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Hey this is angelwings saying if you need advice don't be afraid to ask. Anything goes, if you're not ashamed to ask it im not afriad to reply to it. If you feel you can't talk to anyone around you remember you always got me.
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18 years old female.
i'm in college but i commute so i don't really get to live the college experience and its like 30 minutes away so i don't like going out there to party. but one of my best friends did stay and goes to a community college so i always have her to hang out with. well i usually don't do much during the week because i have a lot of homework and i have a job so i look forward to the weekends. well i always hang out with my friend because there is nobody else to be with? and i mean i can trust her with everything and she is so nice but she is probably one of the most boring people i have met. she doesn't like to meet new people, she doesn't really like going out much. her fun is me going over there and watching like a hockey or baseball game and to me thats just boring. we will make plans ahead of time and then that night or the day before she will be like "oh i forgot that i have this family thing to go to" she doesn't really have any other friends, she hangs out with her neighbor who is annoying 24/7 and she goes to her parents friend's parties. but then that leaves me with nothing to do and i end up sitting home on a saturday night and that just drives me crazy because i love going out and doing something fun, i'm outgoing. i am close with my cousin, she is 18 and a senior in high school so occasionally i will hang out with her and her friends but they're into different things than me and more of a "bad influence" so i don't like to be with them that much. i just don't know what to do. i feel like i have such a horrible life, i want to live it up but i cant. all my friends went off to college :( and it's not an option for me to live in a dorm. me and my friend say we will go visit all our friends but we just don't have the same schedules so it is hard. i'm just so lost and confused. it's making me depressed..
Ok first lets start with your friend, I think that if you just dragged her out of the house and out of her comfort zone she might realize that life is more than just sitting at home watching games and going to parties with her parents. She might end up really enjoying herself you just have to take the intiative and make her do it. If my friends didn't drag me out I would never go anywhere and I live on campus. And you know what else, I always have fun. Its more the people your with than the actually place that constitutes a good time. If you dont like the company get new company. If dragging her out of the house doesnt work though I would consider finding someone else to hang out with. You say your outgoing so it shouldn't take that much. You don't have to be bestfriends with a person just start out making new friends and testing out going places with them. If you don't want to do that then I really thing you should go out with your friends at school. I really don't think 30 minutes is a long way to travel. For me it usually goes by so fast I don't even notice it. I mean 30 min. of your times is not a steep price to pay to have a good time. I mean where is it that you are planning to go and have fun if your not willing to travel a little bit. These are just some suggestions but I think it would really help.
Okay, i had this friend named maddie and i introduced her to my friend caitlin and i said hi to caitlin and she told me my friend was weird and i ignored and i said hi to maddie on aim and then she was like WHO R U? and im ike jasmine im on my other account lol and then she said how kat was so mean to her and i said sorry she was mean and all and then she said YOU BETTER BE I ALMOST CALLED THE POLICE ON HER so i dont know how bad what caitlin said was! And im scared facing her because she might be mad at me because she said DONT TALK TO ME and im really scared and i really wanna be her friend! What do i do?
two friends=0????
I think you should try to explain to her that you didn't know your friend would act that way and keep trying to aplogize. I also think it would be in your best interest to find out what happened between those two and talk to your other friend. Let her know that what she did was wrong and she needs to aplogize because if it was serious enough for maddie to call the police than there is a problem that needs to be confronted and fixed.
My friend Tracee has had a couple boys this past year. I have not really, but I am not jealous. I don't try to get guys to like me because I haven't really found anyone I really like this past year. Thing is, I've heard that she's been saying stuff behind my back about it. That supposedly like no boys like me and I have no "expierence" and I don't know guys at al she supposedly said to my one friend. Like, if I don't care about it, why does she? Should I say something or let it go?
I think you should say something to this friend. I don't think that she should be saying things about you behind your back about things that she knows nothing about. I think that you should tell her that if she was really your friend she wouldn't be saying things like that behind your back. She shouldn't really care about your love life and just worry about her own because it sounds like she has enough to deal with, with all the guys she talks to. Whether you can get guys or not, or if you are just not interested is none of her business, i understand she's your friend and all, but if you haven't talked to her about it then its not her place to say anything about it especially to you other friends. If she's concerned then she needs to come to you, if not then she's just being a bad friend. And she should never think that no one likes you because she's supposed to be your friend and saying things like that can be hurtful, and that means you don't think anyone could like her. Which is not very friend like.
ok this is kinda weird! My BFFs little brother has beem doing some gross things like making my little sister suck on his dick! And the other day he was snapping my bra! Are famalies are like best friends and My parents and their parents know but it feels so weird even to talk to my friend's little bro. II want things to go back to normal but I neeeed help on deciding wut to do!
If you want him to stop doing these things you really need to talk to him regardless of how wierd you think talking to him is. Or just tell your friend and ask him to talk to his brother. If that doesn't work then i suggest that you sit down with your parents and their parents and ask them to do something about it. Since your families are so close.
There is a girl I know and she thinks of me as a brother or a friend more than a boyfriend. But she used to like me as a boyfriend, yet I didn't see it. I feel really attached to her now through some stuff we have done(no, probly not what youre thinking). Do you think she will go back how she was? I don't want to lose her to someone else. What can I do to get her to like me more?
M-15
I don't think you can make her like you any more than she already does. But I think you should tell her how you feel and how much you like her and find out just how much she likes you and if she likes you in that way.
is it wrong that i dont get along, or not really like my best friends boyfriend?..i didnt think of it much, untill i remembered that i didnt like any of the other guys she has talked to before in the past...any advice on this??
No, I don't think its wrong that you don't like him. Personally most of my friends don't like my boyfriend but im still with him(boarderlining 5 months). You should probably tell her but not every one gets along with every one else, and its no exception for him just because he's with your friend. But you have to also remember that she does like him so that doesn't mean she has to break up with him just because you don't.