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I'm a CIT at my camp so I just came back, I missed the first couple days of school because I was training. I was so used to giving out advice to campers and other CIT's, so it felt strange not to be helpful in that way, I was acctually looking up hairstyles when I clicked on this link. I really try to give good advice. In my favorite catagories it says Spirituality. The reason being that I took the summer before this one trying to figure out what I believe in. It's really important to know that, because that's a part of you. Your religion isn't just what you were born as. I'm hoping that I'm helping others by doing this.


Anna

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today i found out that my friend might be belimic and annorexic. i dont want her to hurt herself. i was thinking that i should tell the school counselor and maybe that would help... is this a good idea ? i really am worried about her.




also, she just started so i think i can help her ahead of time.

An awesome idea would be to tell he parents before you tell the guidence counselor. If they don't believe it, tell them you're still going to talk to the gc. It's good that she just started so that it's easier to quit. Belimia and Annorexia are DISEASES that can KILL, and it's also like a drug, you can get addicted to hurting yourself so easily. So act fast. :0)

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My friend keeps popping my pimples. It's gross. How can I make her stop? She randomly comes up to me and holds my face and BLAH. She didnt seem to understand 'Stop!' I hate going to class with blood smeared on my face.

Tell her to leave your pimples alone! They're part of your body and you have a right to keep it away from malicious pimple poppers. To be a little bit nicer about it. Just ask her to stop and tell her it bothers you and what you said in your question, say it to hre. And if that doesn't work use the pimple popper thing I said. It might cause her to A. Laugh + B. Stop :0)

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how can i become more outgoing? like i was at my cousins bonfire with all her friends and they wanted people to do like the lawn mower and the sprinkler and be stupid! but nobody wanted to and in my head i was like just do it just do it and then i was like noo i will look stupid! because there were a couple guys there that i thought were hott =) and i wish i wouldnt care what people thought of me! its always like..if i say something i think someone will think im stupid or something! even if someone asks me to go to a party with them and i dont really know anyone i will be all freaked out and be like oh my god this is going to be weird im scared! because im not going to know anyone and then who am i gonna talk to...everyones gonna look at me and wonder who i am! thats just how i am..or if im like at a football game with everyone and im trying to find a seat with my friend i feel like everyone is staring at me and i like the attention from guys..but then its like i dont really like the attention?! its weird. i just think i would make more friends and i would like for myself to be more outgoing and not care what people think. its so hard for me to change though. and in school in class i never talk..answer questions, participate because im scared to like say an answer or read something off! and i HATE speaking in front of anyone..ahh anyone know how to get over this!?

by the way im 16/f.
THANKS

Guys think girls are hot when:

A.they are blonde skinny and stupid which makes them or good

OR

B.They are cute funny and do stupid stuff like the sprinkler and have enough confidence to.

You may not have that on the inside but they don't know it and it may be embarrasing at first but you'll start cracking up too and if you start others will join in.

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