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alright so me and my friend are in a huge fight.i mean we used to be best friends and then all of the sudden she just started hating me because apparently i am a "whore" because a couple weeks ago i couldnt really make up my mind about this guy i liked. and now she is just being really rude to me and wont talk to me, and when i tryed to appologize for anything i had did she just got mad and started yelling at me.
any advice?

i think she's jealous because you have guys to choose from.

you need to ignore her for a while. you even apologized and she got MAD. how lame is that? you've done your part, but she obvilously wants you to grovel for forgiveness. just ignore her, she'll get tired of trying to be hateful to a person whose non-reactant to it, and cave in.

it always works. ;]
AND if you're nice to her, she'll hate it. :D its glorious.


good luck!
-amy.

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I have this friend, and we have alot in common and have so much fun together. but latley we have been getting in alot of fights and we havent been talkng. Now we are talking again but it feels really owkward for some reason. And she is trying to get "in" with this other clique and it is really annoying. everytime i got to talk to her she says o have have to go talk to _____ from the other clique and stuff like that. It is really annoying and i dont know what to do. Should i talk to her (or try to at least) or should i just let her become frinds with them or what. I think i am a little jellous but i cant help it. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?

wouldn't blame you for being jealous; i would be too.

in all honesty, if you love this friend enough, try to get in with that clique. if you dont have anymore tolerance for her, forget her.

she really doesnt sound like much of a friend anyway. talk to her, get in her face if you have to. you just have to talk to her. be mean, anything, just get your point out. to me, shes being un-friend-worthy and a bitch. you neeed to talk to her.

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i was at a sleepover and 2 of my friends talked crap about my other friend and i told my friend they did and that friend is gonna tell the friends who did it that she knows...and they're gonna find out its me but they're my good friends and i dont want them to hate me WHAT DO I DO!!!!

first, you have to answer me/yourself a question: did you talk crap about her also? cause if you did, and your friends are gonna be hard on you.
regardless, your friends are going to be mad. no matter what you do, they're going to be mad one way or another. especially if their girls.

not only did they talk about her, but you talked about them when you told her all the stuff that they said about her.

im going to be completely honest, this wont be easy, especially since you weren't supposed to tell. but i think that if they were talking shit in the first place, and about their FRIEND, i think you need to reconsider if they're friends or not.

another thing is, even though i hate doing it also, you need to be the nice one in the situation cause they're not going to be the nice ones. they're going to ask you about it, and when they do, you better apologize right away. considering if they're good friends or not will determine if they accept the apology or not. you just gotta be as sweet as sugar and hope to god that they accept it.

for you and everyone else, i hope they do. i dont want you to loose friends cause of something this rediculous. =[
but im really sorry man. gossip world is tough, you just gotta know the limit to it.

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