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my name is chassidy. but please call me chassie. i'm really outgoing and i love to have a good time. i like to party and get down with my girlies and we always have fun, no matter what. we're all pretty different. i cheered in high school, and i played volleyball. now i'm in college, living it up! i love most kinds of music and i love my car. my stang is my baby. i am with the love of my life, bobby. he is 24 and i'm 18! my parents and lots of people don't like us being together, but i just say fuck the haterz! i love my best friend, brandi. she completes me and i would die without her, she's my roomie along with candis and caroline. i like chanel. i love horses and riding fourwheelers. i'm a sexual person. i don't care what people think about me, and that's perfectly fine. i like to help people. i'm a secretary now at a bank. i love my family and my favorite color is pink. i love my hometown of new york city more than anything. i'm from manhattan, but i'm currently in texas. i love my boyfriend, friends, my job, family, animals, alcohol, sex, music, and my life.

advice

okay i really need advice. i'm desperate.

i have this friend since i've known for almost 4 years, and we were extremely close last year and people said we were unseperable. this year were still friends but were just not as close and i miss it because last year she was always there for me when i was really sad and she always made me feel better.

this year i'll see her in school (i usually hang out with her in a group) and A. she'll completely ignore me. or B. she'll be like "i really not interested in what you have to say" but when it's just me and her with no one around she'll talk to me really nice and stuff. but im really getting sick of her acting like this but i just don't know what to do because last year she was always there for me and she made me feel soo good and she made me feel like i was loved she was like the sister i never had and i dont want to just ditch her but ughh i just don't know what should i do? thank you soo much

don't let people take advantage of you or tell you they're your friend when they are really not. if you don't wanna be friends with her anymore, then don't. don't hold onto something that's not worth as much as it once was. it's hard i know, but it may feel refreshing to find a new best friend who treats you better.

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Each year, I am usually backstabbed my someone I trusted and was really close with. In 7th grade, my two best friends were after my bf who I was dating for more than 6 months. They made a plan to become friends to make me jealous, and steal my boyfriend and turn everyone against me. Last year was horrible. I moved on, and made new friends. In 8th grade, my good friend who helped me through last year ditches me all the time for my ex-boyfriend, treats me horrible, and talks crap about me for no reason. Well, I basically ended the friendship with her too and she had the nerve to give me back all the gifts Ive given her throughout our whole friendship, I know, extremely childish.. Well, I threw the bag of gifts away and gave it to people I'm trying my hardest to ignore her but it's just so hard since she's basically purposely in my face to make it hard for me. I dont talk to my ex boyfriend from this year because now they are best friends and he hates me. I still talk to my other ex and I'm really good friends with him(for now...) Ok, so now that you know everything, I just dont know how I can basically trust people or even make more friends (which I have already).. If I always end up getting hurt in the end. What should I do? I dont want to end up not having friends because the ones ive dealt with have backstabbed me in the end. But i dont know how I can stay optimitic if I keep getting hurt.
I'm so sorry for it being so long!

it's hard to figure out who you can and can't trust. yesterday i found out that 3 of my best friends were talking about me behind my back, so i understand completely what you're going through. it's hard to find good friends these days. but never let your guard down when making new friends, or even talking to current/old ones. because when people see a vulnerability in you, they will think they have something to talk about. and that's when the backstabbing starts. just be polite, and find a nice group of friends to hang out with. there has to be some good people out there. just be confident in yourself, and optimistic. i hope all goes well!

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if they're really your friends they will understand where you are coming from and why you think it's annoying. just say it's ruining yours and their reputations, and it's getting pretty annoying. hopefully they'll understand. they may just be doing it for attention.

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Okay so i am having trouble right now...(obviously)lol okay so the thing is. Well all my friends are saying so many mean things about me and its not evento my face. I hear about it from pther people. One of my bff said that i wasnt really that pretty and i wore makeup to cover everything. I mean i think i am anaverage looking person ya kno? im not UGLY but im not BERAUTIFUL either. what am i supposed to do? They are saying really hurtful things

i am going through the same problem right now. 3 of my best friends talked mess behind my back, and my other friend told me. i confronted each of them and asked them to tell me the truth. the truth hurts sometimes. cuz i had to hear it behind my back, and to my face. and it made me rethink my friendships. i told them that i wasn't going to jump back into friendships with them because 1. friends don't lie 2. friends don't backstab and 3. friends don't say mean things about each other. if they are really your friends they will love you and want to be your friend no matter what.

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I feel like I am loosing one of my best friends. We only see eachother in school... we are in two classes together and we hardly talk cause she is talking to her other friends. I feel like I don't know all of these things about her. Like i found out through a friend that she hooked up with someone last night for the first time. She didn't even tell me. I am really upset about this. What should I do?

i feel ya girl. my good friend caroline and i hardly ever hang out anymore. but my best friends name is brandi, and we are inseperable. as long as you have one good friend it's okay =]. but anways, if she's really your best friend then call and ask if she wants to hang out and see if she wants to catch up and talk and stuff. if she doesn't then that's not very friendly of her. i'm actually going to start doing this w/ my friend because we really need to catch up. ask to go out or see a movie or something. just hang out with her for a while. then y'all will have some stuff to talk about at school. good luck =].

xo cHaSsi3

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