My name is Baylee and I am going to become a reporter someday and have my own advice column. I give great advice and love helping people. Sorry I do not have a picture because apparently the file is too big to upload? Haha :)
E-mail: eelyab24@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Orlando, Florida
Occupation: Reporter/Advice columnists
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Member Since: June 3, 2009
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i have hard time trusting people and hard time opening up but i think i like the way i am cause i get to protect myself a lot, but at times i wish i had someone to trust and share my secrets with and it makes me sad and lonely but something tells me not to trust anyone and keep things myself because i feel like if i do share things with other people i end up getting hurt like i always do what should i do about this trust issue? its really hurting me but at the same time im okay with it when people ask me personal questions i just think they just trying to get information or they gonna blab it to someone else so i always lie AND i always think people are lying to me, it hurts when people confide me with their secrets and problems but i cant do the same to others (link)
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Hi!
Not be able to trust many people is not an issue. It has more good qualities than bad. I tell everyone everything and it comes back to bite me. I learned from that and there are only a couple people that I trust. My best friend only trusts me and one other person. You never know in life who you can really trust until you really really know them. I would say to you, do not worry about it. Just find one person that you can trust because you do need to express your feelings. So all you need is ONE person to do that. I hope I helped :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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Hey,
I am 16f. I had this one friend for a long time previously, we were BEST friends, she even said so. Until she decided to give me up, for my brother... sad sad.. anyhow, ever since we first knew eachother, she has copied almost EVERYTHING she could think of. When I got a new sweater,she would have to go out and but one that weekend. When I got a laptop, she got the EXACT same one. When i got a certain binder, she got the same one, and when I got a dog, she had to go and buy a dog the next week. Now, I am not rich or anything, but her family IS sort of richer than we are, they have bigger,fancier items,and a much wealthier lifestyle.. but anyhow, I don't care at all. I am happy with who I am, the lifestyle I live, and such. But it drives me INSANE when she has to copy everything I do... She even works at the SAME place I do, she never even considered getting a job until I did! Oh, and when I bought a vehicle bout six months ago, she was SOOO close to buying an exact replica! (I am sure she STILL might (get her parents too).) Yes. Insane I know. But the most recent one, that just happened today is burning a frustration hole in my chest. She walked into my room, because she practically lives here, since she is (blech) dating my brother, and she finds my resume on my desk and starts reading it. She asked what I was applying for, and I didn't even want to tell her because I know she is going to apply for it, so long as I do.. arg! .. And I know the resume she applys to get the job with,will be (you guessed it) an exact replica... Sure maybe it will have a few things that apply to her, but I KNOW SHE WILL COPY IT! and it is BURNING A HOLE in my chest... I really dont know what to do or how to excape it. She sees something I have or wrote in school (yes. she is in some of my classes and in the same grade), and she just pounces on it. What do I do? I am SO sure she knows I was going to apply for the park job with this resume.. and now.. her resume is going to look the same. ANd I may end up stuck working with her.. While she sucks faces with my brother. If you know how I am feeling right now.. :( .. PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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Oh my! That is a problem, I feel very bad for you :(
If you must work there for the money then work while you are applying for other jobs and DO NOT let her find out about it. Maybe try talking to your brother about it or tell her straight up that you think she copies EVERYTHING you do. You do not have to be her friend, you don't want to. Just manage to deal with her until they break up. I doubt it will last long she seems a bit crazy. Only talk to her when you have to and don't share any information with her like where you work or what you bought. Try to be as secretive as possible. If you have any more questions on doing this then let me know :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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so lately my crush/freind/stand partner in orchestra (his name is alex) has been treating me a little bit diffrently than he has been like today when he wanted to get my attention (he ussually just says my name) he touched my shoulder yesterday when we were walking to our lockers (they'r just a set of lockers apart) and i told him (becouse i was mad at 2 people that day) that i dont get mad too easily but when i do get mad i get really mad then i told him that he doesnt want to get me mad so then (jokenly) he called me a loser then when he said that he was just joking he touched my shoulder and one day it was really cold out in the morning and we were waiting to go into the school and i just had short sleeves and jeans on and i was shivering so he said that i could wear his jacket i said no and today during orchestra when i told him (becouse he asked) that i dont have a bf he told me that he is gonna ask a girl out but i have no idea who she is but is there a possibility that its me today when we were handing back our sight reading music (he ussually just says my name or puts the music on the stand) but he put the sheet music on my head instead of just saying my name so i would know that the music from the people in the stand behind me needs to be handed up and when i was handing it to the person in the stand in front of mine and alex's i said (while laughing) hey sorta like a why did u do that hey not like a annoyed or mad hey i am not new at the school and him and i have been good freinds since the start of the school year.him i talk alot more to him than i have with my bff reenay this week i have probobly talked to him more than i have to reenay all school year.he does get really annoyed and mad (he does not get annoyed or mad easily at all or very often) if when i am talking to him and one of his other freinds interupes me but he does not get really annoyed if i interupt him or the person that he is talking to but i try not to do that.he asked me how my bf is doing then i told him that i dont have a bf and he said oh and that he is gonna ask a girl out then he started to act a little diffrently around me (link)
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He likes you for sure! If he asks you about your boyfriend and tells you he is going to ask a girl out then he is totally into you! The only question is do you like him? If you need more help let me know.
Sincerely, Baylee :)
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should i go to my best friends birthday party where almost everyone hates me? (link)
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Don't let them get to you or win. This is YOUR best friends birthday party and if anyone has the right to be there it is you! Support your best friend. Ignore everyone and hangout with her. If you need further help I am here. Hit my inbox up!
Sincerely, Baylee :)
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(my life is somewhat like the twilight series. so dont sue me for copyright if i use the characters names) right, so i have this friend, jake. we met 3 or 4 years ago, back when he was in fifth grade and i was in seventh. we talked on the phone a lot, and he annoyed me somewhat. but hes a really sweet guy and he eventually asked me to marry him, (its a middle school game-type-thing. obviously, we're not really married.) but i still call him my husband and he calls me his wife. its cute.
anywho, i met my current boyfriend, edward, 2 years ago. he broke up with me twice, but now we've been dating for 5 1/2 months, and as far as i can tell, we're not breaking up anytime soon. back when i was going through a really rough patch with edward, (because he had broken up with me abruptly and didnt talk to me for 6 or 7 months,) jake was there for me. we hung out a few times, and i always talked to him on the phone. he was my rock. and then when i got back together with edward, he was pretty upset, (he had allegedly fallen in love with me during that time). so anytime i vented to him about getting into a fight with edward, he bashes him. at first i didnt really care, then it started annoying me, and edward too. one time, he texted me while i was at edwards house, asking if i would cheat on edward with him. and edward saw the text! he was so pissed. but he called jake and tried to make it clear that he didnt want jake saying things like that anymore.
for a while, jake stopped. then the other night he was on aim, and i had just had another fight with edward. i vented, and he was bashing, and i finally told him to stop, but he wouldnt. he said i needed to "ditch the vampire, because the wolf is better," and i needed to "change the ending in the book". i yelled at him, and he got upset and logged off.
jake is a really good friend of mine, but he just gets so annoying! hes bashing my vampire and trying to get me to cheat on him or dump him, and just says so much shit it gets on my nerves. but i miss him! i dont know how to convince him that i will NEVER leave my vampire, and that he just needs to stop already! what should i do?????? please help! (link)
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Hey :)
First off I want to say the whole Twilight themed story is VERY cute :) Okay look, I know this is a really great friend you do not want to loose but you may have to :( He is 2 years younger than you to start off with so he is going to be a little less mature than you. Also I do not think that a "FRIENDSHIP" with a guy that wants a "RELATIONSHIP with you is going to work. It seems to me that it will take a while for him to get over it, it has already been over 2 years! If you must be friends with him then tell him straight up that you are not planning on leaving your boyfriend anytime soon and that you do not like the way he acts about the situation. Tell him you like being "FRIENDS" with him and that is what you want him there for. So he can help an support you through everything including relationships. If he does not like it then the honest truth is that maybe you should not be close friends with him. The weird part is he will never truly stop liking you, he may only hide it from you. I do not think being best friends with this guy is good, especially when you are devoted to your boyfriend. You may not be loosing much. If he was a good friend he would not try to break you two up when you are happy. However whatever you decide to do at the end, do not use Jake as a "backup" unless you really like him. What I mean is if you and Edward break up then do not go running to Jake as anything more than a friend. It kind of gives him the upper hand. Anyways good luck with Edward and Jake. Do not worry about all the fights you have had, all real relationships do. You have lasted a long time :)I think this is about all I can say. Please feel free to send me a message if you have any more questions. I am glad to help!
Sincerely, Baylee :)
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Wel, before I ask my wuestion you should know a little about my situation. I really absolutely like this guy and all my friends know, including him. However, one of my friends that was probably the first one to know has been flirting with him A LOT lately. I told her last week if she could stop because she knows how much I like him, but she keeps doing it. What should I do? (link)
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hey :)
I do not think that is a very good friend you have there. It would be different if she liked him to begin with but she has not according to you. As the others have said it is a competition so do not let her win! Beat her to it and flirt with him, he will choose who he likes. If your friend continues to do this, call her bluff. I hope this has helped :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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i'm waiting for my ex. and he always thinks i'm flirting with other guys, but i really don't try to..i guess thats just my way of being friendly. i don't want him to think this so how can i still be friendly with guys without coming off as flirty?
17/f (link)
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Hello :)
I understand your problem and I think that all you need to do to be friendly is welcome them if they come over and mingle but not when your boyfriend is not around or he will start to get that idea. Do not giggle a lot or be too close. Just mingle nothing more. Oh and if you boyfriend gets that paranoid and jealous, your lucky :) he must really like you. I hope I helped in some way :)
Sincerely, Baylee
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