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Q: ok so my best friends and i have been together since the 5th grade. but one time i made a mistake and sent a kinda rude e-mail to them. i apologized and we were friends again. but then they acted like they didn't want to be friends with me anymore. so i sent another e-mail asking what was going on and why they were leaving me out. my one friend responded, yelling at me, she told me that it was my fault and im becoming distant and im being moody. she didn't understand that im busy and im growing up as well. soo today i figured out that all three of them, got together and hung out behind my back and once again, she acted as if it was my fault. i don't know what to do? im not becoming distant or moody! im a woman, and im growing up. i don't know if they're right or if i should move on and make more friends besides them? what should i do?
Yes, move on and make new friends. Sounds to me like you've apologized and tried to talk to them about it, but they just aren't listening or caring.
If you don't make new friends, be prepared to be left out, ignored, ect.
Don't let anyone do that. They obviously aren't good friends.
Best of Luck! :D

Q: We broke up after dating for about 3 weeks. Before then we had known each other for about 6 months and we talked to each other about everything, he was pretty much my best friend. Right after we broke up, we didn't talk for awhile and I missed him a lot but I thought I would get over it. Then he started texting me again and we were getting back to being friends, and it wasn't so awkward... until he told me he wanted me back. But a couple weeks after I turned him down (reason being I have a new bf), he started telling me about this other girl that he wants to ask out, and he wants me to help him "get it to flow". So... he asked me if I would go on a double date with bf with them. Do you think he's really moved on and that this would be a safe move? Or should I turn him down again incase he's still not over me?
I agree with Insanechild.
Go for it.

There's no reason you all can't be friends. He might actually be serious this time and trying really trying to move on.

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