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hey,
i've had a crush on my best guy friend ever since...around fourth grade we've been really tight ever since then, but ive always felt a little more for him, now for the past couple months he's been flirting a lot with me and calling me a whole lot more..his best friend asked me today would you rather be best friends or date him. his friend sent me a convo between them saying that he wanted to ask me out...i really want to say yes but would that destroy our friendship? (link)
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Ha, I hate being in that kinda situation. It could go either way. I would say if he asks you out, say yes. You will always regret it if you stay friends. It will only possibly destroy the friendship if you guys go through a hard breakup (say you cheat on him or vice versa). But i have had feelings for my best girl friend, and I regret not acting on them because she is taken now :(. But both of you will be happier as a couple.
Anymore questions feel free to ask me
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there's this girl. she has blonde hair, hazel eyes, and gorgeous body. of course, all the guyz are in LOVE w/ her. and of course all the girls hate her. but the thing is , we're friends, but i keep on finding people telling me that she hates me. and at first im like "4wut?, im not as popular as her and she gets so many more guyz than me!" and when i came up to her face, and said, "if you have anything to say, say it to my face. you gota problem with me?" she sed "no, other people hv prblemz with you . they say that they think you're all that when you're not." ... what's the truth behind all this? is she jealous or what? (link)
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Well, Im not a girl so i dont know how u guys think, but ill answer this my best. Maybe since she is very good looking and popular, the people telling you she doesnt like you are jealous of your friendship with her. thats all i can think of, i hope it helps
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I found out my best friend and my boyfriend have been hanging out one-on-one. It upset me, I really love him, but I know how my best friend is with guys and that just worries me.
My boyfriend and I got into a big fight about it, and my best friend promised it wouldn't happen again. But then, they hung out again tonight. I'm not sure what else to do, they know it bothers me. They're aren't doing anything, I mean she has a boyfriend, but I'm uncomfortable with them hanging out without me there. (link)
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I'm sorry but I've seen friendships thrown away for similar reasons. You can't have any type of relationship without trust. You have to trust both your bestfriend, and your boyfriend. If you tell them to stop hanging out, you are opening doors to a miserable relationship with your boyfriend, and no friendship with your best friend. In the end, just have trust, its a huge part in any relationship.
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im 13/f. my two best friends are dating(a guy and a girl) and they asked me if it was ok i said yes and i feel like a third wheel always and if they ever brake up i dont know what id do.
what do i do so i feel better around them? what do i do if they break up? all three of us always went places never just two so they still bring me everywhere. i told them they could go on dates alone without me if they like but they say its funner with me. (link)
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Even if they invite you on EVERY date do not go on all of them. They will begin to get sick of you. Just give them their space, but do not completely distance yourself. Can be tough, but you have to try. I hope that helps.
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ok so im kind of torn right now. i started a new school this year and i made a lot of friends but they're all in different cliques. when one girl asked me to sit with her at an assembly, i couldnt because she sat with all of the popular kids who im scared of. i want to be popular but im not obnoxious so it seems like im boring when im with them. what can i do? (link)
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Don't be scared to be friends with anybody. Hang out with who ever you want to hang out with, and become friends with whoever. Seems pretty general, but its your choice. If you wan to hang out with that girl and her popular friends, be yourself, don't be scared. Just because they are "popular" does not mean that they aren't nice people. What I'm getting at is be yourself, do not be fake, and do not ever think people are "too popular" to be friends with.
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16/f. My best friend, a guy, talks to me all the time about shit that goes on with him, like at home(his home life is very f***ed up). Mostly it's on AIM. And I'm really glad that he talks to me, cuz we have a history(long story) and we are best friends. But a lot of the time I don't know what to say in response. I'll say I'm sorry and stuff like that, but I feel like I have to say more. But like what? I just need him to know that I will always be there for him and he can talk to me about anything, and I'm sure he knows that, I've shown it. Do I need to say anything else? (link)
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I feel the same way sometimes, and I have also come to the conclusion that they do just need someone to tell the problems to...so they do not hold it in. You are doing something great by taking the time to listen, and he deffinately appreciates that. I know i would.
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okay so me and jamie have been friends since kindergarden. but this year shes been hanging out with this girl stacey and me and stacey were pretty close before stacey and jamie HUGE friendship. and jamie like hangs out with stacey like 24/7 and im NOT even kidding. its so annoying. they leave me out of EVERYTHING. and bacically they do it on PURPOSE(i think) they dont even BOTHER to talk to me like alone. III have to go to them. then at the auction thing stacey and her friend olivia(are in a fight and now stacey was going to tell her off)so she was like jamie come with me to tell her off but jamie didnt want to..yadda yadda...and then while olivia and stacey were talking things out, jamie i guess realized stacey really wasnt her friend so she came to me and she was like im sorry ..yadda yadda your my real friend..yadda yadda.
then the next day, she DID the opposite of what she told me! she hung out with stacey like NOTHING happened!! and then today i was sitting by like jamie and stacey and some of my other friends and they went into the hall(w/o telling me)so i went too! and now my friend alex tells me that they were talking about how i was FOLLOWING THEM??!?!?!??! uhh what do i do?
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You need to have a talk with Jamie. Not a fight, just a talk. Ask her about what your friend Alex told you. And ask her why she seems to push you away when you try to be a good friend to her.
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