well im 14 years old im from chicago Ill, im a kinda shy person but sometimes i can be loud to. Im in the 8 grade love music, and love to sing im a great friend and always listen to people whenever they have a problems im always there.
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my friends grandfather died this morning. hes really hurt. but i dont know what to say to him. im scared ill say something wrong. what should i tell him? (link)
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well there aint really much to say but all you can really do is just be there for that person and tell them that the person who they lost is in a better and more peacfull place where they can be happy at.And just be there for your friend you know.
good luck.
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ok so im bi rite
i like thos girl
which is my best best friend
but i heard she talks about me
i like her though
but i know that she is gonna get grossed out
because when i was just playing telling her i was bi
she took it real serious
and was like ewww
ive hangin out with da wrong people
this and that
wat should i do? (link)
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forget it,if she cant take it serious and dont understand how u feel to her than she aint worth it and ot even a friend. And if she really was a friend she wounldnt be doing this. So get over her and find someone that will ecept you and understand.
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i recently switched school, because of my group of friends. i came home every single day crying. it was horrible. they were known as the 'mean/plastic girls in school' i liked them, intill, they would start fighting with me. because i was hanging out with other people then the other 5 girls in our group. they then would stop inviting me places, like they didnt invite me anywhere. and i was friends with these girls since 2nd grade!!!
anyways, once i switched schools it was great, i made tons of new ones, i only stayed friends with one from my old school, and we were like BEST friends. but then all of a sudden, shes turning into one of them. her and all of them keep calling me. and saying i said things that i didnt!! and they usually always have done that since i switched, but i didnt care, i just didnt answer.
im so confused! what should i do? (link)
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you need to just forget them they are just a bouch of people who act bicthy and snobby.What you can do is just forget about ur past and move on.
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What do u do when a misunderstanding occurs, how do u get a friend to realize that it is was misunderstanding and to trust you again.
Thanks (link)
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tell them the truth and try to work things out with them, tell them staright up what you really mean by whatever reason and just hopefully they can trust you but it might take a lil long for them to.
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im surrounded my hypocrites. my cousin was talking shit about me to my best friend. well my "best friend" was "defending " me but in a way, also talking shit, saying that im always wrong and they are always right. they are calling me stupid when in reality, im smarter than both of them combined. Then I see that they are all of a sudden best friends. Im not a mean person and i have a good heart...so i can never tell when someone is being a hypocrite or not...plz help me...cause write now im crying and i have no one to talk to... :( (link)
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one word foget them they aint worth crying over.People that talk about you are the ones that are jeaslou dont let that bother you, if your friend talks about you than she aint your friend.And if you really have a good heart than show it find better people to hang out with thats all i have to say.
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hey. i have two best friends. and this year it was always the 3 of us. but not it is starting to just be the 2 of them. they constantly leave me out of plans, and then if the other cant make it, im the backup. or they feel bad and invite me later. i dont like it at all. and before i've told htem about it and they are just like "oh i feel bad". it really makes me mad, and they have been treating me badly for a while now, and all of my other friends wonder why i put up with it. what should i do. because one of the friends i have been wicked close wiht for 2 years.
thanksss in advance (link)
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i know just have u feel cuz i have the same problem usually i would get so mad that i wpuld ingored them for like a week and then they would come talk to me and ask me what wrong and stuff to get them to notice me and it work. But im not saying you should do that im just sayin maybe you should talk to them tell them how you feel about maybe they will listen.
goodluck
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ok well this guy i used to go out with broke up with me a long time ago. well a few nights ago i told him i still liked him and he said he still likes me too. well on his buddy info he says that he is scared to ask me out and i am scared to ask him out. we have been talkin ever since we both found out we liked each other and we have a great time talkin to each other. we both really like each other but i am scared to ask him out. what should i do (link)
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ASK HIM OUT! I mean you know that he likes you and you like him so go fot it whats the worst he can say. See I'll understand that he dont know you like him and dont know if he likes you but he do and if he afraid then you have to make the first move or nothing will happen so go for it while you still have the chance.
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