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I KNOW THIS IS LONG.. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP AND ILL RATE 5'S FOR EVERYONE NO MATTER WHAT.. I PROMISE!!
Well i have these two friends... nd lets say their names are Bob and Rob.. well ive been good friends with bob longer than i have with Rob.. Both Rob and Bob are a lil chunky.. but they're not Fat.. So me Rob and Bob became a group this year.. and ive always felt like i fit in until one day rob was me and bob are fat.. nd we hate pool partys.. and we have something against skinny people cauz we're jealous of them.. so i was like you guys aren't fat.. nd since im like a twig,.. i got offended and i was like well now im gonna feel uncomfortable in the pool with you guys since we're gonna be in bathing suits.. and rob didn't answer.. so since bob is my best friend i decided to talk to her about it.. so i told her how i felt.. and im like its not like you guys excercise or try to loose weight.. so then we straightened it out... but rob and bob want to go shopping together and rob doesn't wanna invite me cauz im skinny.. i mean i understand how they feel but now i feel like rob feels more comfortable around bob and i feel like rob and bob are friends and im not part of the group anymore.. i mean i wouldn't consider rob my best friend... cauz she's not my type of person.. nd now bob is like turning into rob.. like they use the same font colors and fonts on AIM and bob started listening to rock just like rob.. and now whenever we're together and we talk about clothes.. bobs like Lisa your such a twig you can fit into abercrombie.. and the way she says it, it hurts my feelings.. so like rob has bob brain washed practically and i hate the way she's acting now like all punk and into rock or watever and like how she's saying .. i hate you, your so skinny.. its not my fault im skinny.. im a runner.. and ive been skinny all my life cauz its in my genes and ive been doing sports since i was like 2.. so i dunno wat to do.. please help (link)
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Thats sad that they are going to waste a friendship on something so stupid. try hanging out with other friends and when your gone i'm sure they'll see how much they miss you. if they dont' like being fat they should stop complaining about u being skinny and do something about it. you could also explain to them that it doesn't matter that you guys have different weights. as for being like each other it probably gives them each a little comfort since that are having some trouble with how they feel about themselves.
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I have these friends of mine. They were my best friends. Even though we go to different schools, I still spend lots of time with them. I really loved them, no matter what happened between us. Some people said that I was so stupid that I trusted them so bad that I have never thought bad things about them.
Few days ago, one of my friends came to me and told me that all of my friends were talking bad things about me. I did not trust him, of course, cause I believed that my friends would not do such a thing to me.
Then, when I checked my e-mail, I found a message for me. It was all bad things about me. It was from my friends. I was so shock that I spend my time crying with my boyfriend. My boyfriend, which was my closest best friend too, told me that even though my friends hated me, he would stay with me. But actually, his words did not calm me down. I still worried about my friends. I did not hate them, and I would never do, but I could not forget what they said about me. Now, I'm avoided and hated by my friends. And they avoid my boyfriend in their school too!! I really don't know what to do... Please help me!!!
-brokenheart girl- (link)
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You should try to talk to them and ask them what started all of this. If you guys were fine and then all of a sudden they started talking trash about you then something must of triggered it. Try talking to them and explain how your feeling maybe its a missunderstanding.
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i was just wondering wot do guyz chat about? do they chat bout gurlz? plz can sumone even if they aint a guy tell me plz i rate high (link)
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They talk about other friends, sports, girls, sex, and believe it or not guys do some gossiping!!
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Hey, here's something quick. My friends and I have nothing to do today! We really want to go out! It's raining and is supposed to continue all day! Have any fun ideas for teen girls? Mucho Gracias! (link)
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you could go to a movie, rent a movie, go bowling, go to the mall or differnt stores and just shop around and try stuff on, get some take out, do make overs or each other's nails, call boys!
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There is this guy that was my best friend last year. We always used to do stuff together and have fun but over the summer he got distant. At the beginning of the school year, it was fine. But then we stopped seeing each other for awhile becuase we weren't in any of the same classes. I always waved to him in the hall and sometimes he waved, others he gave me a dirty look and walked away. He has changed a lot, now he is very selfish and goes for girls by there looks. He is mean to mostly everyone and he changed so much. At the beginning of the year i had a crush on him and he understood but he wouldn't go out with me because i wasn't pretty enough. Now he won't even be my friend anymore. I miss him sooooo much how do i get him back? I'm sick of crying over him. (link)
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now that he has changed you have to think do you want him back? he isn't the same person that you became friends with. do you want a friend that treats you like that? i would just let the friendship die because he isn't the person you first became friends with and isnt' a very good one.
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ok so i liked this guy for a while and i had one class with him this year ..i could never get myself to talk to him at school..but we would alwaus talk on AIM ...well he now has a g/f thats like 19 and hes 15...so i tried to get over him but i cant... now one of my CLOSE friends likes him ...well everytime we talk about him she gets really sad (b/c she knows he has a g/f) ...idk most people say he just uses his g/f for sex ..but i feel really bad for my friend and i think i still like him..what should i do?
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If that rumor is true then you need to sit down with your friend and convince you and her that he is not the kind of person you guys should like. Try to forget about him and as friends you should have an easy time doing it together.
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I have had this really good firend for like seven years and we are like sisters. Ive noticed that she never really took a liking to guys and always wondered if she was lesbian or something. She told me just a few weeks ago that she was and that she was sexually attracted to me. I was really confused and disguisted. I dont wanna throw away a seven year friendship...but i dont want my best friend hitting on me. (link)
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If you still want your friendship because you think things will be the same then talk to her and say your off limits or no friendship. If you think that your friendship would be too arkward and not the same then tell her you can continue to be friends because of her feelings towards you.
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