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okay...this may seem strange but it feels like all my friends are turning on me...I had my 13th birthday party on sunday and invited 20 of my clostest firends to my house and well sunday came and only 12 showed up...these ppl i know have to be my rly clostest firends but here are the reasons for why most of them couldnt come

Me: hey maria are you coming to my party on sunday
Maria: no sorry i cant because im grounded
Me: oh so you arent going to Karissas the day befroe?
Maria: oh well i can go to that one and that one only


If you think that ones bad listen to these...

Chelsey: gotta do my homework! i have WAY to much homework

Lindsay: Sorry Sam my mom wont let me cause i didnt do all my homework yet

Karissa: my mom wont let me cause i didnt do my homework yet

Rachel F: i cant because i have too much homework

SPECIAL NOTE: all the ppl above cept maria slept over karissas house after her party and the best thing is WE DIDNT HAVE ANY HOMEWORK!!!


please help me ill rate 5's unless the advice is mean

sounds like you are there when the need a friend but when you need them they are off "doing homework". now, i know that this will be hard but it would be better than not knowing whats going on - you have to confront them. or one of them atleast. be sure to start the conversation off in a nice,calm tone. you don't want them to think you are accusing them or are just trying to get in a fight with them. i hope everything works out well.

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Pleez tell me what you think!!!!??? Should you go a party of a girl you hardly know rlly with your whole school or should you go hang with your best friend because its her birthday that day???? pleez help and say what you would do or think.....??!! xo

Ask yourself this question-- Whos more important? People you hardly know who could easily not be your friends or you bestfriend who has been your friend for a while... It all depends on who you think is more important... i would pick my bestfriend but im not sure about yourself...good luck :)!

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This friend of mine, "Jane Doe", (name changed to protect the innocent) who will do anything for attention. She constantly changes her personality based on the people she's around. Not only that, but if she wants attention, she'll go make out with anyone who'll let her in order to get that attention. I've tried multiple times to talk to her, but she doesnt wanna hear it. Also, my other friends have noticed "Jane"'s behavior and they've also tried to talk to her. Is there ANY way at all that we can talk to her without her tuning us out? Because we're afraid she's gonna get hurt, and we have alot of weight on our shoulders b/c of "Jane"
Trying to get unwanted weight off my shoulders..

Jane seems like alot of people I know nowadays! Well the first step to recovery is admiting her problems! In order to do this invite to your house,maybe with a small group of close friends. Jane would feel more insecure probably talking in more public places likes school where there are bound to be some of her "cooler" friends there. After she admits of what she does. You will have to work together with her to fix the problem. Keep her direction steered in the direction of her REAL friends,and not people who are just using her. Through this process be casual,and gentle. She needs to understand that it ISNT all about her,and that this ISNT the way to make friends or keep them!Well I goped I helped ya! Goodluck!

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i didnt know what to put this under but whatever. i want to have a BIG 16th birthday ( im 15 ) my birthdays in july. What should i do? I dont want to have a pool party or anything. But can you give me some ideas..like where to go..if i should stay at home and invite people over or where to have it. ( if youve already had ur 16th birthday reply! ) but if you havent thats alright lol. thanks

I know a great site that is bound to tell you what you want. www.birthdaypartyideas.com
Since the 5th grade I have found my birthday party for every year. Also if you have had a great birthday party in the past,You can enter in there monthly contest for prizes. Good Luck!

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