hey im amy and im 13 and live in michigan. i have the best friends in the world, and could nevereverever live without them!! i like to give advice..so ask me anything!!! i will give you my opinion..take it or leave it!!!
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okay so it seems as if im loosing one of my bestfriends because her other bestfriend & me dont get along very well but then again we never talk. it never used to ruin our friendship but ever since my bestfriend found out that her bestfriend was about to be heart broken she has been just taking care of her. she barely talks to me anymore unless i talk to her first. and im not sure if i should tell her how i feel stop talking to her for a while or just let it go.
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help me please!! (link)
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your best friend is prolly just being there for her other best friend at the time, so hopefully shell come around and start talking to you more. but if i were you, i would try to be friends with your best friends other best friend too. whew that was kind of confusing. but if you know what i mean, it would maybe work out better like you should call your bestfriends other bestfriend [ha] and hangout and get close to her too, so then all three of you can be like best friends! good luck! -amy
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I don't want this to be long or panic-y, but I need some advice. My friend and I are 13. There is a 17-year old across the street who is 17 and a juvi. My parents think he is 18, but really isn't. We played basketball with let's call him C, and we got his number. We hung out with him and we lied about out ages and we said we were 15 and 16. We lied about where we go to school and everything, and now we're hanging out with him. I've been lying to my parents about where we going and everything, but here is the main problem. I'm going into 8th grade this fall, and getting on the bus (right in front of my house!) in the morning is no big, but when the bus drops us off, it's 3:50pm. Big problem, because C smokes, and has to go outside and smokes. What if he sees us? I really hate to lie to everyone around me, and the lies keep getting bigger. Should I be honest with C? My friend and I have been flirting big time with him, and that will ruin out friendship. And, the other problem, even though C is moving is September, I'll have started school, and his brothers go to my new school! What should I do as an overall result? Thanks so much! (link)
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if i were you i would just tell him and then get all the lies off your chest. but sersiuly, i wouldnt hang out with him if i were you. he doesnt sound like the best role model. but thats totally up to you..its your life not mine. i hope everything works out!
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Agh! One of my BFF's copies everything from other people! She's so unoriginal with her AIM profile, taste in music, style, way she acts && everything! So annoying! What should I do? Say something.. or just ignore it? Its so annoying tho! I will rate Ok thank yu! (link)
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well some people are just like that--maybe because they honestly like what other people have---enough to get it like as in profiles and stuff, but maybe shes like afraid of rejection like she is afraid if she doesnt act like everyone else no one will like her..im not really sure. if i were you i would say something casually like if she has the same profile as someone be like, "hey doesnt so and so have that in their profile?" or if she has the same shirt as someone be like, "omg i saw so and so wearing that same shirt!" or something just to see what she says, and then based on her answer if its the right time say something--not in a rude way--but just to make her aware that you think she copies people a lot. like somehting like "how come you do stuff exactly like everyone else---why dont you be yourself?" well that may be kinda harsh, but be up front about it, but she may make up an excuse or something im not sure..but i hope this helps!
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i think my friend is making excuses from hanging out w/ me. this has been going on for weeks. should i confront her?? what should i do? (link)
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if i were you i would ask her to do something as one last attempt, and if she says no and makes up an excuse, i would say something like, how come you can never hang out? or someihtng like that and ask them stuff about it. i hope this works!! good luck
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ok so my friends boyfriend rappe me..and i told on him because everyone on here told me i should and im glad they did cuz now hes in juvey and my friend is mad at me because i got him sent there but she dosent know why and im not sure if i want to tell her..she has a BIG mouth..and she wont answer my phone calls..or IMs..what should i do???
Sammy (link)
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well, your friend is prolly just confused. just pretend your her for a second...you think you ahve this great boyfriend and then suddenly for some unknown reason, he gets sent to juvey becuase you said something! how would you feel? if i were you, i would let her know what happened (once you find a way to get her to talk to you...but trust me she will talk to you eventually..shes just mad right now but it will get better), and if she is a true friend, she would understand and side with you instead of her boyfriend, and if she cared for your feelings, she wouldnt tell. if she doesnt agree that you should have told on her boyfriend, then she is a lowsy friend, and that is totally not your fault. good luck!! i hope this helps and you guys stay friends!!
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Heres the thing. My friends dont like my bf at all. Its to the point where i cant have them hanging out together. All my friends do in school is talk about us in a bad way. about how we spend a lot of time together and how they dont like him. it feels like they arent happy for me and they want me all to themselves. its a frustrating situation. i can only see him on weekends and he doesnt go to my school. so heres the problem: i have been neglecting my friends. butt i dont want to give up any time on the weekends because i can only see him then! and maybe a day or 2 during the week IF im lucky. : / (link)
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well, you have got to remember that (depending on your age) your relationship will not last. this may not be what you want to hear, but i think you have to choose between your friends or your boy friend. this is my opinion: take it or leave it-dump your boy friend, unless for some reason you despereatly feel that *hes the one* then fine...pick him. but in the end, would you rather have a boy friend that can immediatly turn his back on you and dump you, or your friends? well i hope this helps and you make the right decision!
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