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Ok, I apoligize in advance if this is really long.
But, i have this friend. We've been really close since elementary school. I really enjoy spending time with her. But when the topic about money comes up, it just makes me ache inside. I don't show it. Okay, so my family doesn't have the kind of money like her family does. Most of the time she just shoves it in my face, i don't really know if she does it on purpose or it just comes naturally.. but it's really starting to make me extremley upset. For example, we're supposed to hang out, and then shes going shopping. I sort of had the option to go with her, but i don't have any money to buy anything. And truth be told, i don't want to watch her shop, that makes it worse. I just want her to realize that theres more things to do than shop & spend money. She has everything i've always wanted. I don't know how to explain this to her, nor i don't even know what to say to her. Any advice on what i should say? Or what i should do?
Thanks Much.
Sincerley, Unhappy. (link)
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oooooook. Hard question-easy solution. I, too have a friend like this (I'm a guy and she's well.. a girl) she used to live right next door to me. We hung out sooooo much when we were little-my best friend was a girl. Ok, now she lives in the richest neighborhood in town. We are still friends at school, but stuff like this happened all the time-she would brag about her money. So you should say no the next time and then no again up to 4 or 5 times-she should realize why you don't want to go sooner or later-probably sooner-and apologize. Then talk to her and tell her why you didnt want to go shopping. Then you will be able to talk it over and figure it out.
hope i helped
-bestadvaround45 (please tell me how i am doing so please rate me)
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OK so i go to this camp during the summer time,and theres this guy who goes there and was in my class last year and i found out were going to 2 other camps with each other!But the thing is that i'm starting to kinda like him.But somtimes he would say mean things to get older guy friends.But it was in a humorus way.Usely hes nice though.My main point is should i like him or not?(sry its soooo long) (link)
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ok-here goes. If you like him, then you like him!! that probly doesnt make sense but it your choice. If you know that you like or love him then that is your decision! Everyone has bad qualities about themselves so if you think hes funny and cute etc., then ask him if he likes you. If yes then wait for him to ask you out or ask him out!!! If no then try flirting with other guys to get him off of your mind.
-bestadvaround45 (please rate whatever you think this deserves)
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hey i cant get this boy off my mind i think about him all the time i mean like whenever a song comes on or anything. I mean i think about his 24-7. And he broke up w/ me because he said he didn't want a gf at that point in time. But we are still friends and we hang out and stuff. I go 2 his house and we watch movies. I still like him alot and i think he really likes me but im not quite sure. I really wanna go back out w/ him but he doesn't want a gf what should i do? please help! (link)
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ok here it goes-relationships are VERY and i mean VERY tough. i have a gf myself and i think about her 24-7. It even takes me an hour longer to get to sleep each night cause i cant stop thinking about her. This is what u shud do- first wait about a week then ask if he still likes u. If he says yes then ask him out if no then try to forget him. Try flirting with other guys in front of him if u have to have him. But try to forget him.
-bestadvaround45
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