Q: EVERYTIME i like a guy, flirt with a guy, a guy flirts with me, i get a chance with someone......

MY bestfriend goes after him. EVERYTIME!

she's a lot more "easy" & "pushy" with guys than i am and she'll do things like hook up with the guy i have a crush on at a party when i'm not there.

I HAVE confronted her about it and we fought for about a month....i found new friends.....BUT she's my favorite person to be around! i ALWAYS have a blast with her and we both laugh at everything. The problem is she's NOT loyal. i told her that. and she apologized...i gave her a second chance....We made up and she promised she would work on it. A year has gone by and NOTHING has gone wrong!

except for now....for about a month we have liked the same guy. the ONE weekend i go out of town....she hooks up with him!

she calls me and tells me omg he's so cute. we're so cute together.....but the thing is....................i "can't" get mad because......no one had a "label" on him! for the past week they've been texting and hanging out and AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH it makes me SO ANGRY!

if they ever break up.....i can't "go after him" because it's my bestfriends ex!


SHE RUINED IT FOR ME......

i keep saying.....whocares just find another guy....but it's HARD when you've been liking one and flirting with one for a month to just to move on while you watch your FRIEND WITH HIM!

I LIKE HIM AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

and when i want to go out to lunch...i always call her and we go and laugh and have a blast......BUT I CAN'T BECAUSE
1)I'M SO PISSED AT HER
2)SHE'S ALWAYS WITH HIM NOW

so i go hangout with other friends....but they aren't the same


i'm STUCK

Q: my friend is being really distant right now. do you think it is just a stage (weve been friends most our lives) and we just need some time apart or is it something else. what should i do.

Q: [21:57] me: (yeah right) really?
[21:57] friend: YEAH
[21:57] friend: and stop with those () things
[21:57] me: you hate everything i type
[21:58] friend: cause u type so meanly
[21:58] me: hahahahaha

its funny...BUT whats so bad about this?

Q: Met a really cute guy. We went out couple times. He is smart, cute and nice to me. However, I felt that I'm not into him as much he's into me........I don't want to hurt his feeling if somehow he asks me "the question" one day, but I don't want to pull apart either. What should I do to keep just friend with him?

Q: Okay, there's Tim and Harry. Tim is really cold hearted, doesn't care about others that much, blah blah. In a cute way. Harry is overly sensative and over dramaatic most of the time. Well, they are both gay and they've been friends for a while and they're perfect for each other (in a friend way mind you)

Well, Harry told Tim something that he was apparently sad about and Tim thought it was funny how Harry was making a stupid incident so dramatic and laughed and told Jen who is a really good friend of Harrys. Then Harry goes and says "I can't believe you! You're laughing and telling everyone about a sad troy?!!" or something like that. SO basically Harry is mad at Tim and TIm doesn't care and thinks it's funny and now Harry is all not hyper and somber looking most of the time and he's ignoring Tim whom I am always with at school and so I don't get to wlak with Harry to classes sometimes now. The thing is Harry won't forgive Tim unless Tim says he's sorry which TIm isn't going to do anytime soon.

So how can I get them to be friends again?> How can I get Tim to say sorry to Harry? ( I already tired the--"But you're being so mean throwing away such a good friendship" and all that stuff and it didn't work on Tim)

Can anyone help me??? I'm stuck in the middle and it's a very awkward position for me..

Q: ok so i need 2 get gifts for like 10-15 ppl (half girls/half guys). there all 13. i want it to b rele thutful, and feel like each one is personalized, but i dont have a huge amount of money!

any ideas?
thnx!

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