Hey...
I am a 14 year-old girl...and I love giving advice to anyone, about anything. I am a role model to ppl**luv all of you sistahs**, and one of them told me that I should start my own advice column..so here I am! I am an outgoing, fun, friendly, nice person...and I will always help ya, no matter what! Just ask a question, and I'll reply as soon as I can! Thanks!:)
Age: 14
AIM: sunshine2240
Member Since: March 11, 2004
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hi katie at the end of this you might find out who this is but oh well! ok like my friend have like a problem with me because i like a girl that is a year younger than me and i think she does too! so what do you think i should do? (link)
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wow sorry i have not been on this site in forever...but i would talk to the girl and see how she really feels about you being older and everything. to me, age doesnt matter if you really like someone.]
hope i helped:)
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Hey Katie, its Lisa...I dont need advice just wanted to say good job with the advice... ((LISA BD) heh...anyway
luvya katie ((marie))
hahah but anway...since I have to ask a question for advice... um...
This girl named kristin l. is really nice but sorta gyets pushed around by her bestfriend...they are always together...and her friend doesnt mean bad (idthink) but what should i say to her...? (link)
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Hey Lisa Marie..
I think you should just let kristin know that sometimes it seems like she's not being herself or that her best friend like has too much say over her..just really tell her how u feel..and I'm shure when you tell her best friend how she is acting and all she will understand and try to change her ways...and then you can all hang out. Her best friend might not even know she is doing this so when you tell her what you really think about everything that's going on, things should start to look better and brighter.
Thanks lisa..hope this helps
luv ya lots chicamuhlica!
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Alrighty here is the story...
Me and one of my best friends like this boy, but my friend always clames she likes him more. I have been out with him before though too, and he only lkes her as a a cloe friend, not like that. but he does like me! and i like him...so he asked me out again and i put MY feelings first this time and said yes. because the other times we went out my best friend always was pissed at me so i had to break up with him. but now she is so pissed at me! she called me "some" names and stuff...and frankely it pissed me off too...I told her i would break up with him if it ment we could be friends again but she said no because she doesnt want to see him hurt again...and since i have ALOT of shit going on in my life i decided i couldnt handel a boyfriend so i broke up with him...but the thing is i didnt do it just because of her, but some of it yah...and now she is so pissed at me and hates me pretty much and now her best friend hates me too...and i like them alot, and i am willing to do ANYTHING! i really want to be friends again, but nothing works! i have tried telling them that and saying how much i am sorry, but they just say i am irritating, so i tried not talking to them for awhile but i cant get them off my mind! right now is a time in my life where i need my close friends. And i havent even been able to talk to them about any of this stuff because they arent here for me anymore! and i just dont know wut to do.Please help me out because i dont know what to do, and just remember i will do ANYTHING! plz.... (link)
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Hey..
First of all...thanks for asking a question in my advice column! In a way..I can understand where you are coming from..since I have been in that same situation..somewhat. At this time in your life...friends are like one of your most important values..and I can see why your saying you really need them right now. Well gurl...you know I'm always here for you..and you can talk to me about absolutely ANYTHING. I would also suggest talking to a close relative..maybe an older sister or your mom...someone who understands your perspective and point of view..someone you get along well with and is there for you all the time. I'm glad you put your feelings first this time. I personally think it was brave of you to do that...so u go gurl! Newayz lol..I also think that your best friend should try to realize what you did just for her(well not just for her but her being part of the reason why)..If you really still like this boy..then I would suggest talking to him about this and just seeing where your "relationship" is going..Your best friends should also understand that you really can't help liking him because it's just what your heart is telling you..Even if they claim they like him more..that doesn't give them any right to criticize you for your own true feelings. Just try waiting a little while longer..if they are your true friends they will realize how important your friendship really is..and they will hopefully just accept your feelings! If after a while they don't try to talk to you or anything..just have a heart-to-heart..tell them how you feel..or have another good friend talk to the person and let them know what you are going through..This might help them to accept the true fact that maybe you guys are just meant to be!? If you have any other questions....let me know! Also...jus tell me what happens if u want....that'd be great.....
gOoD lUcK cHiCa!
*rate me plz!*
~*KaTiE*~
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Hi ummm everytime Im on the beach playing Vollyball Im in my bikni, and boys just keep trying to get my attintion alot!! umm and it makes me feel weird, why is that??? Im 15/fm (link)
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Hey..
You are probably just a little embarrassed by all of this attention. Sometimes gurls can feel a little uncomfortable in a situation where they get so much attention. Trust me, hun..lol I know exactly what it's like. But I've gotten used to it. It's just that the guys must like ur appearance and how u look...so they try to impress you and get your attention! Just always be true to yourself and never change! If you seem to like the guy too, go for it bcuz you never kno!:)Hope this helps
Mucho Amore,
~StArLiTeStArBrItE08~
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Hey my names Katie im 14 going on 15 and i have a friend named Jenn and weve been pretty much best friends since grade 6 and she has been awesum always there for me and understanding and laughs at my jokes ..but now ever since her boyfriend she has pretty much stopped being a good friend she makes me look stupid in english class by saying out loud KATIE UR SO STUPID THATS NOT RITE and the guy i like is in our english class and she knows that ..everytime i try to tell her wut i feel she laughs at me and i get so upset ..what should i do ? please help me (link)
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Hey...
My name is Katie as well..lol:) I am also 14 going on 15! I can understand your situation because I've been there before. I guess this is just the age where guys start to come before friends(which is not rite at all!) I would definetly suggest telling her your true feelings and if she laughs at you...tell her it's really important to you and that you feel like your friendship is growing farther apart. Try talking to her about how she can change these feelings you are having so that you both are happy in the situation. It would be nice if in the end...everything turned our right and you could even hang out with her and her boyfriend sometimes(and possibly the guy you like!)...If she doesn't understand your feelings and doesn't seem to care, then she needs a wake-up call. For this I would suggest not talking to her as much and seeing how it turns out. This way, she will hopefully realize that she really needs you in her life as a best friend...someone whose always there for her. I would suggest doing the first thing and if that doesn't work, you could try the second as a last resort. I hope this helped and plz, if you have any more questions, jus ask me..I'm StrLyteStrBryte8:)
Take care gurl and good luck,
~*KaTiE*~
Oh, and let me know what happens, alright!? Thx!!
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Hey Katie. This is Victor. I know no guys have asked you for advice yet. But i am desperate. I'm in 8th grade and there is this girl. I really really like her but she doesn't like me as much. However we are friends. How do i get her to like me more? (link)
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Hey Victor..
Thanks for asking the question....Well, your the first guy to ask me for advice, but that's alrite. Why are you so desperate for this girl? I'd suggest just always being yourself in all that you do...you don't have to go all out of your way to try to impress this girl. Just talk to her when you feel the time is right and let her know how u feel....Get to know her better and maybe things will eventually happen.....Thanks for checking out my advice column and please let me know what happens...hope this helps!
**KATIE**
(Good luck!)
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Hey Katie!!
I have light brown hair...but it definately doesn't look blonde. My friend...I think she is my friend....always calls me dumb blonde and says I'm bad at EVERYTHING she sees me do. My other friend...Lets call her Donna.... was talked to her and donna said that she said that the only reason that she calls me a dumb blonde and says I'm bad at everything is because she thinks I AM a really dumb blonde...(I'm not even blonde)...and that she thinks that since I'm so dumb It wont hurt my fealings and it makes her feal better about herself when she says that I'm bad at stuff. It makes me really mad!! I tryed talking to her about it and all she says is, " I dont do that." when obviously she is. I think she is the blonde 1 here but yeah. I really need advise!!! (link)
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Hey!!
Thanks for asking a question in my advice column! I'd first like to say that your "friend" has no right to criticize you for everything you do. She doesn't understand that you have feelings and she most definetly needs a wake-up call. I think that it was a good thing you talked to her. Try becoming closer to her...and earning her trust even more so that you can trust her to not say anything about you. I am shure that you are not bad at everything you do...maybe she just says that because she is jealous of how good you really are! People can be that way..trust me...I have been in the situation. A good friend of mine was jealous of me all this time and I never knew until she finally told me...and we worked things out...and now things are just great in our friendship:) What she is saying about you most definetly does not make you feel good at all and it is really painful to think that your friend would do that to feel better about herself. Of course you know that she is just trying to put you down and see how much pain you can handle. Don't give in. Keep telling her how you feel, trying to resolve this issue. Also, it may help to talk to other friends and see if they can get her to change the way she thinks. I know this may be hard to do, but I know you can do it. Please let me know what happens and leave me feedback. Thanks...and please, if you have anything you want to talk to me about and get some advice, just let me know.
I wish you the best of luck gurl!
**Katie**
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Hi! this is the same person that submitted that other advise thing about her best friend and boyfriend issue. I tried talking to her boyfriend and all he did was laugh and say ha ha I ruined you friendship. I think it is totally bogas that she can't just dump him because he is just a boy and I have been friends with her since kindergarden. Do you have any other advise, because I keep trying to talk to them, but nothing is happening. (link)
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Hey!
Thanks for asking another question..and telling me what is happening with your situation. Thanks for trying my advice...I kind of figured that this boy wouldn't really understand...because...well you know some guys these days..lol:) If after you have talked to both of your friends...just give them time...talk to other friends and things like that.....then this friend will realize how important your friendship really is(hopefully) and she will think twice about this boyfriend of hers. Try this...and I hope it works..let me know again:) Katie
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ok hey Katie,
I don't want to say my name, so I'll just call myself....Liz.....ok well I have these 2 friends, and I really like them and all, but they always tell eachother whatever I tell I tell them not to tell. So ok well reply asap. thanks alot!!!
~*mad*~ (link)
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Hey "~*mad*~"(Liz),
Thanks for the advice question. I would suggest talking to both of your friends...just telling them how important trust is in a friendship. If they are your true friends, they will definetly understand where you are coming from and they will try to keep your secrets a little better next time...and hopefully you will see some changes. This way, you will be able to trust your friends even more...and your friendship will become even stronger and closer because of this. I hope it helps...if not tell me. Please ask another question whenever you need to. Thanks:)
*~Katie~*
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