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My name is Alex or you can call me w/e u want i dont really mind.My main interests are love,listening to music,reading,and writing music and poetry.You can come and talk to me whenever you like at my aim :acdcbothways *note im always on just most of the time invisible* My music taste includes techno,80s metal/hairbands,new wave metal,underground,punk,grunge,some country,death metal,and classical.
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hey, well im 13/f and im in the 8th grade. i went to a school kidnergarten until 6th grade then transfered for my 7th grade year. the school i transfered to is a school that has 7th grade up till 12th grade. at my old school i was pretty popular. i had a lot of friends both boys and girls. in fact, i used to be more popular then most people in my old school. then when i transfered [i transfered with some of my friends from my old school] i became less popular. the friends that i once was more popular then became more popular than me. sometimes they hang out with an older crowd like 15 year olds. in my new school, basically all i have is them. i dont hang out with the 15 year olds like they do. sometimes i feel excluded. i cant find a new group of friends because there is no one. i tried hanging out with new people and i just felt like a third wheel. i cant talk to them either because i did that twice and then they fix it for like a week then start again. i dont know what to do. help me?
Join a club,make an effort to hang out or atleast try to get to know the people they met,so on.
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OK so, all of a sudden I feel hated by like everyone. I can't stand it, I feel like I'm not wanted [anywhere] anymore. Not even at home! Does anybody have a reason to this? .. Some comforting advice? ...
-Thanks
ok well i think alot of the columnist would agree with me when i say,theres ALWAYS someone atleast one person who loves you unconditionaly,friend,family,something.i know it seems that way sometimes but god shows you bad in order for you to apreciate the good then he brings back those good feelings,i hope everything turns out good for you.
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well i look at these three girls there all very much pretty, they'll beet anyones a*, and everyone loves them. I want this so bad it hurts. I want a best friend i can do crazy stuff with. But i dont have one i have tryed mnay times to relate to People i know But i cant. and it just doesnt feel right, What do i do?
You cant force a bond with anybody,if someone comes into your life and is that close to you it takes time and it just happens.
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My friends want to hang out but we don't know what we want to do. Have any ideas??
if yahll like to play pool,thats always kewl
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ok me and my friend are really close she is like my sister but a year ago she started to hand out with other people and she gets drunk every night and does drungs and parties a lot (i mean i party to but not like her) and i have notest she has started cutting heself and she has just been mean to me and if any of u read me last advice u kno i just found out that i am pregnet i try to tell her and talk to her but she just wont talk to me......plz help me i dont now what to do i am soo confussed i am scared of lossing my best friend-----thanks
i know its hard to see that ur best friend is changing, but people change. She may not even realize that shes hurting you. I had a "sister" like this she didnt care abotu much either and she had a adiction to to cutting. she made everyones life a living hell. i had to dump her as my sister and made her my friend =/ cus i feared that she was guna make me be something to her i didnt want to be. so your options are probly A:deal with it B:talk to her about it one on one C:dump her. sory to be harsh . good luck. i hope everything works out for you. it always sucks loosing a friend.
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My best friend and I got into a fight a while back and we are good now and all but I'm still feelin a lil bit weird about it. I love my friend more than tha world but Im scared to talk to em about stuff in my life because I remember how hurtful he was during that fight. Whenever he wasn't around it sucked cuz lots happened and he was the 1 that i usually ran too. Im scared to trust him again. What makes it worse... the guy I was in love with and i broke up after that. Im having trust issues. I feel like Im drifting away from people I was once close 2 and there is nothing I can do about it. I dont want to trust them... Im still hrt and afraid to love or trust. Any Advice?
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well,i was in this similar situation. i loved this friend dearly and i dont know what happened.i wish she would forgive me too and theres not a day goes by that i dont want to get on my knees and ask her to forgive me. the truth is, im not sure if ull ever forgive ur friend ...its hard to say....i dont know if my freind that i call a sister will ever forgive me.i know ive hurt her and i want to tell her sorry too. I hope you 2 get it worked out cus theres nothing that hurts worst then to hurt a friend. good luck to you.if u want to talk im me at acdcbothways.byes.
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