Hey Guys, I'm Jasmine, I'm sixteen years old,a junior in high school,on student council, a cheerleader, an ambassador, and a very nice person! I hope you guys ask me whatever is on your mind!!!!I hope you have a wonderful day!~~~~Jazz
Gender: Female
Location: Fayetteville, Georgia, EXITING hehe
Occupation: Student at WHS
Age: 15
AIM: jazz82289@aol.com
Member Since: September 25, 2004
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okay so i always tell my best-friend everything. I told her that i liked my ex-boyfriend keenan still. But all 3 of us are in 2nd hour together. I asked keenan if he liked my best-friend and he said yes he made me cry. I tell my bestfriend not to flirt with him in-front of me. And she says its not my business to tell her/him not to flirt with other gurls. He does have a girlfriend and his girlfriend says he cant talk to me because she doesn't like me. Well everytime i tell my best-friend who i like she always goes and flirts with them, and then she gets them to like her. She has a flirting problem and i just want her to stop because i still really like him... the weird thing is is that he knows that i still like him and he likes me but he likes my best-friend also.. does anyone have any advice on how i can get them to stop flirting i talked to keenan and he just said fine i wont talk to her if you think talking to her is flirting. And my best-friend just wont listen. So is there any way i can him to hate her or something or flirt less. Please! (link)
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Wow. First of all you should probably stop being friends with your "best friend" because best friends don't do what she is doing. If she is just too great to let go of then you need to distance yourself from her. Get into something else or make new friends, even get closer to other ones. Saying it's not your business is horrible, becuase you shared your business with her and then she got all into it. Not good. I wouldn't worry about his girlfriend they will probably break up anyway. You need to stop telling your friend who you like. Obviously she has some kind of insecurity and feels like she has to beat you to feel good about herself. Don't let her do that. Keep talking to him if he's talking to you, it's not that big of a deal, but don't throw yourself at him that will just cause more drama. I hope I gave you a good solution. Have a wonderful day!
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My Best Friend ditched me the other day, and then called me last night saying: "Hey girl! What's up?!?!" I'm still really mad about it, and she does it all the time. What should I do? (link)
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Talk to her about it girl! Just sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn't gonna do anything. Tell her that she does it all the time and it hurts your feelings. If she does it again then maybe that is a sign that you may need to get a new friend. xoxo
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i have this friend(we'll call her carli) and she got relly mad at me bc she thought that her bf liked me. so i went to her bf, and he told me that he did not like me. well, we tried to tell carli, but she just rolled her eyes and walked away. then today, someone told me they saw carli in the backseat of this guys car at the movies, and they were,uh, gettin kinda dirrty, if you get my drift. i think she such a hypocrit bc shes doin stuff with a guy and she was just fuming the other day bc she thought her bf was givin me the eye. but what really bugs me is she told everyone else that me and her bf were "together" and he dumped her for me. everyone believed her, and not me. and they dont even believe this other chick who saw her in the car. they think i made the girl say it to get the attention off me. i want carli to know that her bf doesnt like me, the school to know i wasnt with her bf and that carli was in the backseat of another guys car. revenge is sweet, so make it good.
thanks!!
oOoCarrieoOo
and dont tell me to throw pigs blood on her using my powers..im not that kind of carrie!! (link)
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Who cares what they think, she doesn't sound that great anyway. You know what was true. I know it sounds hard, but sometimes you just have to brush it off and keep going.It's just not worth your energy. Revenge isn't the way because then you will be just as low as she is. Move on. Good luck. xoxo
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Hey well I met this guy in a chat room and we got to talkin and it turned out that he went to my school , and when I found him in my school he turned out to be the Captian of the Football team and he seamed to like me but I already have a boyfriend...... I love my boyfriend to death but the guy I met lets just say his name is Shawn asked me out and I turned him down , was that the right thing to do??? (link)
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STAY TRUE TO YOUR MAN BABY!!!! Who said captain of the football team was so great anyway???? XXX
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hey my name is lizzie. i have this friend named jasmine who has her own advide column. She thinks it is really cool and all, but i dont think that she is very good at it. She also calls me lizzie the loser. her and this girl always sit together in math and make fun of people who wear bra straps around their neck! i think that this is really cruel! so can u please tell me how to talk to my friend. thanks.
*lizzie the loser*
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I think you should tell her how great she is and how much she impacts your life. Just tell her that you want to lick her sexy face. She'll come around soon I promise. xoxo
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okay well today in sports studyhall i was sittin down next to this kid lets call him *CHRIS* well CHRIS and I were talkin n then he was lookin at my cellphone n i have verizon so u can change wut u want it to say n mine use to say lets call me *ASHLEY* and so it use to say ASHLEY loves you and then CHRIS changed it to say ASHLEY IS HOTT and i was lke um k then i had to go get someone from a teachers room and then i came bak n CHRIS goes i put my number in ur phone book i was like umm ok..but the problem is i dont like him and hes been going out w. a friend of mine and she happens to be on my soccer team too and they have been goin out for like a year..so my question is y wud he do that?
i rate all 5's tnxs (link)
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He thinks you are hot, there is nothing wrong with that. Sorry. I mean you don't like him, so be his friend get to know him see where it takes you. It's not a big deal I promise. xoxo
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okay i have these friends who are seniors and they mean so much to me! i am a junior and i want to give them something that they can enjoy so i decided to make a sort of photo album/ yearbook of friends sort of thing. so anyway i want to kno if u guys have any ideas on how i can get started or comments about what i should put in the book! if u have any suggestions on where i can call to get info about making a book or going on the web please let me kno!!
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Go to like Barnes and Noble, or Wal mart, or target, or anywhere they sell stuff like that and put significant pictures in there of good times you guys had, put inside jokes, between you guys, like if once you got a twix stuck up your nose put a twix wrapper in there. Make a collage from magazine things. Stickers, are good to, go to like a hobbie store and you will find lots of stuff to put in there.Good luck sweets
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My friend and i used to be really close but lately shes been ignoreing me alot and its really hurtin my feelings.. what should i do! (link)
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Talk to her about it, ask her why. Don't just sit there in wonder. It's probably something minor that you can fix in one convorsation. GOod luck babe!
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my friend gave me a note to give to another friend...and i forgot to. Later that night i remember the note was in my pocket so i did a bad thing and read it. In the note she talked about how she wants to kill herself and about how she is thinking about slitting her wrisits! what should i do! if i tell my friend she`ll be furious that i invaded her privacy...but if i dont....who knows what could happen! (link)
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Keep the note, go to your parents (if they are friends with her parents or not) and give them the note, tell them the situation. DO NOT TELL HER YOU KNOW!!!!!! RIGHT AWAY she may be mad at you, but she's crying for help, so get her help, she will thank you later, personally I would rather have my friend mad at me than dead. Good luck sweetie
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i like this boy and so does my BESTFRIEND and like its really weird because i liked him for the longest time and she just started loiking him but she acts like she called him or something and i really dont know what to do ?? will you help me! (link)
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Umm, that's kinda vague, I don't know the situation, and I don't know what I am supposed to help you with . Why is calling him so bad? Don't let a guy ruin your friendship, that's all I can really say have a great day.
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Alright well, my friend C and K fake make ouut and kiss all the time. You know where you put your hand over there mouth and kiss it? Well, the other day C kept doing it to K. And put her legs all over her and was all into it. She kept touching K. K looked really uncomfortable. I'm thinking C is lezbo-curious or bi-curious whatever you want to call it. By the way she is only 12.!. What do you think?? I would love to hear your comments. I just think it's wrong 'cause she is only 12. (link)
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I wouldn't worry about it, You guys are twelve, that's kind of a coming of age time, she's finding out who she is or maybe she's just confused, give her some time she'll come around whethere she's str8 or not. Good luck sweetie
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well, my best friend courtney shes like the best ever shes always been there for me, i like love her .. you know as a BFF, but in school she USED to be popular, but everyone started hating her, and she doesn't have many friends, and everyone picks on her, well in her livejournal comments the popular stuck up people write stuff about her to make her feel bad about herself, liek callen her a horse (i duno why) fat or something, but i think shes perfect, i ALWAYS stick up for her, like ALWAYS, am i doing right? I mean is this gunna gimme a bad reputation in school jus because i always stick up for her (btw, she got homeschooled this year because she got picked on by everybody, and she has depression and stuff)i think i am doing right by sticking up for her since shes my BF, but would u do it. please help! ~confuzzled (link)
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I'm in the same situation babe, it's ok I promise, you always, always, always stick up for people who have been there for you. As for her being homeschooled that's too bad, because it's like running away from your problems. But yes I would do it, and I DO do it. You are doing the right thing girl. Stick by her.
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