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ok i have this friend... and she and used to have looads of fun together and she was someone i could act silly with ya know? but on halloween i asked her if she wanted to hang out and she said she couldnt because she had to "pass out candy" then later i found out that AFTER i asked her, her other friend asked her to hang out and she said yes... hmm a little suspicious? so i got over that but then last tuesday (the tuesday b4 thanxgiving) i asked her if she wanted to go see a movie on wednesday at like 2:30ish.. and she said that her dad couldnt take us or pick us up and neither could her mom... so i was like ok whatever i didnt really care.. but then the next day (wednesday) she said she was going bowling at 2:30! so i was lke well how are you getting there? and shes like oo my dads taking me and then my moms bringing me home at 4... whats up with that??? yea i forgave her once (is that correct grammar?) and now she ditches me again?? i dont think so... what should i do? is she a real friend?? and dont say "well try talking to her" because i tried that and she made up all these stupid excuses... i mean i want to be her friend but not if she treats me like this... any suggestions?
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i dont think she's a gd fren towards you..i mean she is lying to you. i think you should find new frens and hang out with these ppl often and see if she gets jealous.if she does,tell her that she did the same to ya on halloween and see what she has to say.if she doesnt get jealous,it shows that she has moved on.and you should too.forget about her and start a new life wif ur new buds! hope my suggestion helped u! gd luck!
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hey ok im 14 and um female... n e ways... my best friend and i have been friends since 1st grade and we have litterally been thro EVERYTHING together. im the type of person who will give u room to grow and branch out but be there for u when u decide to come back. and thats kinda how its been w/ me and her. no big right... well i am also very well known for my apt ability to give advice and stuff. i have helped my friend out of nearly every problem shes ever had and i have no problem w/ this but she freaks out and suspects things of me if i dont have the perfect advice right away. like if im dealing w/ something else and i come back to her she freaks or if i am shocked and momentarily dont know what to say she thinks i dont care... what do i do?! (link)
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You just tell her that you are not her advice column. I know that you guys are best friends and you always give her advice. But you also have to tell her that you are also a human being and sometimes you can run out of advice. Remember, no one is perfect. Good Luck! :D
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hi again. ok. i have this friend and she is soo nuce and i love her to death but, weve grown in different directions. Shes become like a major punk and tells me all this stuff i dont want to hear. She wants me to do all sorts of stuff with her and i want to its just hard to decide what to do because shes not all that great of an influence. what should i do?? (link)
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Since she's a punk and you think that she's not all great of an influence, I think you should just do what ur doing and if you think the thing she ask u to do is bad dont do it.Good Luck! :)
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I have this one friend who is really hard to be friends with but i love her and she's great to have around. The thing is, she doesn't mea her sorryz. Like, she'll ignore me, i'll tell i don't feel good being ignored, she'll say sorry, and go back to ignoring me. And please don't tell me to make any drastic measures like stop being her friend. (link)
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Ask her to sit and THINK what will she feel if she was treated the way she treated you.I know how you feel.U dont wanna stop being friends with her. But there's just 1 thing u want her to change.(my friend is bad-tempered but other than that she's ok) Dont scold her. Just talk to her in a relaxed way. Good luck! :)
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female/13 ok ..... I have a friend who that when ever she needs me I am always there , but when it is put the other way around she doesn't do the same for me . I am sick of being in last place , whenever I ask can she go to the mall with me she ditches me to go with some other guy , but if she wants to go and I have am not able to she gets mad and gets an attitude , and when ever we fight it is always MY fault . Like last time she got mad cause I tld my other friend something that I was going through with my amily and I refused to tell her cause she wouldn't understand cause she has both of her parents. What should I do ? (link)
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Try talking to her. Let her THINK what will she feel if she were in ur shoes. Don't scold her or anything, talk to her in a relaxed way. But be firm. If she still never change, then I got no idea!hehe.Good Luck! :D
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