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Q: my bestfriend & i sort of slowly drifted apaprt...we just haven't talked, except maybe briefly, in the past 2 or 3 months. we didn't fight, we just sort of stopped talking? should i confront her? i don't really want to be best friends with her anymore, but it seems like i tried to make more of an effort to keep the friendship then she did. should i confront her? if so what should i say? i just want to know WHAT happened, so it is not such a mystery anymore.
wow i know exactly what your going through..me and my best friend stopped talking and I was the one who felt like I was keeping the friendship together...the best thing i can say is ask her about it and if you truly don't want to be her friend anymore then don't. just ask her why you 2 drifted apart and that will definetly releave some weight off your shoulders...hope i helped!

Q: i know this girl, and i care about her more than anything in the world, but i can tell shes going down the wrong road, i can notice changes in her that i've made, in a good way, but its not enough, shes getting into alchohol now, and that could lead to anything, i've tried talking to her about it but i just cant let out how i feel, PLZ HELP!!! SOS
i went through the same thing. you just gotta tell her how you feel and that you care about her alot. if she knows that you care about her then maybe she will finally realize that she has someone who is going to be there for her through thick n thing. u just gotta talk to her thats all.

Q: im 13 yrs old, and last may one of my friends died. he was 14 and i wasnt really that close to him so i got over it pretty quick. but november 19 my friend (also my crush) died.. he was 14 also.. i dont no what to do.. i've been sleeping in class thinking about him and i just keep dazing off.. i cant pay attention to anything anyone has to say. i no its wierd..but our teacher told us to write letters and burn them so thay will make it up to heaven.. i burn like 3 a day! im really depressed and havent been acting normal.. i cant just "move on" or "get over it" Helllp!
Hey i know what your going through. 3 of my friends died in november and november 19th my grandmom died. You just gotta pray and believe in yourself that you can make it through. they will always be in your heart no matter what. Hope i helped

Q: hey i had already told my friend that i like him and he had liked me but he lost interest in me becuase i am insecure and he said theres a 50 50 chance of him liking me in the future i really like him and i want him to really like me agian and i was wondering what i can do for him to like me again i have been secure lately and i feel theres some other reason why he dont like me but he aint telling me it
If somebody doesn't like you for who u are then they aren't worth it. But if u really like him then talk to him about it and be like maybe we could date and see how things work between us. Theres always a possibility that he will like you again. If that doesn't work then there are always other fish in the sea!

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lisamarie887
heyyy im lisamarie im 20 yrs old and i love meeting new people and hanging out with people!! im a very open person and if u need an advice on anything just ask because i love trying to help people!!!

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