I am someone who likes to help people as best as I possibly can. I have a lot of experience with helping people through hard times, and I really think that my goal in life is to reach out to other people with their difficulties and hardships in their lives. I might not be able to help with every little thing possible, but I will do my best! Let me help you, and trust me, I will not give up on my charges.
Website: Ask CHRIS ~and he shall answer~
E-mail: chrisgundel@msn.com
Gender: Male
Location: Long Island
Occupation: high school student
Age: 15
AIM: chrisgundel2
MSN: chrisgundel
Member Since: December 30, 2006
Answers: 9
Last Update: May 17, 2008
Visitors: 2076
Main Categories:
Friendship
Families
Love Life
View All
|
| |
|
my friend was shot and killed on december 18 and i cant seem to get her out of my head its upseting me horribly what are ways to help (link)
| |
just give it some time. it takes a while for someone to move on from such a loss. First you grieve, then you mourns, then things happen in your life that result in your life moving on. Just follow your instincts with things, and just keep looking forward in life. It's very hard to let someone so close to you, go so fast. Just give it time, and you will move on.
|
I want to hang out with my friends more but every time I ask. No one will answer if they want to hang out.
I tried asking people but they say they are busy or something because of school and that we would hang out sometime later. Sometimes we do but usually we don't.
So it's break and I would love to get out... but what do I do?
I've been asking people for 3 days already and nobody will answer me.
Is something wrong with me? I didn't think I need anything wrong..
They said they should start acting more like friends but it hasn't happened.
Should I just give up and spend my days alone..? (link)
| |
Giving up is never the right decision. You should call them and tell them the problem like a good friend, andif they don't answer, then then just leave a message. there is no sok,ution to the problem if they are the ones that are busy. And for all you know, they could be busy all of the time, and its not your fault. If they are not trully acting like friends, then you must confront them personally, and if that doesn't work, then say to them that if they want to still be friends with you, then they must say something right now. But giving up is not the right solution to this. You must step forward and stand up for yourself in this situation. be the bigger person and confront them.
|
|
one friend that i have mentioned before has been relly gettin on ma last nerves. i was late for skool one day went up behind her and said "boo" the girl turned around and punched me in the face and i was ready to scream and cry but i didn't.All i could do was hold my nose.Then, another day i was in the lunchroom and i tripped on her bookbag and fell on her and she took he hand and dug her nails into my wrist and i started bleeding. i have been in so many arguements wit her and she says stuff behind peoples' backs. it wasn't pretty. please try to answer me right now!!! THANKS!!! and she said she is very nice. HA!! (link)
| |
well obviously this person is a complete hypocrit. I mean seriously , if they are beating the crap out of you for completely meaningless reasons, then there is no proof is the subject that she is a good friend. A good friend doesn't punch you, and a good fiend doens't dig their nails into your skin. Not even a good person talks about people behind their backs. So what I would do in this situation is confront the person about the situation and say it straight to their face, "What's your damn problem?!". And if things get ugly, don't add on to the trouble because if you get into a fight with this person, the end result only benefits to the other person. Don't go to fight, go to talk and to figure out why this person is so cold hearted.
|
I want to get my exhusband something for his birthday, but I don't know what! It could be something funny because he has a good sense of humor... But it also needs to be special. Some people don't care squat about their ex's but I want to let him know I'm glad we're still friends. Here's a little about him.
He loves country music (esp. Toby Keith) and plays guitar. He's great with kids and has a wonderful sense of humor. Um... I don't know what else to say! (link)
| |
getting something special for your ex will not show that you are still glad to still be friends, only words can do that. Get him a card, a card that shows how much you feel, but doesn't express it all. Then talk to him, and say what you feel. Trust me, it's easier to say in person, then on paper. And especially when trying to buy something that can match your feelings, but that's quite impossible. Your feelings are channeled in your heart, not your brain. Trust me, talk to him, and just get him a nice card.
|
|