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umm ok here goes i have a friend and i was over her house she has a bunch of fish
i was bored so i decided to take one out and by accident dropped it out the window and she was in the kitchen
i dont know what to do i feel guilty but i mean she has a bunch of fish (fishes) w/e the right way to say it is lol
what do i do
fish_killer (link)
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Do what feels right! Feeling guilty is a way of telling us to do the right thing! Every person has there own right thing to do. For others your right thing may sound silly but for you its perfect.
I myself would tell her what happened. Shell understand. I mean if she has many of them then she might not even notice and my feeling is if she didnt notcie by now then she wont even care. But its better to tell her the truth!
h0pe i helped
love always maria
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i have this friend and she jsut went on this trip with our other firend Beth. and i called them cuz i told them i would call them back anyways..well my friend Beth is ahving trouble with like taking and being aournd this boy. well i wanted to give her adivce on it and my friend said that they had to go and i said can i please talk to her and she liek your on speaker and then i srat talking and then im like you get it and i relize that they hung up and like i know this is kinda stupid but like i feel realli left out...but i dont know if i should though and like i am really good friends wiht beth and my other friend and like i was trying to help beth and they jsut hung up on me i feel realli dumb cuz i felt like ot myslef..and im realli upset what should i do????
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really confused=/ (link)
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Aww I am sorry babe! Dont get all upset over that. It could have been an accident! You never know. So before getting all sad, you should wait and talk to your friend about it. Ask her what happened. I assure you it probably was an accident especially if she was on a cell phone. Cell phones get bad services just about anywhere and all the time. You shouldnt feel left out because I bet you have great friends and they do care about you its just you need to understand your friend is going through a bad time. I mean imagine you in her shoes. Even if she did hang up it wasnt because she wanted to make you feel left out or upset it was probably because she wasnt thinking. It happens so just try to cool down and call your friend later or better yet wait till she calls you.
hope i helped
love always maria
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lets call me MISS i have this friend she lives next to a place filled with books lets call that a library!
i need a book from there for my exit project but im so lazy to go get it!
should i ask her to get the book for me
what if she says no what should i do?
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Hello Xmiss_confussedX
Well if you need a book from the library
and its your exit project then you go get it.
Unless you have a good reason for not having enough
time to go by yourself but i see you said you are
lazy! hmm sweetie i dont think thats a good enough reason. But if your friend is nice enough to get
it why dont you ask her. But honestly you should stop being lazy and get the books yourself.
Just being honest here
Love always maria
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Ok. I was planning a surprise for the best teacher of all time. I had the principal call my teacher out of the room and had the assistant principal come in and i discussed the surprise and collected some money. Right after my teacher came back, my friend shouted out, "Mrs. *******, we have a surprise for you." The class went dead silent and I almost burst into tears. During my next class, I wrote him a note explaining that if he had any consideration for other people, he wouldn't have blabbed. He is now officially supermad at me, and I feel terrible. I think I came off as a bitch and i need to fix that by the morning! Ahhh (link)
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wow hun you shouldn't worry about it. No your not a bitch. First off you did the right thing you told him how you feel and what he did was wrong. oh my god if that was me i would have punched him in the head or kicked him in the balls or something
but then agian it wouldn't be the wrong thing to do. so i respect that you took the time to write him
a note so that no one could see it. So i dont undersrand what hes problem is! He was wrong and he needed to know that! And you told him in the best way you could have. Dont worry hes just a baby and you didnt do anything wrong!
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One of my best friends has been dateing this guy for a year. we are both 14. well i have always thought this guy wasnt good for her, i mean he has kicked her, black mailed her, and even sent threats. the threats were jokes, but they wee serious at the time. like there was one rape one. well lately she has been ignoring me for him. it is true that he hasnt been so bad lately and it seems like her does love her, but i still cant take it. it doesnt seem fair that i have always TRIED to be with her, and he hasnt and she takes the side of him. what should i do? should i tell her? should i just let it slide? (link)
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First off if she really was a true friend she wouldn't leave you for him unless you told her to pick one or the other. That would be wrong by the way.
so i hope you didn't do that. But if you still feel like you love her and miss her just talk to her tell her how you feel. That would be the best thing to do. But dont make her pick one or the other. It wouldn't be right to pick your best friend over the guy you love. I actually think it should be chicks before dicks but when your in love you dont care about anything anymore so try to understnad her. i am sure if you talk to her everything will be great
love always maria
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ok, there's this girl, i'm not really 'friends' with her but i act like it because she is shy and not a lot of people can stand how shy she is...anyways, at lunch yesterday her chicken sandwich wasnt cooked properly and she started telling me to bring it up for her. so i said 'no, it's yours, i'm eating my lunch, you gotta do some things on your own' was i right? because she always wants someone to do things for her....like take out her trash go to the bathroom with her...i'm sick of her being so dependent on others. (link)
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Im sorry to say hun but you didn't do the right thing or at least in my eyes. I have a friend just like her. And the reason for her acting the way she does isn't becuase shes lazy or wants people to treat her as a princess its actually because she has problems of self Confidence. She feels shy around people because of that reason only. She feels as if though people are gonna think she's ugly, or not cool, or whatever the reason is. She may had also had bad experience with another person putting her down. So please next time why dont you actually take the time to talk to her and ask why shes so shy. You may be surprised with the answer. You yelling at her to do it her self may have put her down into thinking she's a bad person. And i dont think thats the case. By the way another word of advice if you dont care about her and arn't really her friend you shouldnt make her feel as though you are that could really hurt her feelings. Its better to leave people that you feel sorry for alone then to hurt them even more then the already are. Trust me on this.
dont mean to sound like a bitch with everyone else telling you you are right but juts telling it how it is and maybe some other points of veiw
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