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my name is savanna. im 13 years old and i LOVE to give advice. if you have any questions at all im here to help :)
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Okay, so I'm engaged.
I have a friend with whom I used to be extremely close. I found out, though, after I started dating this guy, that she'd had a crush on him for quite a while.
Just so there are no misconceptions, I'm going to emphasize that I didn't know she liked him before I started dating him. If I had known, I wouldn't have gone out with him.
I was talking to my fiance - he's friends with her too. From what he told me, I think she still likes him. She doesn't know we're engaged. He started to tell her on line, but she signed off before he could and hasn't spoken to him since.
She's going to find out at some point, but I'd like to tell her in a way that won't...hurt her too much, I suppose.
Is there a way to tell her without going "oh by the way we're engaged" so heartlessly?
The thing is, I could say that, but she'd never admit to me that she still has feelings for him because she wouldn't want me to feel bad.
Any suggestions?
Please, no smartass remarks. I'll just rate you down.
Thanks in advance :)
just let her know how much ou love him and how you would do anything for him. i mean f shes a true friend then she'll understand taht you've found someone that you love and, if your engaged, you want to spend your life with..hope i helped? :)
Hi, I'm 17, Female. I have a friend that doesn't think I like her, but I do. Now when I try to talk to her on AIM, she doesn't say anything, or she just signs off. What should I do? Please help.
the only thing i can think to do is when shes on aim write a message to her and ask her why she thinks that you dont like her and explain that you do. because if she avoiding you it might be the only way. hope i helped at least a little?
:) louisianaisforlovers
my best friend said shes gunna run away tomorrow. i said i'd always be there for her and i will. im planning on keeping her at my house and she said she wants to go to her boyfriends house some of the days. and thats fine with me. should i let her for a little while? or should i just say no u cannot come to my house. well...i kinda believe her but she kinda doesnt do what she says shes gunna do. soo what do I do?!
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i think you should talk to your friend and try to talk her out of running away. she mightget drunk and do someting reallyy bad and nobody wants that to happen to they're friend. if theres no way on talking it out let her stay at your house because its probably the safest. hope i helped
vanna :)