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Q: I need help. My mom iz Raggin on me on how i don't get enought excersize. I want to do excersice, but I don't like many sports. Help?

I DUNNO JILL!!! AHHAHAHA...lol (shes my friend and she creeps mi out! if u wanna go 2 her advice its Jillybean!!! or u can click da link 4 mah fav columnist!) well jill, i think that u shud research a variety of sports. like, maybe u shud consider things that are being done at our skool, or look at leaugues dat are juss startin now! and skiing ish about 2 start so u can go skiing wit mi!!!!!!!!!! yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy (even tho my bro wud hate dat, but it'll be funner if he duz!!!! mwahahaha) lol, well, 4 all ov u who are readin this and thinkin i'm a total freak, noe this: THIS IZ NOT A REAL ADVICE THING. ITS JUST MI FOOLING AROUND WIT MY FRIEND ON DIS 1 ADVICE THINGA MA BOBBER...OK??? hav a great day!

Q: Okay, first let me say I'm going to be 17 in a week.
I've been friends with this one girl for the majority of both our lives. We used to go trick or treating every year, and she's going to want to go again this year, whereas I feel I'm too old, and I don't want to go. I know I need to tell her I don't want to go and not just make excuses, but something in me doesn't think she'll understand that I just don't want to walk around in a costume, yelling "TRICK OR TREAT" for candy.
I mean, I LOVE sugar. Seriously, I do - but I'm sick of trick or treating. How do I tell her I don't want to do this without hurting her feelings? 'Cause I know it's gonna bother her. Our friendship is sort of dwindling...sucks, but true. She's 17 too, by the way. Thanks in advance for the help.

i think that ur friend will understand if u lay it out in the right way. first of all, excuses will lead u no where. they'll only make ur friend mor angry wen u tell her the truth. u shud tell her that u feel that ur too old to do it with her. maybe then she'll agree and feel stupid for wanting to do it and go with u. suggest sitting at home and watching scary movies while eating popcorn. or maybe throw/ go 2 a party with her. u can wear costumes then! hopefully she'll understand :)
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Q: i jus moved to another skool and ive been there for like three weeks and everyone seems nice...but thats not the problem...all of my friends from my old skool seem to always seemed to b pissed at me!!it kinda seems like there happy that i moved! i tryed to talk to them and they all r sayin that ive changed big time scence i moved...i dont think i did!i really want to keep my friends but they seem to not wanna keep me ...HELP!!!
i rate good!

i think that its ur friends problem if they don't wanna hang out wit u only cuz u moved. if they think that sumthin as trivial as moving iz cause to be mean then maybe they weren't such good friends after all. or maybe (i always hav 2 give another side lol) they trying 2 put u out ov their mind cuz they r upset that ur gone. maybe its just their way of copeing. well, in my opinion, they're yesterday's news. concentrate on ur new skool and makin new friends who treat u rite!
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Q: hi ist ashley i have a problem u already know about lets just say its about "apple pie" or the "blue monkey" anyway things have been getting worse because the BM is like useing me because now BM never talks to me and BM once told me i was treating her like a backup friend and now thats how i feel!

hey ashley...yea the blue monkey iz kinda annoying (i shud no) anyway just put sum distance between u 2 cuz its only gonna get worse if u keep hangin out wit her. thats how it wus 4 mi. and she's such a hipocrite cuz she uses alot ov ppl as "bakup friends" too. lyk wen i stopped hangin out wit her, dats y she went wit u (no offense). so i hope ur problem clears up soon and i will tlk 2 u about it l8er!!
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P.S. For evry1 who iz confuzed about how i no this person, ashley, she goes 2 my skool and the blue monkey iz an annoying person :P

Q: i can't believe my friend. i told her i had a crush on this dude and then when she i caught her flirting with him! later in the week he asked her out and she said yes. i can't believe her nerve >:O wut shoudl i do

well, some ppl in this world can be very cruel sumtyms. but maybe there iz a diff reason y she's messin wit ur guy. maybe she likes him and iz afraid dat u'll get him first or she's envious of u cuz u take all the good guys. just confront her and figure out wut her deal iz. once u get dat info u cud maybe find a way 2 work thins out between u guys. gud luk :)
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heYy yALl, mah name iz stephanie .:stefy or stef 4 short:. umm, i luv 2 give advice and i'm pretti good at it, so ask mi any ques u want! I luv to dance! .:hip hop n jazz:., sing, act .:plays:., horsebak ride!!.:english or western but i like english betta:., sports .:soccer, tennis, volleyball, swimming, etc:. and hang out wit mah friends .:u guys noe who u r!!:. so i hope dat gives u a lil info on mi! xox :)
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