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the nukka that runs the site is samantha (speaking). sam or sami for short. yeah so i am looking forward to next year: freshman '07-'08 bitchh. i have the most incredible friends ever. they could beat yours up. like pow. mm hm. i also have sooo many guy friends. its hard to keep up with them all. on a random note, i think i might have that new disease thingy. blackberry thumb. yeah you get it from texting way too much. till your hand hurts. i know right. im a crazy party animal. and i act high even though im not on drugs. i dance way too much. competitively. so back to the whole advice thing. i give gnarly advice (yes, gnarly) because ive been through just about every situtation... twice. but thats samantha for you.







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I'm one of those people whose against drugs. I really don't see why people do them, and I really can't stand the fact that a lot of my peers are starting to get into it.

That doesn't bug me, they can ruin their lives if they want. The only person who I've found out has done weed is this boy whose a great friend of mine, really sweet, and I kind of have a teeny crush on. I really want to be with him, but not if he does drugs. He knows I know hes done drugs (he came online one time totally "canned")

I didn't think much of it until a couple days ago, where this girl I know brought it up to me.
I want to talk to him about it, but not be such a mom, like "Drugs ruin your life! Do you want a future?" just like friend to friend...but I really don't know what to say or do.
I'd really like it if I could get the message across that I dissaprove without actually telling him directly.
Please help me.

well i didnt really want to read the other answer hhaa so she may have covered this already butttt. ive had a bunch of people like this in my life. and just tell them that you care about them and you dont want them t oget hurt.
like "i dont know what id do if something happened to you." or "i really care about you, and im worried..." blah blah blah. ha. i dont know if that helped. but hopefully it makes a lightbulb go on in your head or something.


hope i helped. (:

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so, im quite the shy person. i was wondering, do yall have any shy friends? like how do you get them to talk more? what do you wish they would like do more often? know what i mean.. ? b/c maybe i could try to express myself more in that way.

i do have shy friends. bunches actually. but me, nooo. im veryyy outgoing. maybe too outgoing. ahaa. well i could suggest joining an activitie that lets you exspress yourself. that you can really put emotion into. and possible perform infront of a croud. that would help you dim down the shyness. like dancing or theater or modeling. or jsut talk more. make conversation. i know it sounds stupid, but itll help with guys and other people. just talk to your friends about stuff. tell serets to yor frinends...(the close ones..) well hope i helped... (:

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So for Xmas my 2nd best friend got me a purse in colorado.Well the purse looks like a luis vuitton only without the LV. Ya know with the flower looking things and the 4 shapes that a regular deck of cards has (hearts/diamonds/spades/clubs). She bought cause she thought it was cute. well To me it looks like a purse that people would have to make it look like they have a louis. I live in a pretty rich neighborhood where alot of people have dooneys and coaches and louis and such. But i dont. So im afraid of carrying around looking like a girl who cant afford anything. but yet wears hollister and occasionally wear Abercrombie.I dont know what to do. Help please. I wanna know what you would do. if i were u. Thanks in advance

well its the thought that counts. if you dont want to you use it in public, just use it when you come to your house. and if you realllllly despise it that much, you could 'accedentally' "drop" it down the the sewer. oooh no!!! (phaha) but if i were you, i would use it when coming to her house and stuff. she really meant well and you should thank her. even if you totally hate it, ast like you adore it. or at least dont mind it. (:

hope i helped.

xoxo
sam.

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ok, so i am a really shy person. theres only a few girls that i\'ve known for so long that know the crazy, outgoing, fun, real me. and with everyone else i just.. ahhh.. i dont know how to, like, talk?!?! haha i sound stupid but what i mean is, like, theres this friend of mine, lets call her hannah, and ive known her for quite a while now and i feel like we\'re drifting apart because we like barely talk and never hang out. and when i do try to start conversation.. well i just dont know what to say. or how to say it. why am i so shy!? like seriously, i could sware i have a disease. i just wish she could start more conversation with me, because that way i\'ll start talking and be going somewhere with the convo, and when i start, hahah, well i start alright! ahaha. i suck at making new friends. i just have this one friend, and lets call this one montana [lmao, stop lauging, i know you are.. aha], and shes my best friend and i open up to her the most and hang out with her a lot but i feel like a freaking douche when i realize and think about the fact that other than her, i only have like.. 3 or 4 friends. because i dont talk to other people because im so effing shy!!. and theres so many other friends i could easily make, if i\'d just talk. agh, i dont know whats wrong with me. i dont really even know how you can answer this. i feel like hannah doesnt need me anymore now that shes made new friends. i used to have a lot of friends.. and i mean a lot, like last year and the year before and before and so on&on. and now they\'re all gone. we\'ve just all drifted apart. wtf? i dont get that. we\'ll only like smile at each other in the halls. not even a simple \'hey\' or \'hi\'. and no drama even happened between any of us that would cause us to loose our friendship. wow, seriously, it makes me soo pissed off thinking about the fact of how i used to have 456413 friends and now like 4. and you know why this all is? because im shy. and so we never talk and just drift apart. but they aren\'t shy, i know they\'re not. they can talk and then i\'ll talk and we\'ll stay friends. how could i possibly loose all them? why is all this happening with hannah and me? how can i.. talk? and.. whatever else i wrote above.. haha

wow. you sound like me at the begining of this year. and i know it sounds hard but... make new friends. youll probably be a lot happier with a group of friends you can be yourself with. this sound hard but its really not. join a club or a sports team like tennis or softball and meet people there. thats a practice. then you can meet new people from YOUR school. its scary at first, yeah, but its very worth it in the long run. just choose... 1-feel this way for lord knows how long or 2-suck it up and make new friends to be HAPPY. umm, i pick 2. aha. but if you are seriosuly set on keeping your old friends like "hannah" and "montana" (cute, by the way), then get together with them. once again, it will be scary. but worth it. ask them to go to the mall and tell them to bring a couple people. another great way to mke friends.

well i hope i helped. and if theres any specific questions you have, pleaseeeee ask.

i know how this feels. like shiiiit++ id love to help. (:

xoxo
samiiii (is ganster)

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my friend gave me a bracelt by mariah carey that cost about 12 bucks and it was okay but i didn't like it that much. she gave our other frined a chain that said best and then she has the friends but it cost 3 bucks i think. i was mad beause of it. i didn't care how much it cost, i liked the best frinds thing because we have been frinds longer and it was impoetant to me that she told me she apprciated it.i ddin't care about the cost.my best best freind hurt me by just ignoring me and like kind of abandoning me without no explanation because she gose to a new school. and i am uptight about me other best freind. maybe i am being to mean. it's x-mas.now she is mad andis complaining about me being mean and i wore the gift and evrything but i got fed up and gave it back.was a wrong in the situation?

hello (: melyssa speaking.
the same thing happened to me. kindof.
but in a different situation. ask her what's wrong. & dont be afraid to ask her questions about the problem. it might help alot! call her.
that's what i'd do! hope it helped.
xoxox

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hey ok well lately one of my friends has been liying to me ALOT so i told her that i dont want to be her friend anymore and on top of it all she likes my bf and is constantly flirting with him in front of me...but after i told her i dont wanna be friends with her...i kinda miss her but i dont know if i could take her bakc because shes hurt me so much...should i take her back or keep my word?

ok. to start, are you completely sure that she lied to you or are you just assuming? if you are assuming, you should probably apologize because you arent completely sure and also tell her why you assumed she was lying. if you have cold, hard proof, then read on.
im not saying it was a terrible decision to dump her, but its definatly wasnt the best. she may not take you back because she feels like you may dump her again.

about the whole boyfriend situation:
let her know he's your and she better back off. dont actually saythis to her but let her no by your body language. if she flirts with him right in front of you, cuddle with him right then and there. kiss on his next. make her know that shes not coming in between you and your man. :)

if it was me that dumped her and i was sure she had lied, i would make a pact. let her know you want to make peace. not a friendship; just peace. that will take a load of your shoulders as well as hers

hope i helped. :)

xoxo

p.s. this advice is not meant to change your decision. do what you think is right based on your passed experiences.

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Well I have this friend we will call her D, and she is like SO awesome and I LOVE hanging out with her! But D is has a bestfriend(not me were just good friends but im her 2nd bff) her bff treats her like dirt. I dont want to tell her because she will probably get mad at me or something.

And D sometimes treats me that way too because i guess she is use to having people treat her like that but whenever I say anything to her about it shes always like "Chill Im just kidding" but shes sooo mean when she does it!

So what do I do//Tell her?

hello (: i think you should tell her, because the more you leave it like how it is, with her being rude to you, it will make her worse. Maybe that helps!

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