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Age: 14
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ok so I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and I told him I just wanted to be friends. now I am going out with someone new, but anyways he is always saying how he misses me and wants me back and how he loves me. I think love is a very strong word.We were dating for like 3 weeks and he told me he loved me the 2 week. That kinda freaked me out. And he always wanted me to send naked pics and have sex with him. I never did and that is 1 reason why I broke up with him. He says since we are not together he wants to kill himself. What can I say to cheer him up and help him? (link)
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If he was like really pressuring you to have sex then don't go back to him.
And with the whole suicide thing, he is really just doing it for attention, BUT you should help him because he really is capable of doing it. Call a crisis hotline or talk to a responsible adult who you can trust.
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Well i ask my friend to hang out everyweekend but everytime i ask her she says soething like "i have to babysit or i have to clean?" and like i really think she doesnt wanna hang out with me but the next day she can hang out with anyone and i dont get it?
(female, 14)
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I'm basically going through the same thing, and I think she is doing it on purpose. If you think she's avoiding you for some reason, don't be afraid to confront her about it. And if she keeps on doing this, then just drop her like I did to my friend. If she's going to act like this then maybe she shouldn't be friends with you at all.
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Hey 15/F
OK so there is this guy at my school, Sam. He is really nice and I think he is a really good friend but i think he might like me as more than a friend and i dont know what to do. And im like a huge flirt and i flrt sometimes without even knowing. So i think he might think that i like him too. When truly i dont. I really like having him as one of my friends but i know i would date him or anything it'd be to weird. So what do i do?? I still want him as my friend but nothing more than that. (link)
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Tell him upfront that you don't want to get into a relationship and that you're just flirting with him and say it firmly BUt don't be mean about it.
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okay so one of my best friends has an abusive boyfriend but she thinks it is ok. me and my other bff have tried talking to her about devonte (her boyfriend), but everytime they break up they get back together. he punches her and calls her names sometimes and hes always trying to take her stuff and look through it. how do i convince her to break-up with him for good this time. (just in case you want to know, a lot of guys think she is the prettiest [black] girl in the WHOLE school--devonte is-not to be rude- butt ugly,in nice terms) (link)
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Yeah you should get her help real quick. She's in denial because she thinks he loves her, but he doesn't because he wouldn't be hitting her or calling her names. Try calling some crisis hotlines or telling a trusted adult(parent, teacher, cop, etc.) and try to get both of them help, but mostly the boyfriend.
P.S. Love is not abuse
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I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he cheated on me. That was about 5 months ago, and he has a girlfriend now and I have a boyfriend. We are still good friends, despite what he did to me, because we have always been friends, even before we went out. So we still hang out, but always in large groups of people and have a really good time (as friends). But I feel like I'm being disloyal to my boyfriend because my boyfriend really dislikes my ex and does not trust him (although he's never told me he doesn't want my ex and I hanging out). Plus, my ex and I were friends previously, even before my current boyfriend and I met. Should I feel guilty about hanging out with my ex? Hmm. (link)
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Well if you still want to hang out and be friends after what he did to you, then be friends with him it's your choice but maybe your boyfriend has a reason to dislike your ex. It could be the fact alone that he cheated on you, maybe not I don't know. But it's a situation where it is totally up to you.
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how can i be a happy person if:
i hate where i live
i dislike every person who lives here
i am a moody person and get annoyed very easily
i go on and off with friends, like ill not like them, except one of them, for a week, then get annoyed with that person, and switch off (etc.)
sometimes i dont like any of them
after broke up with my bf almost 3 months ago, i forgot how to be happy, even though im over him now
i couldnt change friends even if i wanted to. the transition wouldnt be worth it.
please teach me how to be happy. i cant make myself have a better outlook on life. it just doesnt work. ill have happy times, but it doesnt last for long.what do i do with myself? i liked it better before i faced the reality of life. last year i was oblivious now after my 5 month relationship, i cant find that same high spirited person i used to be. where did that person go? how can i be that person again? how do i stop my moodiness? i cant help it.
thanks;;
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Well nobody can teach you to be happy. Only you can. Maybe you should talk to somebody about it like a pyschologist. Think about the things that do make you happy in life and enforce them into your thoughts. Thins about what you really want in life and set some goals.
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13/m
Ive had depression for about a year and i have reached my breaking point. I constantly feel that my place in this world should be filled by a more worthy individual. I'm always paranoid and stressed even over the most insignificant things. I take medication but it isn't working that well. Mt school situation isn't much better. I'm constantly hassled for my appearance and the lack of male friends i have. I have trust issues as well which would fall with paranoid. Any advice helps on the subject..... thank you.
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Dakota sweetie don't give up. Remember no mattter what you think, there is always going to be a huge group of people that love you. Set a couple of dreams and goals for yourself ans that will definatly keep you moving on. And at school, they're probably just jealous believe it or not. Don't care what they say because it won't matter the next day anyway. One point I want to make out is that if you have a lot of girlfriends, that may be why they're jealous.
Love,
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