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Q: I had a dream that my guy friend & I were "doing things" & I know I'm really starting to like him. Should I trust this dream as like a sign that we should start a relationship?
Well if you like this guy then yeah go for it! But if you just like him cuz of your dream then i dont think you should but the survey says go for it! LOL ! Hope i helped!

Q: ok so my best friend was in love with this guy (she's 14 so it didn't mean a whole whole lot) but anyways he liked her in the way beginning of the year but it didn't work out. then he like my other friend but she didn't like him. next he liked me and i liked this guy a lot too. my best friend was supportive and got us to go out. now we're happily together and have been for awhile. but my best friend has been depressed and everytime we get into a fight she'll bring this up (that i stole him from her). she still wants to be my friend but how do i eventually solve this situation. i know i caused it but how do i fix it without breaking up with him?
Just tell your friend that your sorry but you really like this guy and that if she can't be happy for you then mabye you shouldn't be friends. Or something along those lines. Hope i helped!

Q: ok this is kinda weird! My BFFs little brother has beem doing some gross things like making my little sister suck on his dick! And the other day he was snapping my bra! Are famalies are like best friends and My parents and their parents know but it feels so weird even to talk to my friend's little bro. II want things to go back to normal but I neeeed help on deciding wut to do!
Ok wat the heck is that Lil bro doing i mean come on! I hope you didn't let her... Ok you need to tell someone wat is happening so that little perv. can get some groundedness!LOL Anyway, i wouldn't let anyone go near him or anything! Well i hope your safe and I hope i helped!

Q: Well, my B-day is exactly one month from now(may 21st) and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of kinds of (inexpensive) guy-girl parties. I was thinkin of a kind of message thing with the clues where you have to find them and then they lead you somewhere, but i dunno. I live right next door to a school where there is a soccer/baseball/hardtop. Any suggestions? I rate HIGH! Thanks!
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Maybe you should have a sport party! Or your Clue party would be cool too! I like that idea but that's just me! Hope i helped!

Q: I NEED SERIOUS HELPPPPPPPP!

My friend and I recently had a huge fight.

She started to spread rumors about me.

HALF OF THE PEOPLE at school want to murder me.

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
Just deny all the rumors and tell your friend that you need to talk, and if that doesn't work... just talk to her wherever she is and tell her to stop tellin rumors... just try to work everything out! Hope i helped!

Q: ok..i really screwed up, i know. heres my story. my BEST friend was going out with this guy for like 4 months, then they broke up for no particular reason, just that it wasnt really working out. but i became sort of friends with him while they were together. all my other friends said during the time they were together that the way he looked at me was as if he liked me and all that. i took no notice because i didnt want my to hurt my friend. once they broke up... and about 2 months later he called me and asked me if he could come over. i said yes. we rented some movies and watched them. then we started fooling around and one thing led to another and we were all over each other and making out! we didnt have sex though. he left and i felt enormous amounts of guilt because i promised myself and my best friend that nothing would ever happen between me and him. i didnt want to tell her but i figured she had a right to know. i asked other people about what to do and almost all of them said that i should tell her. so 4 days later i did. she didnt take it so well. she hasnt talked to me since. she has sent me messages of abuse, turned my other friends against me, wont talk to me about it. i say to her that i will talk when shes ready to talk- she says shes not ready yet..then sends me messages saying that i am avoiding her- i am just giving her the space she needs or wants rather. all i am asking is what should the next step that i take be?? should i confront her to her face and tell her that we are talking about this now whether you like it or not...or just leave it!!?? Please help me! i am really stuck.
I think that you should definitely say it is time to talk about this. Also, you should grab the guy she was going out with and you should all talk face to face! Just say you are really sorry! Hope i helped!

Q: ok so i have this friend and she went to this one school untill the end of 6th grade and then she moved to my school and she is my friend now (im in 8th grade now) and so we went to the track meet and i met some of her friends from her old school and so i talked to them and then when i got home i taked to them on the internet and asked them who they thought was hotter and they said that i was and so when i went to school the next day she wanted to know what they said about who was hotter and i told her that they said that i was hotter then she was and so was like no seriously what did they say and i told her that they said that i was hotter and she goes stop lying and i was like im not lying b/c that is what they said and she was like no tell me and i said it again and she was like oh well then they must have just said that to make you feel better about yourself and i was like no b/c i talked to them on the phone too and she was like im sure that they were just making me feel better and they thought that i was hotter and my friend (lets call her Lee) well lee isnt that pretty she weighs more then me and her hair is all frizy and i am 5-2 1/2 and weigh 105 and my hair isnt frizzy oh and she has acne too and i dont ppl keep telling me that i am prettier then her and her boyfriend told me that too so i dono y she would say that they were lying to me and i am a teen runway model can someone tell me whats wrong with her? i rate 5's for good and not stupid answer

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I think that your friend just wants to be excepted because you are so beautiful, i think she is jealous. I don't think that you should tell her her bf said that you were prettier! There is nothing wrong with her she is just jealous! Hope i helped!

Q: My good friend is really mad at me I asked her what she thought of one of our guy friends and I thought she said she liked him. But we were in the hallway and I guess I didnt hear right. I told this guy friend because he likes her somewhat. well it turned out that i was wrong and he told her that i told him and she immed me and was cursing me out and stuff. I tired to explain to her that i missunderstood and that i was sorry. She then told me that even if she had i had no right to tell him and that she wont ever tell me anything again. She wont even talk to me. I feel really bad about the whole thing. What shud I do?

I think you should give her a couple days to cool down... and then ask her if you could talk to her. If she doesn't want to just say that you are extremely sorry and say that you hope you can be friends still! Just tell her that you really care about her. Hope i helped!

Q: ok well i started to like my best friend, and i was talking to him one day, and he asked me who i liked and i couldnt lie so i said it was him. acctaully, i asked him who he thought it was and he said he thought it was him, so i said it was. ever since then we've still talked and stuff, and things only feel a little different. today, i told him i didnt like him anymore. he asked me why and asked if it was because i liked someone else.. while in my head i was thinking aww i imed him back and said no, its because its screwing everything up between us. then i got booted off. but i dont know what to do, i wanna stop liking him but i cant!
I think you have to stop... and ask yourself do i really like this guy? Then, if you think it's right, go out with him. It sounds like he likes you. I mean he asked you y you didn't like him anymore! Hope i helped!

Q: Im 13, and im in 8th grade. Theres this girl, her name is Ashley. She is VERY annoying and she constantly follows me and thinks im her best friend. Shes not my best friend! I have 3 best friends and she is tearing us apart becasuse whenever I leave her for them, she gets mad, and I can't even talk to them without her there! I don't know how to get rid of her because I really want me and my best friends to hang out again without her! I know it's mean but I dont have a choice and shes very geeky and nobody really likes her! Please don't tell me to tell her to go away because everyone is telling me to do that and I don't have the heart to. What should I do?

~Kylie~
I think that you should tell her the truth that you would like some time with your friends and that she is being a little bit of a nosy person. Don't be rude and just tell her that you don't mean to hurt her feelings! Hope i helped!

Q: My Birthday is today ^_^ im turning 14,and i dont no what to do for it [[im having to friends over but i dont want to bore them]] What should i do?
You should totally play some awesome music and watch movies! Or you should go outside and play volleyball and badmitten! Hope i helped!

Q: Alright i have a few friends that are awesome to hang out with and everything but now they are telling me that they cut...not always but once in a while i guess i was too scared to really ask...and now i dont know what to do...i dont want to make it serious because i dont want one of my friends to hate me...but they might just call me stupid and stuff because i never dont anything like that. i'm very scared and i dont know what to do. if you can please help me because i dont know if i can handle seeing them tomorrow without breaking down in tears because i'm so scared. Thank you so much.
If you cry it's no big deal it just means that you care about these people and you are extremely worried. All i can tell you is don't cut yourself it doesn't make you look cool and it doesn't look attractive. Just talk to your friends, and don't worry! Hope i helped!

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