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my friend says she is always excluded but thats not true and its really annoying when i go to ride my bike with some friends and she gets upset cuz we did not invite her well she lives to far away and does not know how to ride a bike this is a really bothering me what should i do to make her see she is never excluded???

Tell her its a two way process, if she wants to do something, and next time she has a ride to your house or something then just tell her to call you, i mean if she cant pick up a phone herself then that's her problem. But do try to remember her every once and a while, like when you go to movies or arent really riding around too much just chilling at someones house. good luck!

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Ok so I have a good amount of friends and everything... but I am a bit shy. I just know I'd have WAY more friends if I was more outgoing. It's just really hard for me. Can I have advice on how to become more outgoing... and what I should do? Thanks.

-Hopeful

Just dont think about what other people are going to think of you! Say what comes in your head and act like everyone is your friend, even if they're super annoying. If what you say is really retarded it's fine people will like you for making them laugh, if what you say is smart then people will like you for knowing whats going on. you get where im going? no matter what you'll be fine, and you already have friends that know the real you so you have absalutley nothing to loose. have fun!

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