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Q: Ok well its my senior year in high school, you know that last year of high school when kids are supposed to go crazy and have the time of your life. Well anyway, this past summer my friends and I were talking and saying that were not going to care about anyone or anything this year, were just going to have fun. Well that didn't quite last long because now my friends ALL got boyfriends. Not one of my close friends is single. Now when I want to go out and have fun and party they tell me, "oh my boyfriend has to come" or "i cant go because hes gonna get mad at me" or "I have to talk to him on the phone for a million and a half hours before I go to sleep". Its, to say the least, really annoying. They all act like they're married, and I'm getting reeeallly sick of it. I mean I'm extremely happy for all of them, but it seems like they all just gave up and centered their whole life around their boyfriends, and meanwhile I'm bored as hell, and my weekends consist of everyone paired up except me. I don't even want a relationship, I just wanna have fun!

ugh help!

You can't stop your friends from spending time with their boyfriends, so just find some other senior girls at your school who are single and just wanna have fun. Still do stuff with your close friends, but just have some others on the side that will go party with you and not worry about anything or any one else. Sometimes you need a little time away from your close friends, especially boy obsessed friends.

Q: my friend slept over at my house, and we both slept in my room. i have a computer in my room, and i told her that she could go on my computer if she woke up before me, which she did. when i woke up, i was still in bed and i just opened my eyes, but i didnt move or anything. i could see from where i was on my bed that she was going through my computer and looking at all of my things. i could see that she was looking through one of my word documents. then when i said something, i sounded tired and she closed the document immediately and i could see she was hoping that i hadn't seen her looking through my things. i know that i shouldve said something but i didnt, and i completely regret that now, because it shocked me that she would do something like that.

so my question is...should i just try to forget about this happening? and also, is it just me or is it wrong for someone to look around someone elses computer without permission, even if they are(somewhat) a good friend?

thx a lot.

ok, first of all that is not right even if she is a really good friend. i think you should confont her and say, " i saw you looking through my word documents, and i was just wondering why you didn't want me to know and why you did without asking me first?" i know i would be upset if my friend was looking through my word documents without my permission, i wouldn't care if she looked if she asked me that. you could also say something like that?
hope i helped ♥

Q: my friend stole something of mine and i know about it. should i confront her or just not say anything?

i think you should confront her and say that you know she stole it and would like her to return whatever she stole. let her know how you feel about her stealing. ask her to not to do it again cause you really care about her and don't want her to get in trouble for stealing some day!!!

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Q: my friend went to the public pool today
and while she was swimming her purse got stolen
it had her makeup, notes, and her house key.
what should she do since it has her house key
and if they know where she lives they could get it!!
help!

since her house key was in her purse, she should definitely get the locks changed the person may not even know where she lives, but they could find out if they tried hard enough. She should definitely change her locks to be on the safe side.
Hope it helps

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