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advice

16/F

My friend whom I care about alot has been heading down the wrong path for quite some time. I was best friends with him last year, then we just stopped talking because of what he started doing. We are still friends though, we just havent talked alot [make sense?] he just recently moved out of his house into an appartment, and dropped out of school. He is now into hard drugs and alcohal. How can i help him straighten up? he has already gone to rehab, which obviously didnt help too much. But i really want to get him out of drugs and into JESUS! haha.
How can i tell him i care for him, and i dont want to watch him kill himself any more?
but i dont want to sound tooo much like im in love with him or something.
thanks!

Like the other person said, he has to do it on his own.
But just get people who care about him, or just you, and tell him that you care about him and just say how you feel about. Hopefully it will be a wake-up call, and he'll understand. But no one can help him unless he wants help.

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15/f

alright so cameron is pretty funny and cool and i want to be friends with him because he seems like such a cool person to hang out with.

but the problem is he can be really "friendly-mean" to people including his friends. so usually when he says something mean to me i ask him about it and he says "thats just the way i am im sorry" or "i was just joking im sorry" and he sounds genuinely sorry.

but the tone in which he says it makes me feel as if i just..fail at something which is kind of sad and irritating at the same time. like usually i dont mind taking that kind of abuse unless i know in my heart that the person was kidding and i have no doubts about it, but in this situation im not so sure since ive only known cameron since school started!

so now i want to stand up for myself cause he said something yesterday that i really did not feel comfortable with but i dont want to start a fight or anything. and if i stand up to him again he might think im just a bitch, which i think he already thinks i am b/c of past circumstances. idc what people think of me, unless the person is really cool, which cameron is.

so what do i do? i just want to be respected but i want to make friends at the same time..

Oh, yeah.. I have guy friends like that. It is annoying but you don't really have to stand up for yourself. Just make a joke right back at him. You won't come off as a bitch and he'll know that you know hes kidding. And he'll know you're kidding too. If he says something offensive to you, then you can stand up for yourself and say something, and hopefully he wont say anything like that again.

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Oh, here it goes(sryy this is kinda long)... My friend, Lexi, is well liked by everyone. She's really cool, and we are pretty much best friends. No prob, right? Well, a couple years ago, in sixth grade, this girl (lets call her Polly) was my best friend, and in the first part of seventh grade, but now Lexi hates her. so im just sitting there, like what? So theres this other girl(Nikki) who i LOATHE entirely, and my Polly is now best friends with her, and i feel us drifting away, and now Polly is terrible. She took on a totally different personality. Like she is absolutely annoying and loud and obnoxious, and I want to kill this other girl, Nikki. Partly because she copies every little thing people do (my pet peeve) and now Polly is doing that. So I hate her a little, but I still remember when Polly and I were best friends. I want to be friends with her again but i cant be with her when she's with Nikki, so I need to split them up. Although I really want to be friends with both Polly and Lexi, because they both are really cool and nice. But I can't if Nikki is around. Here are my question for you, okay?
1. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2. How should I go about doing this?

Thanks a bunch! 14/f

Oh wow, I know exactly what you're going through, I'm going through almost the same thing. You should confront Polly. She might feel the same way. Just completely ignore Nikki. Sometimes people change an d drift away. Exspecially around this age. And you can be friends with Polly and Lexi. You just can chill with them together.

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