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So my so called best friend has been telling her boyfriend everything that I've been telling her, And I've told her a lot. We've been friends for about two years and they have been in a really bad relationship for over a year now.
Now i found out because her boyfriend yelled at me and messaged me all the things he could use against me. It didn't really matter to me because it just doesn't bother me. Only thing that does bug me is that I thought i could trust her and i clearly couldn't. She has lied about a lot of other things to, I can't even begin to tell you how much she has lied and how busted she is.
Right now I am not speaking to her, when she knows someone is mad at her she ignores them like THEY did something wrong. When I was there for her from the start. So it's just..I don't even know. (link)
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that really wasn't a question, i think you just needed to rant and that's what a lot of people need so i'd say just listen to what the best part of you wants you to do. Talk to her about it.
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I am a thirteen year old girl, and he is a fourteen year old guy and we are both in the eighth grade (almost Freshmen)
So, my best friend and I got in a fight for the twentieth time this month it seems, but he claims it is always ME. that starts it. We are project partners for a 30 minute documentary that is due next week, and I have done ALL the work. he has gone off ice skating while I filmed, and so many other times has he blown me off. He also left me for the ENTIRE science project, which I did an A+ job on and he got credit. I calmly asked him to help in the project more, thinking that he would be cool about the situation but no. He literally YELLS at me in the hallway, and making me embarrassed in front of everyone in the hallway.
I simply asked him a question for him to help more, and he hasn't talked to me since calling me dramatic to other people. all of his friends are against me, which is practically the whole eighth grade. Should I apologize, or should I just be brave and stay like this for the last eight days of school? (link)
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You shouldn't have to apologize for his mistakes. Just wait it out and hopefully he'll come around- tell me how it works out!
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recently i've found myself a little sad because i hear or see people having fun with other friends like going to parties and hanging out etc.
I don't really have many friends. I have 1 best friend and we hang out a lot, he's a dude, i'm a girl. we're both 18 in high school still. i'm not really any stereotype. i'm like a mix. i'm weird but pretty. smart but kinda ditzy. athletic but girly. i'm having a really hard time finding a group of friends/or even a friend. i'm not a big fan of girl friends.. i used to have a lot of girl friends in my past but i always find myself so frustrated with girl friends because they cause so much drama and problems. thats why i dont have many friends, because most of my friendships are so full of drama and i get sick of it. thats why i like to hang out with guys, because they're so chillax and don't cause problems and i have so much fun just hanging out with them :)
but like i said, i have been finding myself a little sad. i hear about girls in my school going to get mani/pedi's and going shopping together and having a girls night out. i get sad because i don't really have friends like that who i can do things like that with..
but at the same time, i'm glad i dont have girl friends because i dont have to deal with drama like fighting over boys and jealousy etc.
i'm really torn in this issue. i miss having a girl friend to talk to about girl talk and going shopping together etc. but at the same time i kinda like just being independent and hanging with guys.
what do i do?? (link)
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Dear Being Independant,
So finding friends can be difficult, and everyone faces this problem, i've seen a lot of girls go through this, even i did. I tried being friends with one girl, and even had to fake smile so much during it, that i decided after that to stop hanging out with her, it's pretty tough, but a few days later i started hanging out with a new best friend, and she still is today. It's sort of just a shyness thing you have to get over in order to make new friends. No one can tell you exactly how to make friends, it varies per person. The thing to remember is try talking about girl things, you know perfume and shopping, and how you need someone to go with. I promise they won't look at you funny or run around with a bra and wig on.
hope this helps!
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hey i am a 7th grader and i really want to be a prep but i just don't know how? if anybody can help me please do thankyou (link)
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So, you see, being a prep is a state of mind. It comes from "prepared" which is a good thing, so that's what you need to be, "prepared". You don't have to be the mean, leathery skinned, cake faced, richgirl. All you have to do is be prepared. Be prepared for anything, but add your own touch to everything! People love uniqueness, and you don't have to even look amazing for that! So find cute clothes and things you like, and maked people love it:) embrace yourself and others will too! I know, it's shocking, but it works!!!!! the answers is you!
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