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so i hve this friend who i like and were friends and i love when we hang out but theres a problem. she has this friend. lets call her "Pillow" and pillow is really annoying and all of my friends cant stand to be around her. so whenever i make plans with my friend..lets call her "blanket" she always at the lastminute is like "ohh btw pillows comming too" and i cant say no. so then all other people who also find pillow annoying get mad at me and it causes this whoe problem. how to do keep blanket as a friend without having to be with pillow? (link)
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Firstly, don't ask blanket to choose between you and pillow because you might end up losing blanket altogether. tell blanket that you'd like to spend some time just you two. or organise events where you have to book tickets or numbers before you go. so invite her to the cinema with all your other friends and tell her you need to know if blanket is coming because you have to book tickets. that way she'll feel rude if she invites pillow along. or go out for a meal and say you have a table booked for 5 people, is she able to come? then you dont seem too out of order and you get to go out with just blanket and your other friends. Good luck x
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so basiclly i realized that i need more guy friends. i used to have alot and i kinda burned those bridges, so now how to do i befriend new boys? (link)
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Okay are you male or female? Because that could change the answer :)
Male-maybe join some clubs, get involved with sports and stuff and get to know the people. Also maybe organise an event so that you can go out with loads of guys that you know. They dont have to be your friends at the moment, but if you invite a group of them then they are more likely to attend and then maybe you can start re-building some of your bridges.
Female-joining clubs is still an option, or alternatively go to a few festivals this summer as they are always good for meeting new people. Get some of your girl friends to arrange an evening and get them to invite some guys that they know and tell them you invite their friends too. That way you wont be the only one that doesn't know everyone there and you can make friends with them easier :)
Good luck xx
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im going to florida and i was going to bring my friend along but i was just wondering if it would make it hard on everyone but i dont mean it in a bad way at all shes my best friend. she is 17 im 16 and theres a guy thats 15 and then nineteen 18 year olds. plus she doesnt know all them to well but were all in the same tiny school.
Were driving 14 hours to florida, we will all lay out in the sun most of the time and she is the only one thats black and she doesnt like to she sits with a towel over her even at pools so i would feel too bad, she also is the only vegan so food choices would be hard but im with her everyday im perfectly fine with it i just dono about everyone else. I am the only vegetarian but im not strict enough i would eat a lil meat if i have no other options. Also she isnt responsible at all shes over a year older than me but i take care of her for everything and yea were gonna be partying i dont want her to get hurt. she only drinks, i only smoke. she also cant swim. this would be the best vacation in the world if she could come. i love her to death she is my best friend but i dont want this trip to be a hassle on everyone else.
what do you think i should do? bring her or not? if she does come what are some good destin florida area vegan restaurants? and what do we do about us tanning and on the beach 24/7? (link)
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Invite her. Tell her what you'll be doing. Tell her who is going. I'm sure she'll think of all the possible negatives about the holiday. Tell her if she doesn't want to go then thats fine but then leave the decision up to her. That way she feels included and if she thinks she'll be able to deal with it then you won't feel so responsible when you get there. Good luck x
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alright my friends are way to over protective.
i like to hang with guys thats just me. even with my bf its hard to even hug.
like seriously they need to learn its my choices and who i hang with
what should i do (link)
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Just talk to them and tell them that although you love spending time with them, you get on really well with guys as you find them easier to bond with. Explain that you can have more than one group of friends. But if they annoy you that much then maybe it would be best for both of you if you made a new friendship group? Don't take good friends for granted. Good luck x
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