to like each other.. u just have to hang out with them seperately.. tell each of them that you will hang out with them equally! sorry thats a tough situation. RaCh

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okay.. a few years ago.. my sister died of luekemia.. n today..at the end of gym.. my close friend confessed to me that she has luekemia.. so that second she otld me i bursted out crying n then she started crying.. then the bell rang..n then i had math.. so i was crying wen i got in math n after the bell rang.. my teached pulled me out of the room n was like wuts wrong you need to tell me if sumones gonna get hrut u need to tell me.. n she kept like naggin.. so i was like yea mah friend.lets call her Sara.. so i told her sara has luekimia..cuz she has sara as a student in another period.. n so she was like omg im so sory n she was all hugin me n stuff. so she took me to the school sicotrist(sry spelling!)n i had already known the sicotrist...from past experiences n mah parents were close with her threw her daughter.. soo she was like yea jus calm down ur gotta be strogn lol stuff.. cuz a few periods later.. about 15 minutes b4 the end of the day.. she came into mah civics class n was like..i need to speak to Ali.. so i went n she was like guess wut.. sara doesnt have luekemia.. so i was like omg... but i know for a fact that sara wud never ever ever ever lie about sumthin like that... so i was like.. how do you know.. n she was like.. i talked to her sister in the highschool n she was baffled by the idea..so i was all like..rite.. so i went bac into mah class n at the end of it.. mah civics teacher(whjo is the most understanding teacher in the whole wide world) was like okay i heard n stuff n its gnna be okay she don have it or ne thin they called her parents nstuff... so who do i believe? i mean i know for a fact she wud never lie about sumthing like that


sry so long

ali

im so sorry this happened to you! this is a toughy. call you friend and ask her if shes serious because her parents were saying it isnt true.. well her parents would definetly know if she did so i she probly doesnt have it. however, i have no idea why your friend would do that to her. best thing to do is just talk to her! so sorry

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Well this girl who I'm good friends with has invited me to watch some DVDs have have pizza at her house tomorrow night. There will be some other people there who I know but I don't have much in common with them and we aren't great friends. I want to go but I don't want to be left out of the conversation. What should I do?

probly shudnt go if u feel uncomfortable around this guy. if it wasnt for him i would say u should!!

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Hey, at lunch my friend always eats really junky foods, i mean tons, and i think shes gonna gain tons of wait quite soon. Should i tell her???
luv,
Rachel

i think you should! just dont be like UR GONNA GET FAT!! just maybe say when other ppl arnt there so she doesnt get embaressed like.. wow if i ate those id be humungus or something so u start talkinng about it! then maybe shell say something and u can say maybe u shud start limiting down on the calories!! hope it helps

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