Okay so I have this one friend (L). And this one rude guy in our grade (D) is telling so many lies about her. D is L's ex. She dumped him and I think he is mad so now he wants to tell lies about her. He has been taking it to far. I'm not gonna list what he has been saying but let's just say.. he needs to stop! Some of the lies people are actualy believing. And i know as her friend that she would never do this. I am afraid things will get worse. Please help!!
omg D seems like a really horrible guy! tell him to stop and if he doesnt then tell him you'll tell the principle.. and even if he doesnt stop then, then tell the principle. D could get into a lot of trouble for this and he deserves it! he might hate you after you tell on him but he's not worth being friends with anyway =)
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i have a best friend who i hang out with 24/7 we are like sister and she has this boy friend for like almost a year and i kinda slept with him and she doesnt know and i cant think of how to tell her? what should i do?
first off you reallllly shouldnt have slept with him.. no matter what shes gonna be mad at you about it so there is no real way to tell her without her being mad. here's your decision:
1) dont tell her at all though that is a bad thing to do because she'll probably find out anyway
or
2) you can tell her but make sure you tell her in the nicest and most innocent way possible & make sure you tell her before her b/f does because it'd be better for her to hear it from you..
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ok so i told the guy that likes my best friend why she cant go out with him. now shes hates me adn wont even talk or look at me! im telling her sorry adn telling her that i didnt mean anything by it but she still hates me? what should i do?
signed,
lonley
ahh, badd situation.. if you want her to really forgive you, maybe you can wrap a picture of you and her or give her something to remind her of your good times and if that doesnt work then you'll probably have to just let time pass and hope she'll forgive you =/
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My best friend has this thing with telling me stuff about my other best friend, who I don't talk about at all (behind her back) but like this my best friend ALWAYS talks about her. I want her to stop, but I don't want to loose her as a friend, and she's also way to emotional, and was crying and stuff. I want to help her, but I don't know how.
Help, please?
wow thats a really hard question,
ok i think that you should try to get the friend that talks about the other one that you dont like it and maybe try and set something up for the three of you to do together so they can become friends too..
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My bff (L) told me that my other bff (S) was talking about me. L tells me a lot when S is talking about me, and L told me I can't tell anyone, especially S that she told me or that I know. I know if I did tell S, L would get really mad at me and I don't need that right now. I don't want to loose her trust. So, my question is, what should I do? I'm tired of S acting all goody goody like shes the greatest friend in the world to me when she's not. Should I act differently toward her, or, mainly, how can I hint at what I know? Like say, "I HAAATE when people talk about me," hinting to her, but something better than that. Fives for answers. Thanks.
well, try to avoid her when shes acting all "goody-goody" and focus on her better qualities. I dont know of any friendships that didnt involve some gossip so unless she says something really mean about you, dont confront her about it. i really wish you good luck and i hope all that drama stops.
- allie :)
at least i tried to help.
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Well, one of my really, really good friends is in the hospital. Actually, right now he's in a program because they think he did what he did to himself so he would die. Obviously, that alone hurts so much. He's been in there for almost an entire month and for that entire time, I've talked to him, but just on the phone. I know I'm going to see him soon, but it's not like I can go everyday (he's about an hour away). Today, my best friend, his girlfriend, told me that he's going to be gone for another 4 weeks! After that, we only have 3 weeks left of school! I know I have a right to be like sad about it, but how do I keep myself from being too depressed and going crazy?
well thats hard,
my suggestion is that you probably wouldnt be as depressed if you knew that he was happy, so send him cards and letters for him to feel better and visit him as soon as you can and thats really the only way i think you will be okay
sorry about your friend and i hope he feels better
- allie :)
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okay well my friend really likes this kid but like everytime she does its like obsession. its like really creepy and weird. but anyway me and her arent allowed to hang out because she got me into a lot of trouble because she got me in trouble for her stealing but anyways she really likes this kid but this kid hates her. so me & him were hanging out and we both like eachother now but we dont know what to do because of her please help.
okay to avoid fighting you should probably set your friend up with someone she would like so she'll forget about the guy you like.. i dont know how well that would work but its the best solution i can think of =/
good luck!
- allie :)
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My Bestest-bestest-bestest friend since she was born. I'm a couple of months older so it's cool to have her as my bestest-bestest-bestest friend. She sometimes makes me feel bad. I weigh more but i'm taller and older and smarter, not to be mean or anything. But I think she lies to me, because every single time i have a crush or BF that she knows she says that they usta lik her, she also thinks that Im a girl-girl-goody-good-2-shoes!
P.S. Is my friend lieing , or even is she a good friend at all!
Help Me Please!
hmm, well if she always says that your bf's or crushes like her then chances are that she might be jealous. im not totally positive that she is but it sounds like it and if you really like these guys then dont pay attention when she says stuff like that. other than that, if you guys have fun together then she is a good friend, nobody's perfect
im not sure if it helped but i hope it did!
- allie :)
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