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Dear fran,
Why do you have an advice Column?
Please Help!!!!!!!! (link)
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cus i want to?
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dear fran,
i have these friends we call our slefs the fantas or sum other names... they have 4 ppl in em and were best friends, well tonite, i came to check my AM and one of the "fantas" had an away message saying that 2 "fantas" n her were having a sleep over at herhouse... i was nvr invited! im confused n hurt a lot! were suppossed to b best friends, but wen they dont invite you to wat is the last sleep over of the summer.. how r u suppossed to feel? it hurts and im upset... please help... thanx
Upset friend
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Dear upset friend,
u need to confront them... y wernt u invited it! thas majorly not cool of them! i mean seriously u need to call them and ask y wasnt i invited and find out how ur sposed to feel... i would b majorly pissed i mean i completely feel ur pain! if i wer u i would beware... in 5th grade me and my frends had this thing called the "queen quints" and let us jus go no farther then saying alota ppl got extremly hurt and it aint to pretay! sumtimes havin that many frends like that can jus b a lil 2 much! anyways good luck and hope i helped.
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Fran,
I so need to talk to you or someone about something.Something odd is so happening in my life right now!
Help,
Lily(See away message) (link)
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fran,
this "friend" of mine, has these to guy friends... they said sum shit about one of my friends seeing them in their boxers... it nvr happend but my "friend thinks it did and thought i was there too... so now she thinks that they were rite, n thinks me n my friend are sluts, for looking! we nvr looked, and we nvr saw, cause we werent even there@ how could she think that! were suppossed ot b best friends! im so pissed! she thinks i would stoop that low! im not a slut, i hardly dress less than a sweatshrit n jeans! please help! i wanna figure this out! i c this creep that told our "friend" saturday at a game... help i wanna no wat to say to him b4 them! thanx
PISSED FRIEND!
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Dear pissed friends,
wat i think u should do is call up ur frend and tel it to her straight lol jus b like i dint do that and bla bla bla... basically everything u jus said up ther... if she doesnt believe u then screw her! and true frend would and she should! and for the creep... i would say anything... id slap him... te he he not really i gues but i would rule that option out completely... just tell him hes a freak and he should fuck off and that u dint do shit to him so he should leav u alone! i hate ppl like that... anyways hope i helped!
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my bff n i like the same guy.. but shes a slut(the way she dresses) and he seems to be coming more onto her than 2 me..i dont want to dress that way but how can i get his attention?
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Hey gurl,
heres wat i think u should do... jus flirt alot! u no and thers nothin rong with like tickling...hugging...stuf like taht!most important tho b ur self! if he doesnt like u for u then get over him! hes not worth it at all!good luck with the guy!
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umm ya its me again and in my thing i was saying that sum 1 told me that yur friend was really popular and so yur thing didnt help me any i was asking how i could make her not jealous or will she always be jealous of me beacuase all of the guys ALWAYS like me more
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Okay hey that was really mean and i hav no idea y guys like u more cus u must b a slut or really pretty or sumthin cus that was really really really x1000 bitchy! my advice tell ur frend shes way better then u and that she should get nice frends! good luck :-D hope i helped ya!
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hi i need yur help im really popular and pretty and my friend is a loser and not that pretty. every time we hang out with guys they all like me instead of her sum 1 told me u were in the same boat with 1 of yur friends so u might no about this topic pleaz help me so my friend wont be jealous (link)
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Hey hun,
i hav nooo idea hoo told u i was in the same boat!! mayb on the loser side lol!! im pretty i gues but i DONT think that im popular! thanx for the complement tho! umm heres wat i think u should do anyways... mayb find sum guy hoos more like her? to invite also sum1 hoos not so popular and more likely to go for her, then she wont feel so left out and on the outside. idk wat els to say cus wel i jus dont lol! hope that helped a lil! write me sum time!
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hey, i am always gettin asked to do stuff by my friends, and i do it.. but now im a pushover cuz i dont want them mad at me! so i do w/e they ask! and now its gettin really annoyin! and i just want to be myself and say no, and act myself but im to scared they would get mad at me, so im lettin my friends walk all over me.. can u plz help?!
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Hey hun!
heres my advice... tell ur frends that ur tired of it and explain wat u jus said to me to them! if they get mad then u deserve SO much better! frends should b sumthin to relieve stress not to add stress! dont b worried about them getting mad at u, they need to no ur not jus sumthin to use ur a person with feelings!! lol!! anyways i hope that helped a lil! write me sum time!
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okay well i read alot of ur advice and ur really good.. now can u help me? my best frend that got me and my boiifrend togehter is now wanteting to break uss upp//. and my boiifrend sed that hes not gonna let her between uss cuz he loves me.. but im sooo scared!! what shood i do! please help me!! shood i hate her 4 ever.. or 4 give her.. and she now apoliogises.. but my frends say that its not tru!! help me!!
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Hey hun,
it looks like u hav a tough situation here but bfor i start dishing out the advice u need to consider a few things like 1) do u really love ur bf 2? if so definantly dont break up jus bcus of her cus he sounds like he loves u 2)how long hav u been frends with this person? i think u should forgive her but ask her to appoligize to ur bf to and also i think u should ask her y she wants yall to break up and find out exactly wats going on with her. its alot better to hear it from her then from other ppl. so to sum it all wat i think u should do is keep the bf and forgive the frend if u talk it out with her and decide that she worth being forgived and that she wont break yall up cus no1 wants that to happen! lastly dont b scared!!! ur bf loves u and so he wont dump u bcus of this frined and if u friend is a real friend she will get over her problem soon enough!
good luck with all of this and i hope i helped! write me sum time!
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My friend just told me that her and my boyfriend have been dating, and she said that she didnt want to tell me because she didnt want to ruin our friendship. Do I ditch the guy and her, or just the guy and keep my friend (link)
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Hey gurl!
hmm u gotta toughy ther definantly ditch the guy!! wat a jerk! but about the frend... is she a really good friend that uv ben frends with awhile or jus a so-so? if shes a so-so ditch her.. wat a biatch! if shes a bff give her a chance to talk but she better make it good or else! ur bf couldve broke up with u and she couldve made him uck! in my opinion actualy u mite jus want to ditch both ur probly better off with out em as far as i can tell! hoo would want a frend like that?! sry i dont like frends hoo steal my bf and u deserve better then that too its up to u tho, hope u get it figured out! write me sum time
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ok this guy is my friend but he just told me he liked me. he sed: i like u and i care about u but u if u dont feel the same way about me than fuck it well be friends. he seemed mad about it but i couldnt tell cuz he sed it over the internet. idk wut to say.cuz hes cute and i like him as a friend and i do care about him but not that away. but he liked my sister a couple of months ago and i didnt like that. and now idk wut to say. please answer soon.
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Hey hun! wats up
it sounds like this guy really mite like u but if u dont like him just tell him that u dont have the same feeling for him but u REALLY stil want to b frends! if he gets mad hopefully he will get over it if hes a good frend, he will!about the sister thing u should mention that in ur explanation of not liking him it might help him understand a lil. make sure that u only like him as a frend and then try this! good luck! write to me sum time!
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