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hey i'm a guy, and one of my friends got pregnant. the whole school found out and eventually her parents did too. right now shes feeling terrible and her parents flipped out on her. i heard her talking to some of her friends and said she was considering getting an abortion. i asked her about it and she said shes worried and afraid its a bad idea. what should i tell her about it? i mean i don't think she should get one, but how do i help her with what she wants to know? thanks (link)
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personally im pro choice. its a bad choice to make but i dont think the government should get involved in making those decisions. you have to inform her. explain to her vividly what actually happens during an abortion and give her reasons why it is better to keep the baby and work through it. i know people who have gotten an abortion and they haven't been able to live with themselves since. they say that they felt horrible and empty. and that they were the worst people ever and if they could, they would take it back. don't let your friend make the same mistake my friends did.
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last night my friend asked me to go with her to this spaghetti dinner thing for this hockey association and all the hot hockey guys were there! well she use to go to that school..so all the hot guys knew who she was and would talk and flirt with her and stuff..and i mean yeah they didnt know me but i was SOOO jealous of her..i mean every hot guy like looked at her about 100 times..not even kidding and im just there like a nobody..i felt so left out and like i said what were they suppose to do tho? because they didnt really know me..well this brought my self-esteem down. and i dont know! im so bad at talking to guys..i never know what to talk about and i usually wont go up and talk to them first..and i have a myspace and im starting to like request cute boys i kinda know..but i dont wanna comment them! i mean i commented this one cute kids pic but i DOUBT he will comment any of mine..i dont think he is like that. if you dont like myspace and are gonna hate on it then dont even bother answering this. but i just need help! blahh and now im going out of town this weekend..and i have to go and of course i get invited to this hotel party..where these cute guys will be! or where i could of meet them. im soo mad. and i CANT repeat CANT get out of it. blah and so yeah this girl like hardly ever talks to me but i kind know her but she invited me to her party and now i cant go! i need a guy =( i feel so lonely..and im so jealous of like every girl..i feel so ugly..blahhHhh!! help me?!
sorry so long..
but i just need help..
i WILL rate! (link)
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when they say yes to your request keep up on it and comment saying thanks for the add cutie! ;)
or something like that. that's what i do haha
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ok so heres the deal.
i have been trying to set up my friends kiwi and josh for like a month...and i havnt seen my best friend houston in like 9 months... so this weekend houston asked me to go bowling with him and some friends and was like this is the only time ill be able to see you until october so i HAVE to go...so thats saturday night. and friday i promised my friend kiwi that she could spend the night with me... and that saturday during the day that me and my bf would double with her and josh. so i went to tell my bf the plans... and he told me that he wanted me to double with his mom and one of her friends thats going out of town for awhile. so now i have to choose between my best friends and my boyfriends mom! he was like no go hangout with that guy... your w/e he is... he gets so jealous and i want him to be there when i hang with him so he can see that houston is just my best friend... and i have to hang with kiwi but i really need to do that thing with his mom too. please help me! (link)
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ask your boyfriend to come hang out with houston. but tell him that you wish you could hang out with your mom but you had already made plans with houston. explain to him that you never ever get to seem him and you two are really good friends. let him know he has nothing to worry about and tell him that you would never leave him for houston.
hope i helped:)
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My best (girl) friends keep bugging me to ask out this guy who is my friend also. I really like him and all but I don't want to lose my friendship with him...but if I don't ask him my friends said that they would ask him out for me. How am I supposed to tell my friends to back off without seeming harsh?
-Confuzzled (link)
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the best way to handle this situation is to tell them whats going on in your head. tell them that you will ask him when you are ready and that you like the friendship you already have with him. tell them that you can take care of it and you'll give them all the details when something happens. that way they still feel like they are a part of it.
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My friend is mad at me. The details don't really matter but my main problem is I think she's going to tell my social studies teacher that I didn't help with other project. That is not true but she can be a real bitch sometimes and it's not under her to do something like that. I helped her find most of the information and pick out different things for our project I just couldn't put it together. How can I keep her from telling my teacher that I didn't help? Oh I don't really care if she's mad at me because she's a bad friend anyway. (link)
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keep a mental note of everything that YOU did towards the project and everything she did. if she tells the teacher tell them that you two have gotten into a fight and it is like her to be that way, then back yourself up telling him what you did and what she did and what you did together, if anything.
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I have a friend that lives in my appartment complex. She's always phoning me and asks if she can borrow one of my DVD's. I always say yes because I own lots and she's pretty good about returning.
Well I just got two movies from my dad, Willy Wonka and The Fog. She asked me already if she could borrow them and I told as soon as I finished watching them.
She just phoned me about a half hour ago and asked if she could borrow one of my movies. I told her sure. When she came over I told her she could watch anything except for those two movies that I hadnt watched yet. Then she got mad and said" well then I guess I won't be borrowing anything because those are the ones I wanted to watch". Then she left!!
I felt angry, like she's just using me to watch my movies. If she was a true friend wouldnt she have at least stayed for a visit to chat?
Am I overreacting or was that down right rude? (link)
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that was definitely rude. she had no right to do that to you when you are always being nice and lending her your movies. if she really wanted to watch it and you hadn't watched it yet, she could spend a few dollars at a local blockbuster.
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allright im a 13/f
my best friend is a 13/m and... he drinks but i never seen him drink but i was talkin on aim and he seemed like he was drunk the way he was talkin. but i want to know if he really does get drunk or if he was just tryin to impress me or what! see he said to me "why dont you come to my house and get drunk on friday" i was very upset! :( i NEED advice on this
please help me! (cry)! (link)
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talk to him about it, or take him up on hanging out and see if anything happens. you'll find out the truth and you can go from there
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I just got out of a relationship w/ a guy that I didn't talk to much before we started dating. He was a fun guy and I asked him to a dance and we got closer from there. Well, we broke up over a month ago, and he hasn't said anything to me at all really. He's smiled at me, but it's rare. I do want to keep a friendship with him even though he broke up with me. Should I talk to him first, or should I be patient and let it come...or tell him I miss talking to him? What would you do? (link)
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personally i would talk to him. if he's as nice as you say then he should understand
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