the names were just random names i came up with because i was trying to fill it in and sorry i guess you dont need my advice but u shud be more clear i guess because i gave u good advice twice

This guy sounds like a real jerk. First off get away from him you can actually have the fone company block a number from being able to reach your house so report his number. If he starts coming to your house threaten to call the police. If he is honestly driving you so mad that you want to kill someone maybe you could get a restraining order but thats only nessacary if he like REALLLLY invading your personal life or threating you. Call your friends up one by one and say sorry even though you don't think it's your fault. Tell them you really don't like charles and your doing your best to get away from him. Tell her I just want you to know that I wouldn't lie to you what charles says isn't true. Make up with everyone of your friends and hopefully they'll see your point. Maybe every night before bed have some herb tea and just relax get rid of the stress because one guy isn't worth it. I hope this helps
Kelli

ok sorry i didn't help much before I'll answer your questions in order
1) invite them over one at a time. Say one of your friends names was katie. Say to her in private.... Katie do you want ot sleep over or come over on Friday. Then if she says yes you guys can have some alone time and have her get to know you better and see that you can have a lot of fun and that you can be a really good friend. Find a way to sit down and talk just be having a regular conversation and then be like Katie I know I am getting on all of your nerves but i trust you to tell me why we aren't getting along as great anymore. If you don't want to do this maybe just bring up the idea that you guys can all hang out on firdays or maybe just you and katie that way they can see that you're still fun.
2)Talk to them one at a time. Maybe if you and one of your friends idk lets say her name was hannah are gonna hang out. Maybe go to the mall and while your shopping take a trip down memory lane. Be like we all used to have sooo much fun together. Do you think we will alwyas be as close as we were then. If her answer is kind of quick then there might be something wrong or if shes sarcastic that might not be good either but if she starts talking with you about being best friends etc... you know shes there for you and most likely its the same with everyone else
3) If you want to be a really reeally really good friend you have to open up completely. You say whats on your mind they say whats on theres let them in on your secrets as they will with theres offer advice wehn they need it or simply give em a hug if there sad. Call them a lot and plan to do a lot of fun things. Stick up for them when someone is mean and most importantly is always be there. Even if they call you in the middle of the night really upset about it.... now matter how tired you are... take the phone call trust me once these girls see how loyal you can be there gonna want to be your friends. I hope this helps you out and once again sorry the first advice wasn't the best. Leave feedback so i can no if i helped you out. Good luck!!
Kelli

Well ask your mom if you could have the party at your house. Ask to invite all your friends. If she says yes then all you have to do is put a radio out on the back deck and all everyone does is talk migle dance and have fun. Later on you could have some sort of dinner with cake/ presents. Then you could come up with a game thats not to young for you guys. I foyur mom won't let you have your party at your house Maybe you could get a hall for a night like your parents could rent it and you could have a little dance party there. Make it fun have dance contests and prizes like whoever does the craziest dance wins a prize. If this doesn't work post some of your favorite thinga to do and I'll come up with something better
Good luck!!
Kelli

ok first of all these friends don't even sound like you should be wasting your breathe on them. My true advice is make new friends but if you really want to be friends with these people then you need to sit them down and be like seriously you guys... feelings aside here... i dont feel included and sometimes i feel like your taking advantage of me.... i guess its better for you to know the truth and get away from them then living a lie. But sometimes its paranoia. I went through a time where I felt like this one girl didn't like me AT ALL even though me her and 3 other girls were best friends ( we still are) but tehn i told this girl what i thought and she was like OMG of course i like you dude ur my best friend and then we were all happy!! so sit them down and tyalk if they dont take you serioursly they aren't worth you feeling sad. I hope I helped

hey rachel its kelli! I got ur question under random... seeing as its me we are talking about (and u) then lets just stick with the plan to go to friendlies and stuff... i feel the EXACT same way as you... love ya!
kelli

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When school starts again scan over your new class. Say liek hmm this girl looks nice maybe ill be friends with her and go up say heyy im heather whats your name tell her u just moved here adn ask her what going to skool there is like tell her your a cheerleader or a dancer and ask her what type of sports she plays maybe you guys could sit together at lunch and she could introduce you to her friends or maybe you could exchange screen names or something I hope I helped rate me please!
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dont let your self be overcome by peer pressure. I have to say that trying it in the first place wasn't to bright if u didnt want to get addicted but i understadn peer pressure and I can see why you did it. This is the best advice I can give you to quit. say NO! so many people die of lung cancer and other types of diseases you get from smoking I know this for a fact my nana died of cancer and she was very very sick from smoking my grandfather who also smoked but wuit is now living with emphasema a disease that places water on the lungs and he isn't in the best shape. As much as you want a ciggarette just say no trust me the sooner you try to quit the easier its going to be. I don't mean to osund harsh but i dont want to see anyone go through what my nana went through. Its to painful
Kelli

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