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Molly-
One of my "best" friends is i guess....popular. And it seems now she doesn't want to hang with me. I we have 1 class together and she talks to me there. but not anywhere else. I was wondering should i talk to her about it or leave it as it is??

Aww id definately talk to her about or something. Make an effort to talk to her outside of that one class. If you see her in the halls wave to her or say hey or something. Maybe she never gets the chance to talk to you? I hope I helped!

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MOLly

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I have this friend who is changing for the bad... She was sweet and nice when I first got to know her but now she completly changed...Shes dating guys at a young age, she swears, and she wears clothes to flash off her body. I think it is because she goes to a bad school, or hangs out with the wrong people. I am sure that if I try and tell her she will come out with a answer like "Who asked you!?" or "How would you know!?" Should I tell her she should change her ways? Or leave her as a friend.
-Confused

I would definatly talk to her about it. Let her know that your worried about her. Give her a chance to explain whats going on with her. I hope I helped!

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Molly

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i have had many thoughts of suicde. for stupid reasons what do i do?

Okay, the number one rule..JUST DON'T DO IT! I mean think of what would happen! I mean for one, you could possibly DIE. And then whenever people think about commiting suicide because they're in pain and they think that'll make it go away, just think of who you are leaving in pain whenever you commit it. Your family, your friends.. everyone you love and that loves you. What I suggest is that you talk to someone.. your mom, dad, friend about this before you start to get more serious. And maybe even suggest going to counseling and getting some help there or going to a talk group. Because commiting suicide is not the way to solve anything. You should be here adn alive and experiencing life, because people always think," Oh I'll never be able to get through this, I wanna die" etc. And really, if you try at it and stuff, you can get through it. But you said for stupid reasons which I kinda don't understand, like something dumb that you shouldn't even think of suicide for happens but you think about it? I don't know.. but seriously, just talk to someone about this immediately. Because if you are in pain and stuff, letting it out by beating a pillow or talking to someone or something really does help a whole lot better than suicide. I hope you get better and I hope I helped!

x3*___Molly

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one of my best friends likes to gossip a lot!!
i donno if i should tell her anything personal because im afraid she will tell the whole class.
i dont want to not tell her anything either because she probably wont think i like her very much.
HELP!!!

Talk to her and tell her that she's one of your best friends but your afraid to tell her things because she gossips a lot. Make sure you let her know you still want to be friends with her (if you do) but you can't trust her with very many things. Hope i helped!

x3___*Molly

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okay my best friend like wont talk to me about anything personal. she wont even talk to her mom about it i want to help her because her house is up for sale and if it sells she is moving to a different state.if it doesnt sell i think she might stay here for 8th grade year. i really want to help her with something that is goin on in her family.should i ask her if there is anything personal she wants to talk about or what? i donno if i should tell her anything personal about me either cuz she doesnt tell me anything.

a best friend should be able to talk to you about anything. maybe she feels uncomfortable talking about her situtation. i think that you should leave up to her to decide if she wants to talk about or not. asking her if theres anything personal she wants to talk about may make her feel even more uncomfortable, if shes really your best friend give her time - she'll come around eventually. Hope i helped!

x3____*Molly

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how do you know if that one friend is that one true "best friend" that will stick with you for life, thru all the bad and good times. i cant really explain what i mean by that one best friend but i think you might be able to get what i mean. thanks

A best friend will always be there for you and never ditch you to do something else. You should feel comfortable telling this person everythiing and not laugh at you or make fun of sometime you told them. Hope i helped!

X3____*Molly

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what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age>

Theres not one perticular age were people start to act more mature - people mature at different ages. For some they'll mature fast others it mike take a while to start acting mature. Hope I helped! In any case, though, a friend should always give you a shoulder to cry on.

x3____*Molly

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How did you get so magical Molly? You can anwer anything just like that, its crazy

lol well thanks fer the compliment. It's really not that hard..giving advice.

x3____*Molly

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