My name is Lacey, I'm 22. 4th yr in college. I like to give advice. I try to be a good person.I'm a very outspoken and honest person.I honestly been through alot throughout my years of dating and taking peoples stuff.I play softball and use to play volleyball.I've been playing softball since I was about 5.And I played volleyball since 7th grade til sophomore year in HS.But that's really it.If you want to know more about me or have any questions.Go for it and ask away.Either message me or IM me sometime.BYEEE!
E-mail: lacey.simmons8@yahoo.com
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Location: Houston,TX
Age: 22
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Its been awhile since me and troy my best friend have seen each other, and we made plans to hang out. We have know each other for 5 years and we have been unseperable since then; until I moved 5 moths ago to attend UC San Diego. He lives in La and he wanted to pay me a visit yesterday. He arrived early in the morning, luckily, we are getting ready for finals so we didn't have class and my room mates were gone for the weekend. When he arrived, it was weird, but it felt like it always did, i had butterflies in my stomach and when he hugged me i felt like the world had disappeared, and it was just me and him in this universe. He laughed and wanted to go inside. I showed him the apartment, went grocery shopping to make some breakfast and we hold hands, it was weird because he had a girlfriend, I tried not to think about it and I just enjoyed his company. When we arrived back we cooked, he made waffles and eggs and i made hash browns and bacon. It was the cutest thing ever. I have never felt that comfortable with him. We talked for hours and hours, and when silences would occur we would just laugh and start new conversation. Once it got late, I sighed. I didn't want him to leave, it had been a while since were together, He noticed and gave me one of his bear like hugs. I was his perfect size, my head fit perfectly under his chin, I wrapped my arms around him and he gently put his chin on the top of my head. After couple of minutes, I looked up and stared into his deep brown eyes, His eyes were full of sincerity and love, he pulled a little forward and his lips were inches away from mine. I couldn't resist and reached for his lips and gave him a tiny peck. I broke away from his arms even though I never wanted to leave his embrace. He pulled me to him once again and kissed me. he tasted so sweet, I let him search my mouth with his lips. His kiss grew passionate and before you know it we were both grasping for air. he led me to my room and we continued to make love. That morning, i woke up in his arms, I smiled at him and he reached for me. he told me he wasn't going to let go.... he left a couple of minutes ago, I miss him terribly. i don't know what to do... I need advice do you think he will leave his girlfriend to be with me? umm.. His girlfriend is my friend. I know it will hurt her a lot. But I'm hurting... am i being selfish? (link)
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Although you two sincerely love each other and what not, you should respect that he has a girlfriend and know what's right and wrong and so should he. I know you can't help what you feel and what not. If your friend finds out what you do, I seriously doubt she'll be okay with the fact of you two. You need to talk to both the guy and your friend about what just happened because what happened between you two will change everything. Do what you think is right, but know what you did was wrong. But if something good comes out of it, don't regret it. Hope everything turns out okay. If you need advice, don't hesitate to ask.
- Lacey
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My best friend is always saying how she makes out her female friends all the time, but ive never kissed her before, for some reason i really want to, and like i dont know how i can get her to kiss me without asking and getting rejected, i really want to try making out girls, like wed jokingly just pecked eachother on the mouth to tease someone but like when that happens i get an urge to makeout with her. What should I do!? (link)
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If your really that curious then either ask about it or kind of go for it. You may find out she wants it too. It won't hurt unless she's offended by it, but it seems like she wouldn't because she already makes out with her other female friends. Maybe she doesn't seem to think you'd do it. But who knows. Don't worry about it though, just let it happen.
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Hi im the girl that asked about Lee, and beer and Soccer.. okay so hopefully you remember me. I did go to talk 2 dayes ago. And we ended up getting in this huge fight and I told him to grow a backbone and stop fallowing Ralph and Ben and be a man- and he thought being a man was hitting me. He smacked me so hard... and i now have a bruise a little below my right eye.. and Ihavent seen my Father because God knows he'll get out of the hostpital and wind up in jail for killing Lee. I told Lee tho, that I came to tell him that I was gunna tell the Principal I lied.. and that he would get you guys back on the team... because the whole school sorta kinda hates me because there fucked now, theres no way we can beat the Cheifs and there like RAWR! so whatever tho. I dont know if I should tell the principal i lied when I know I didnt or let Lee hate me. (link)
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Lee is not a good friend if he EVER hit you. I don't care if he's mad, or you hit him first. He did it and your a girl. End of story. You need to say something, noone will step on you for something you were trying to help. Obviously he doesn't appreciate your favor so back off. I don't know if telling the Principal would be smart since, your "friend" hit you without any consideration and what not. He doesn't realize your consideration or worriedness. I don't know what to say though because that was suppose to be one of your really good friends. I don't see how he didn't even apologized for hitting you right after, after realizing what he did was wrong, but if you asked anyone.. not just guys that it's WRONG to hit a girl. And seriously... he could be charged for that. But do what you feel is best, don't worry about what other people think, because they are not what matters okay? Well good luckkk! Don't hesistate to ask anymore advice by the wayy!
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Okay, Lee my best guy friend is a Soc Jock. What me and best friend Ashley call the kids that play soccer in my Highschool. Well my school plays In and Out doors soccer all year round, and are wicked competitive to our rivals The Chiefs... and theres so many kids that would KILL to be on the soccer team that theres rules to being on. No Smoking, and No drinking and the biggest ones tho that could get you kicked you off immediatly. Well in November was our start of Indoor soccer which Lee is on because he's amazing at soccer and they won there first game. So him and a bunch of Soc Jocks celebrated. Now I dont know the whole story because I was not there... this is what I heard from a crying Lee which you will understand later. After getting completly drunk and they smoked some Hash i think, he got in his car [alone] thank god and got into a car accident. Well he walked away from it, and his Father completely covered it up and baught him a BRAND NEW CAR! Well, Lee came to me a few weeks after and told me the whole story like hysteric because he was afraid someone knew his secrete and he would be kicked off the soccer team [[who garentees like 10 kids a whole year paid of Coledge which is crazyy]] Well for the past couple months now I have babyset him every Friday night... and 2 Friday nights ago i went over my friends Ashleys house whos parents were thank god on a second honeymoon. Well Lee... he's an alcoholic. His drinkings gotten worse and more frequent and he puked in an areopostale bag like nine times threw it up in the air aiming for the trees and it landed on his head... so i washed him ofcaose. Well then last friday he calls me around 10 saying he needs a ride.. and soon after I realise he wasnst drunk but wanted to talk to me. Well he told me a lot of stuf that I wasnt ready to hear and I left. It started raining and I was freeezing! Well Lee finds me on park bench and tells me my Dad has had a heart attack and im saposed to go to the hostpital. My doctor lectures my Dad, I lecture him to and Lee hears this...
I told my Principal Monday this. And the same day Lee Ralph and Ben the star players were kicked off the team. When I left the office Lee was at his locker and like I had I screwed you over written on my forehead he knew i told on him.. Mr. Broody said I was a loyal friend only doing what i thought was best because I didnt want Lee hurt or dead but I dont feel loyal. He hates me, I messed his whole future up he was depending on that scholarship... Ashley told he it wasnt my fault hes a drunk but no one would know. It is my fault. Lee wont get in a good coledge, or anything. Everyone knows Im the rat. and I dont care what a bunch of little highschool kids think about me or the soccer team. I care about Lee... and he hasnt talked to me. And Im afraid Friday he'll get drunk and wont call... and die. And It will be my fault he's in some ditch. I thought I was doing the right thing, but I didnt. I know his parents wont ground him.. they'll cry there all star is off the team and probably buy him something huge and expensive. He might get in a car accident and it'll be all my fault. (link)
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Don't feel bad, your only trying to help him out. Obviously he doesn't want to talk to you or want to reason out anything right now and that's okay. Let him have his time. He will come to realize how good of a friend you are. He may not understand why you did that, but okay. You need to talk to him and reason it out with him. Try to make him understand why you did that, that you were only trying to help him out, not just rat you out. Give him reasons! Make sure you do talk to him though, he's your bestfriend, you don't want to lose a bestfriend over this. Well hope I helped.
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I'm sitting at this table for prom and theres this one girl that hates me. she wanted me out of the table but i talked to the other people at the table and they said that i should stay.. so im gonna. but if that girl were to say something to me what should i say back? (link)
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One person will not make a difference in what your doing. She will not change what happens. Just ignore her and keep doing what your doing. Everyone wants you there so it wouldn't matter what she thought. If she directly says something to you just be like haha.. whatever.. anyways. lol. Proms about having fun with your friends and hopefully NOOO DRAMA! Good luck!
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Hullo :] 15/f Well, about a year ago, I met a guy online. And I didn't have much friends at that time, so I would be obsessed with talking to him. To the point of staying up till 3 in the morning waiting for him to log in on MSN. He's meaner nnow.....and he changed. He messes with my feelings and hurts me. Okay and so...Now, as I started school. I found that I'm more distracted. And I could seriously not give a shit what he thinks of me anymore. He insults me and makes fun of me. I don't need him. I don't even catch myself thinking about him anymore. He's like an extra unneeded load on my shoulders. My question is...how do I cut him off for good? I don't want to talk to him anymore. How can I do it nicely? Or should I just delete him off MSN..cut him off? Thank you very much. Any advice would be appreciated :] (link)
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Good start by realizing you need to let go.Either you can just stop talking to him completely and not tell him.Or just be straight up with him and figure out why he's acting the way he is and see if he is willing to change or not.If he doesn't and he's just doing it just because, tell him you don't need that.Do whatever you feel like doing.Alot of people have trouble letting go completely and stop talking to them anymore,But when you do..you'll be relieved.Hope I helped and good luck.
-Lacey
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