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I AM 13 YEARS OLD AND I AM IN MIDDLE SCHOOL. WHEN I GROW UP I WOULD LIKE TO BE A MODEL. EVERYBODY NEEDS ADVICE SOMETIMES AND I THINK THAT I CAN GIVE GOOD ADVICE AND IF I DON'T KNOW THE ANSWER TO SOMETHING THEN I SKIP IT. CHECK BACK EVEYDAY OR WEEK TO C MY NEW WEBSITE CAUSE I LIKE TO TRY NEW THINGS. HOPE THAT SO FAR I COULD HELP U ALL OUT. ADIOS,PEACE,HOLLA BACK, BYE
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Age: 13
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Okay, I like this boy named Joe. We went out for a day but then we broke up because he claimed he didnt know me enough. I still like him but he doesnt like me anymore, well he is saying that atleast. and i sorta believe it because i called him, he knew it was me, and he hung up... ON PURPOSE! how can i get his attention and maybe go out with him again? (link)
there are other fish in the sea and he's not one of them so don't throw a line at some that's not there. what i'm saying is don't try to get with him if there's nothing there. there could be someone that likes you but you wouldn't know because your to buisy chaising him. Just try to be his friend and flirt a little but not to much and maybe he will come around but if not then theres other fish in the sea don't worry. hope i could help.

always lil attitude
ps. try to be his friend at school not at home cause you don't want him hanging up on u.


My Friend doesnt like me anymore! I dont know why.. she just wont talk to me! (link)
well if she's going to say that about you don't call her your friend she isn't nothing so don't trip there are other people that want to be your friend and even though she's not one of them don't worry she'll be back once she sees that you forgot about her and you've moved on. But don't go back to her because it's just gong to start all over again. remember that there are other people out there so don't trip.
hope you liked my advice and remember that the final choice comes up to you rather you want to be her friend or not. choose your friends wisely.
come to me if you need any more advice
always lil attitude


Im not sure what to do? My best friend moved away and her dad doesnt let her come in contact with people who dont live near her anymore. We were so close we hung out and did everything all the time. And now that she cant contact me or i cant contact her, we've fallen apart. I've made a new best friend (of 2 years) and we're slowly fallin apart b/c we dont talk much, and she likes the same guy that i like, but i dont mind, what do i do, im afraid, i dont want to hurt my new best friend (2 years).. how do i talk to her anymore? (link)
no boy is worth fighting over just trust me let your friend have him cause if you go out with him you guyes friendship is going to fall apart. you might be jealous if they go out but soon you will find someone new. since you and your old friend can't come into contact then maybe try writting her. friendships come and go and maybe it's time for that one to go. that might not be what you want to hear but it' the truth. Try to make your friendship stronger with the other friend like talking on the phone more. if it doesn't get any stronger in like 2 week then try to make new friends. remember that friendships come and go. make sure to choose your friends right.

try to write me back because i would like to hear what happened and give you more advice

always lil attitude


Hey yall,

First of all I want to thank all the people who helped me with my last question.I loved the advice.Thank you!

Ok my next question is about me and my bestfriend.
My bestfriend means alot to me, I mean i've know her for 4 years but.Recently she moved away from my neighborhoo,and not in walking distance.So when she moved I started hanging out with my new next door friend.We now hang out all the time like me and my bestfried use to do before she moved.My bestfriend is now taking it as though i'm tryna replace her. But i'm not.I mean she said that she don't like the fact that i'm slowly replacing her and I need to choose who do I want to be friends with more.Who should I choose? My bestfriend or my close friend.Both of them mean alot to me. I'm confused!

Love Apple (link)
she's just jealous that she isn't with you but she doesn't want to tell you that in those exact words so she is telling you that you are replaceing her to make you feel bad. but don't sweat get her and your new friend together and maybe you all can hang out one day when you old but still friend comes down to visit you. she might have new friends too so tell her not to sweat cause it's a waiste of time to fight over that. but say it in a nice way. and she has to remember that everyone moves on.


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always, lil attitude


Hi my friend katie is a little over weight... but the thing is i dont think she realizes it and its not a big deal that she has a few extra pounds but its the clothes she wears. She wears really tiny mini skirts and tight shirts that do not flatter her at all. Everyone makes fun of her behind her back for it and she doesn't realize it how can i confront her about this without hurting her feelings, she is a really sensitive girl and she cares about what she looks like more than anything.. very superficial so i don't want to hurt her feelings, I think that it would hurt her ore if she heard what people said about her.. please help (link)
i think that if you have like 20 dollers you should get her some clothes that fit her and ask her if she likes them and if she does then take her shopping but let her pay. take some pictures of her and show her but see if she says anything about the way she dresses if not go with the shopping thing and keep all the miniskirts away from her. write back asap


always lil attitude


Im afraid to talk to a boy that I like because of nerves or something, like im afraid of messing up or embarresing myself. Even when we were going out I was afraid to talk to him in person. I would only talk to him on the phone because he is usually with his friends, and I easily get shy. He usually has a lot of girls around him because everyone thinks he is so hot and amazing. I need help with this... How do I get over my fear and go talk to him without it being through a friend or something? (link)
i know how it is maybe where talking about the same dude cause my boy is like that too. just talk to him go up to him and be like hey what's up. he might be nervous too. don't talk to much though cause then he will think that you have a big mouth. keep it simple. keep your cool and don't sweat. the words will come out easier than you think. you could even write him a letter. get to know him more and you 2 could have something going on. don't sweat and try to get him off of your mind sometimes.


always lil attitude


Is it wrong to make plans with one of your best friends and after all the trouble they went thur to ask there parents,they go and make plans with someone else. After you have been planing this since like Sunday. Or is it a signal that they dont wanna be your friend anymore? help
-Me (link)
yes it's wrong very wrong. she should have never asked you or your mom. i will give you more advice but how close of a riend is she to you. maybe she's useing you but that's not a true friend. try talking to her and write me back.

always lil attitude


My best friend is like getting really annoying to me, and sometimes i like her and sometimes i don't. I don't know if she should be my bestfriend anymore, cause she get's on my nerves, but I have said I don't want to be her best friend about like 4 times and I don't want to say it again. But she told me we have to secretly be best friends because she told some of my other friends that her mom said that she shouldn't have best friends. And my best friend told me she doesn't want our friends talking about her behing her back.. What should i do. answer please asap!! (link)
i think that you should tell her that you need a break from you guyes friendship for a while but break it to her so that you won't hurt her feelings. try to find someone to be her friend. but don't talk about anyone behind there back because that isn't right. if worse comes to worse try to work things out with her and be her friend one last time but if in your heart you don't want to be her friend then don't. why does she get on your nerves. write me back at lilattitude2004 that's not an e-adress but you'll see when you read the letter. hope that i helped you out cause friends can feel like that sometimes.



always lil attitude




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